You've got a lot to learn about real life. Once you start living it, those "shoulds" and "musts" vanish pretty quickly.

If these guys didn't spend so much time partying with 20-somethings, then just maybe, they'd have the money to settle.

I'm going to stop beating this dead horse...you obviously have a certain view of life and I definitely wish you luck finding someone who shares it, because you're going to need it....have a super day. :p

This is very true.

I guess I am at an age where I "should" settle down, but I don't want to right now. I am happy the way things are, screw what other people think.

Sister, remember that everyone finds their happiness in their own ways, even if it's not the norm.

Just because you don't agree with it doesn't make these people evil and I think it's unfair that you look down on them for it.

But then again this is coming from a girl who likes to date men at least ten years older so I guess I'm perpetuating this so nothing I say will matter anyway. :rolleyes:

I don't claim to be a professional psychotherapist/psychologist. In fact, I dropped out of intro psych after the first day. However, I do feel, personally, that people who go around, acting like they're in their 20s when they're 40 or close to it just want to be young for the rest of their lives. They're Peter Pan sort of, except they aren't trying to be a child, but a 20something. The club scene is their Neverland. However, they should realize that they can't be in Neverland for the rest of their lives. DId people not think it was gross when Anna Nicole Smith married that 90 (or however old he was) year old guy?

You're making a lot of assumptions here. You're assuming these guys are partying like they're still in university and working in a crappy dead end job.

My 2 friends are not. They have excellent jobs, and plenty of money. While they may not be hitting on every 20 year old with 2 feet and a heart beat, they are also not ready to settle down.

The guy at the party I attended was like your friends. He has an excellent job and has three degrees. However, not all guys who behave this way are like that.

the dirty old man that i described before said that he wants to have a party and only invite me, this other girl and a guy who works with me. he said that we three are the coolest workers he knows. i am just grossed out by it.

the sick thing is that he is a doctor. thank God he is cardiologist and not a gynocologist:eek:

Almost a year ago, an older man (he is 36, I am 23) asked me out. He wasn't creepy or icky, and I'd just broken up with someone, so I thought what the hell.

Well, I wasn't the least bit attracted to him because he LOOKS much older than me. Receding hairline, the works. At a bar recently (we hang out strictly as friends), someone actually asked if he was my father.

I hate to admit it, but it was embarrassing.

hey, i'm going to be a cardiologist, what a coincidence!




















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