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Originally posted by valkyrie
I respectfully disagree. Invasive doesn't even come close to describing his actions of sneaking into the house when nobody is home and nobody knows he's doing it. Anything he is doing on her computer is her business. He made it her business when he decided to sneak his creepy azz into her house to play on the computer.

While I see your point, I just see a lot of potential for this blowing up in her face. She has every right to ensure her own privacy and make sure that he doesn't enter her home without her knowledge, but I don't think that is best done by snooping into his affairs.

She needs to stay out of this shady business as much as possible.

I am not sure about monitoring his activity on your computer. I think that you should change the the garage code and the passwords on your computer. Just do what you need to do in order to make sure he doesn't have access to your home and computer.

I don't think you should wait 2-3 weeks to confront him. You know he's been in your house without your permission, confront him now.

Tell him you know he's been in your house and on your computer without your permission and he is no longer welcome.

Don't tell him you know he's been downloading porn (whether you do or not), if he has been doing something he shouldn't, he'll get really nervous anyway.

So just go ahead and change the codes and passwords and tell him he's not welcome in your house anymore.

I wouldn't even tell your friend you changed all your codes and passwords. If you feel someone should have them in case of emergencies, give them to someone else you trust.

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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
Well I can't judge your situation, since I'm not being faced with anything similar, but it seems like you're making this kinda dramatic.

It is never a good idea to involve yourself in another couple's relationship. I don't care how good friends you are, you end up regretting it.

Putting ina keyblogger and monitoring what her husband is doing just seems like a bit much to me- I know you want to be helpful, but that is sooo invasive, and even if he is not cheating, you might find out things that are NOT your business, and that you never wanted to know about your friend or her husband.

Like I said, I cant judge cause it ain't me, but I think you would be wiser to just put in a new password for your internet acccounts and make sure that EVERYONE in your house knows that he is not to have it.

I am not going into HIS house and nosing around-- he is in MY house---therefore, I am not being invasive--HE is, not me!!!!
If he doesn't what me to know something then he shouldn't be in my house doing whatever--he should keep his sh!t in his own home, on his own computer.

And you are right, you are not in my position--- but step back and look at it from my point of view---- someone is entering my house (the house I own and pay the mortgage on) without my permission or knowledge and making a point of hiding the fact he is here. I have every right to know what is going on in my house--regardless of who is doing it! Ultimately I will be held responsible for anything that happens from my home.

-wendi

I still think that your best course of action is to keep him out of your house.

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Originally posted by alphagam-alum

I have every right to know what is going on in my house--regardless of who is doing it! Ultimately I will be held responsible for anything that happens from my home.

And the longer you wait, the more chance he has to do something for which you could be responsible.

This is why I don't give ANYONE my keys, etc. I won't be in this position because I won't do such a thing.

Sketchy shit is happening here!!

Tell your freind AND catch him in the act!!

If i were you i would do it soon b4 you get caught up in the drama!!:eek:

How is this any different from someone who is accomplice to a crime by knowing about it and not saying anything?

-Rudey
--Just wondering.