I will likely stay at home. If I have to go out, I will avoid people. Definitely wearing black!

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Going to a Mason Jennings show with my girls.

One of us is trying to be distracted from asshole exes (um, hi, that would be me), another just broke up with her boyfriend because of distance issues and the third cosiders Mason to be her boyfriend. So yeah. After that we're doing girls' night stuff which may or may not involve getting trashed and bitching about men. It should be good.

Oh my......have I found my twin on here?

Several months ago I dated a guy from work, really liked him, and then he just blew me off and I never found out why. Well, he told my best friend Friday night that he almost got back together with his ex and that's why he just disappeared, but that he still really likes me and wants to date me. But that can't happen, because.....

He slept with another girl from work, who also happened to be out with us that night, and who happens to have a major thing for him. We all came back to my apartment and my best friend said the two of them got into a huge fight (I was passed out by that point) and she was almost crying, demanding to know how he could sleep with her and not like her. It's horrible. If I hated this girl, I might go after him regardless, but I like her. So it's just not in the cards, at least right now.

What happened with you?

By the way Aurora......V.D. for Valentine's Day.....that is too funny......

Aww. See, thats why most men suck. Nope, with mine its a "We can't technically date" because of our positions at work, but we kinda have been but NO ONE knows, so when we are at work, or with our friends we have to pretend there is nothing going on, which sucks. anyway, he can't take me out since we are not supposed to be together. wow, its even more than that but way to much for this thread.

So I am now getting ALL my single friends together to go out. we are up to 6 now!!
Does anyone have any attached friends who feel bad or left out cause they are going on a date instead of with you and your guys/gals?? Well I do. and i feel bad.

I will be home alone since all my roommates have boyfriends :(

I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything. I'll probably be down to visit him that weekend, but only because that's the next weekend we both have free. I think Valentine's Day is stupid and commercial. If you love someone, you should tell them every day, not just one day... and definitely NOT in a way that involves all those flowers and chocolate and stuff. (don't get me wrong -- I love flowers... but it's commercial crap).

In a way, I'm scared to see what the day will bring. I've kind of had my share of uber-platonic friends coming out of the woodwork lately and professing their undying love. Oy.

To all of you who are going out with your girls, I know it doesn't feel great but it just means that you're surrounded by 5x more people that love you....

And who knows? There's gotta be a guy somewhere feeling just like you ;)

I'm giving all my friends cards, and hoping he doesn't call.

I'd actually love to be alone Feb. 14th.

I will be spending VD (which is what all of my roomates and I call it too!) working. Luckily I work at a day care at a country club, and will work "Parent's Night Out" from 7pm-Midnight. So I'll get to spend the night making little valentines crafts and playing sports with a bunch of cute little kids, which will hopefully keep my mind off the disastrous VD 2 years ago that permanently ruined 2/14 for me.

AMEN!

My Zeta man & I have no plans yet so I don't know what we'll find to do in 12 days!! Something including dinner & beers I hope ;)

Since my girls and I have no men but we do have each other, we're flying to L.A. for NBA All Star Weekend. I'm so excited; I've never been to the West Coast before....

The group I belong to at church will be hosting a Sisters' Appreciation Night so I'll be going to that I think.

Thats a hell of a nice Valentine Trip :)

They scheduled that on Valentine's day weekend? I wonder what genius thought that up :o .

ha! Hootie I totally support that idea. On the Valentine's Days when I was single, I used to plan girls' nights with all my other single girlfriends. Last year I actually had a Ladies Only Valentine's Day party on the 13th since V-Day was on Friday it worked out perfectly -- both single and attached girls got to come and hang out. I'd do it again this year but I'm moving and my life is too chaotic right now. :(

This year I have big plans for my man. I'm surprising him with a trip to a men's salon where he can get pampered for a change -- he's getting a hot lather shave, a haircut, and a "business manicure." Thats in the afternoon. He's taking care of dinner and afterwards we are going to see a jazz performer he likes who is in town. I've made all the arrangements for this in January so I'm really very excited that Valentine's Day is almost here.

NOt only will your man like that..but if i were you i would like that!

I can't see my man over vday..going up to visit him this weekend instead though to celebrate. I graduated before him...and vday is over a big holiday weekend that alums don't really attend which he will just want to sit around with the frat boys and drink out in the snow...so i gave him that time as long as he gives me this weekend!!! I can't wait to see him..long distance sucks.

my boy and I are going to my big sister's wedding.

A few other sisters will be there too (some in the wedding, some just attending). I am excited because this is my first valentine's day with my guy and my first wedding! Yes, I know I am 22 years old and I have never been to a wedding. Lame. Very lame. But how nice that it is for my big sis! I love her, and I am happy I can spend the day with the guy I love everyday not just on the 14th.

Wow -- I'm NOT the only one!! (well, ok, as soon as you go to this one, I will be... but for now, it's almost exciting...)

I'm 21 and never have either.

Butt sex?

-Rudey
--This never gets old

I won't even dignify that with a response.








Ooops.

Well, it's also President's Day on Monday so it's a 3 day weekend for all the collegians........

IS NOT.

We here at the Catholic BYU don't observe president's day. Actually, I don't think I've ever had off for it.

I try and avoid weddings. Its like visiting people in the infectious disease ward of the hospital, mostly safe but might be catchy :p

I'll be at sorority sister's wedding in KY! She's getting married on Valentine's Day! Fun times!

Yea I am going to that wrestling meet for sure. We get a hotel room and everything so it should be fun!!

Sounds like a great story, can we hear?


I'm working. VD is a GREAT day for those of us in the resturant industry. :-) C'mon, big money......

I've never been to a wedding either! But I will be attending one of my sisters on March 13...they got engaged at our formal last year, it was so cute!

Anyways, my horrible VD story: In my sophomore year, my boyfriend at the time forgot about Valentines day altogether. We didn't talk the entire day, and he finally called me at 1AM to tell me he had a present for me. I asked him what it was, and he told me it was a condom he had gotten at school that day from student health services. Just my luck, formal was 2 days later. So much for that, I dumped him, and didn't talk to him until May of this year. I never should have started talking to him again...wait, I think that belongs on the "boys that are bad for you" thread.

Guess what someone asked me out for v day then said that he cant go since he has to go to his best friends 21st birthday that weekend in lake tahoe. BUT that is okay with me cuz a Frat NAK one of my friends there that I know likes me invited me to a party Friday the 13th...... oh well........be nice to go......even when i was married I never celebrated V-day ON the 14th...........that is so weird......too bad this tradition will never break......

I wasn't expecting anything from Marc the Beta (as my LJ biaaas so lovingly call him) because it's still new and we're still just getting to know each other.

Tonight he called me and asked if I could take Valentines' Day off from work at the bar. The girl in me tried to get him to spill his plans, but of course he didn't say anything. I was on the phone with my boss less than 10 seconds after I hung up with him and I got the night off, even though it means losing $$$ in tips from a Saturday night.

Somebody slap me because I still can't stop smiling.

Dear Sandy,

I hate you.

Love and kisses,
jacquelyn.

I can hook you up with this guy I worked with last summer. He's really retarded and talks about racing his car...online. He lives in Dulles and I think he angered someone or something because he has one of those faces that look like someone batted it.

-Rudey
--Interested?

Does he like cats?

I won't be having a Valentine's Days. The boy is going to Austrialia to study abroad for a semester...and he leaves on the 12th. Boo.

So instead, we're going out on Monday night.

Too bad I have mono :p

I'm holding out a hope that I'm gonna get lavilered, but I don't think thats gonna happen.

But at least I'm getting dinner, and he knows hes not getting any...lol

My birthday is also the day before..happy b-day to the almost valentine babies!:D

Ghetto night
 

My best friend and I are going to celebrate bring single by hitting up all the dive bars in our home town on V.D., rather than some hip club. Honestly, I'm probably going to have more fun hanging out with her than I would some dumb boy. :p

OOOOOOH, what would the letters on the lavilere be?!?!

ps I heart dive bars too.