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Buttonz 01-31-2007 02:34 PM

I've had the chance to cheat but haven't....didn't see a need to and I know myself, I'd wind up confessing because I'd feel way to guilty not to...

I can't see myself ever cheating on someone that I was in love with...and if I wasn't in love with a guy, I wouldn't being in a relationship with him anyway.

PrettyBoy 02-03-2007 02:13 AM

The thing that kills me is if guys do it then we're considered players, but if women do it they're considered to be sluts. It's all the same to me.

They're were several times when I could have cheated, but I didn't. It's not worth it. I like just one woman, and that's it.

LightBulb 02-23-2007 02:41 AM

haven't read the whole thread, but...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by RoyalEmpress33 (Post 1391624)
No, I would never do that. Even if my SO did it to me(it has happened before), I just can't picture myself being unfaithful. It's just not in me.

I agree. If you'd rather date someone else, break up with the person you're with. Do it out of respect for them, respect for the other person, and respect for yourself. By respecting yourself, I don't mean just not feeling guilty. I also mean that if you do cheat, people will always have that in the back of their minds about you. Some people will, at least.

So no, I've never cheated. I'm in love with my boyfriend and have been for over four years. :)

LightBulb 02-23-2007 02:47 AM

Whoops! I had already responded to this post. Oh well, I think my more recent post is better than the one two years ago, lol.

jon1856 02-23-2007 07:34 PM

There is a whole article on AOL about this:
http://coaches.answerology.com/index...rer=coachesnew

KSUViolet06 02-24-2007 12:49 AM

I've never cheated. I've been cheated on and it's no fun. I'd never want to do that to anyone else. If I feel like it's not working out, I just break up with you.

PrettyBoy 02-24-2007 04:23 AM

That's why I won't get involved in a relationship anymore, because this cheating stuff is just too much of the in thing to do.

afboiler 02-24-2007 11:41 PM

I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?

GeekyPenguin 02-24-2007 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by afboiler (Post 1403202)
I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?

Tell him to come see you when he has finalized divorce papers. You deserve someone who doesn't start their relationship with you on a lie.

James 02-25-2007 02:03 AM

Are you sure his wife isn't just causing problems for you?

Quote:

Originally Posted by afboiler (Post 1403202)
I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?



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