Move to NYC. One of my best friends lives up there and LOVES Asian guys. Heck, she's single right now, I'll play matchmaker! ;)

Veemers, that's a very rude comment for your friend to make! Who you date is your business and your business alone!

I'm white and I've only dated white guys...that's just how it happened. However, I am also Jewish and except for about a week in high school, I've never dated a Jewish guy. Does that make me a self-hating Jew? :D I don't think so. Would I date a black, Hispanic or Asian guy? Sure, if the chemistry was there. It's more if he's a good person and if there's chemistry, not what color his skin is.

Every time I reread this thread, it really makes me mad. Did you ever confront her? She needs to be confronted!!

You're not racist at all. It's all a matter of what your personal preferences are and no one can control your initial attractions for anyone. I'm Korean but I've only dated one Korean ever since I started dating. The rest were of other ethnicities.

You can't help who you're attracted to and you shouldn't neccessarily go looking to date someone outside of that just to please others or fill some kind of equal opportunity quota.

For instance, I am hispanic but I've never dated a latino and my last four boyfriends have been tall, blonde, and blue eyed. That doesn't mean I'm racist because I've only been with "white guys"...or that I don't like "my own kind." It's just been my experience.