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ManndingoNUPE 12-26-2000 06:37 PM

Standing nake in the garage? Damn. I can't mess with that one. Well I knew it was over months before we decided to call it off. But the last straw was the night she flipped on me when I asked her about something she did.
I came in earlier than her, and I cooked, not knowing she was coming over, she also cooked later on, and only washed her dishes. I was like sweety why not wash them all.

She flipped. I mean she did everthing but turn her head around 360 degrees and spit green pea soup. She definately could have given Linda Blair a run for her money. I was like, she has lost her mind. In my damn house. Now I love you and yes the sex is good, but I don't want to wake up in the morning with a knife in my back, or my "real Kane" cut off. So I had to let her go. Not too long after that, she had a nervous break down, and was hospitalized.

So she trully had some issues. I hope she is happy now.

MN

Inquisitive 12-26-2000 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ManndingoNUPE:
Standing nake in the garage? Damn. I can't mess with that one. Well I knew it was over months before we decided to call it off. But the last straw was the night she flipped on me when I asked her about something she did.
I came in earlier than her, and I cooked, not knowing she was coming over, she also cooked later on, and only washed her dishes. I was like sweety why not wash them all.

She flipped. I mean she did everthing but turn her head around 360 degrees and spit green pea soup. She definately could have given Linda Blair a run for her money. I was like, she has lost her mind. In my damn house. Now I love you and yes the sex is good, but I don't want to wake up in the morning with a knife in my back, or my "real Kane" cut off. So I had to let her go. Not too long after that, she had a nervous break down, and was hospitalized.

So she trully had some issues. I hope she is happy now.

MN

ROTFLMAO@this post.



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Inquisitive 12-26-2000 07:05 PM

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Originally posted by novella000:
whew!! Good Lord help us! I am REALLY shaking my head at some of these posts!! Well... pull up a chair, I feel the need to vent!!!

My ex (or as my friends and family call him "The Crazy One") and I had a VERY ROCKY 10 or 11 months together. Our families were extremely close and so EVERYONE was really happy when we got together... One of his parents passed and shortly thereafter, we got together. He was helping me out a lot, as I am a single mom (not his child), & wanted us to be married -- almost from the jump. I felt swept off my feet, he helped with bills, spent time with my child, & basically did everything he was 'supposed' to do.
I was so happy. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
He loved to spend time with me, wanted me to be happy, sacrificed things of himself... He did not work, but had plenty of money from investments and insurance. Since he had a lot of free time & I am a full time EVERYTHING, mom, student, worker (volunteer, & your standard Mon. through Fri.9-to-5). I am already in my profession, so missing work is not an option for me (I don't work at McDonald's). I have serious responsibilities & it is BAAAD if I miss a day unscheduled. Well, he ALWAYS wanted me to call in, miss class, spend time with him AND my son on days I kinda needed time alone to bond with my not-yet-one-year-old. This became a problem for him - that I am such a BUSY woman.
The things he had once admired about me (my dedication, level of personal success, independence, etc.) became a HUGE problem; I couldn't do what he wanted WHEN he wanted. He began accusing me of all kinds of things (cheating, lying, stealing), waiting for me outside my job, calling me asking about background noises (dropped spoon, dishwasher, vacuum), asking me where I REALLY was when he'd called me at home. If I was at work, he wanted me to answer every time he called - meeting or no meeting. We would fight, he'd apologize, and we'd try to move on… This went on for about 8 months - he got increasingly possessive & demanding - before we started the break-up/get-back-together-cycle… He held things over my head (i.e. the shoes he gave my son for his B-day, the $10 he gave me to put in my gas tank, the $250 for my car note, etc.) I never asked him for anything, so I stopped taking. I figured he was troubled b/c losing one of your parents can cause major emotional issues… I didn't want to rock his boat even more. I thought I could stick it out and he would be okay after he got to a point where he could deal with it. Instead he said I was trying to shut him out and we fought even more, that I must be getting $$ from another man and I didn't love him.
I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN...
I was over his house and my company-furnished cell phone became the subject for an argument. He looked in my phone and started calling numbers (of co-workers) accusing me of cheating with these people.
He made me strip, stand in his garage naked http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif (it was cold as hell outside too) while he repeated obscenities to me. He held a gun in plain view, and doused the crotch of my pants with Listerine. He didn't give me my underwear back so when I did get my clothes back on (I only got my pants b/c he tore my shirt, glasses, and underwear up) things weren't so comfortable for me down there. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif We fought over my car keys b/c he insisted on driving "the whore" (as I was called) home. He wanted to drive me home persoanlly so that I wouldn't go over my "other man's" house and tell him what had just happened to me...
It might've been nice if I'd had another man to call... so he could beat my ex's a%%!
Needless to say - I did not have any misty-fuzzy-sweet-candy-coated-memories of my ex this Christmas. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif
Ohhh drama. Never again. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif


Huuuum, I understand that brotha man was financially set so to speak because of his investments and all so therefore he didn't really have to work. But Damn seems like he had a little bit too much time on his hands. Perhaps he should've gotton a lil side job just for the hell of it or maybe even gotton into some volunteering in his community. Something, anything to get his nose out of you you know what! Geees http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

NO MAN (WOMAN) IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WOULDN'T MAKE YOU CRY!



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Greek Cutie 12-26-2000 07:28 PM

Well, I knew it was over with the last four guys I dated when all they wanted was a piece of a@$. C'mon, it's not like they are going to get any after like 4 dates-Puhleezze!!! Now i am beginning to think that is what all guys want.

AKA2D '91 12-27-2000 03:50 AM

ummmmmmmmm. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

LOL

tickledpink 12-28-2000 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by novella000:
I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN...
I was over his house and my company-furnished cell phone became the subject for an argument. He looked in my phone and started calling numbers (of co-workers) accusing me of cheating with these people.
He made me strip, stand in his garage naked http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif (it was cold as hell outside too) while he repeated obscenities to me. He held a gun in plain view, and doused the crotch of my pants with Listerine. He didn't give me my underwear back so when I did get my clothes back on (I only got my pants b/c he tore my shirt, glasses, and underwear up) things weren't so comfortable for me down there. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif We fought over my car keys b/c he insisted on driving "the whore" (as I was called) home. He wanted to drive me home persoanlly so that I wouldn't go over my "other man's" house and tell him what had just happened to me...
It might've been nice if I'd had another man to call... so he could beat my ex's a%%!
Needless to say - I did not have any misty-fuzzy-sweet-candy-coated-memories of my ex this Christmas. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif
Ohhh drama. Never again. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif



Whoaaaa! Now, that tops quite a few of these. After I got over the fear, I don't know how I would've reacted to that one.


naturalbeauty08 12-29-2000 05:07 PM

I knew it was over when we didn't care whether we spoke or not.
I based our relationship on the Toni Braxton Song... Seven Whole Days... when seven days went by... I knew it was over.


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1savvydiva 11-05-2002 10:00 PM

I knew it was over when...I asked him face to face if he was cheating and I knew for a FACT that he was...and he lied so well, that I started questioning whether or not I had heard the girl right!!!

Damn when you can lie that good, it's scary!

zetafg 11-06-2002 10:36 AM

I knew it was over when over the X-mas holiday season my inner spirit told me he was getting married and got an ex-girl pregnant. I told him what I felt and I was right except that I had the wrong ex name. He didn't tell me when the wedding was but I found the invitations in his home and to my surprise the wedding was three weeks away. That was 8 years ago.

THANK YOU LORD for getting me out of that situation.

BabyBlue91 11-06-2002 02:46 PM

My grandfather died -- homey must have thought I was just looking for attention because he didn't visit my family or come to the wake or funeral. How's that for a solid relationship?

9dstpm 11-07-2002 04:29 PM

I knew it was ovah when.......
 
I knew it was ovah with my ex hubby when he gave me a f**king can opener (not even an electric one) and a funky little bottle of some Wal-Mart knockoff perfume for our first Christmas together while his mistress got some very expensive jewelry. And we had been married only 3 months at the time. I got a divorce quick, fast and in a hurry!!

GroovePhi62 11-07-2002 05:43 PM

Ya'll Don't Even Laugh!!!!
 
It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off. :eek:

Ideal08 11-07-2002 06:25 PM

Re: Ya'll Don't Even Laugh!!!!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by GroovePhi62
It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off. :eek:

How can you expect us not to laugh at this?! LMAO!!! Oh, this right here is outrageous!!!!!

This thread truly does throw your past in your face. zetafg, I'm with you... Thank God for the closed doors!!!

beauty_6049 11-07-2002 07:00 PM

I knew it was over when he started to act tough and disregard my statements toward him. This was odd because I kinda wore the pants in our relationship and he was ok with that. I should have known that relationship wasn't going to work when he wouldn't stand up to me when we argued!:mad:

FeeFee 11-08-2002 12:40 PM

Re: You know we're laughing
 
Quote:

Originally posted by GroovePhi62
It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off. :eek:

This story right here is drama for ya Mama, for real! LMAO!

Pimpslap, "You my B*****" - ROFLMAO!!

Eclipse 11-09-2002 08:09 PM

I knew it was over with a college sweetheart when he came back to school from Christmas vacation to tell me he had gotten married over the break but it did not mean our relationship had to change! LOL Uhhh.... I think the relationship HAS changed! It seems he had been dating both of us at the same time (she was in NY, we were in Atl) and he married her so she could stay in this country legally.

Dedicated1 11-10-2002 09:13 PM

I knew it was over when I was in Atlanta to see the guy I was engaged to and a woman called the apartment and I made dumb, dumb drop me off to her apartment to speak with her. She and I had some drinks and she told me everything about him and how she did not know he was engaged to someone that lived in another state. After she and I were finished with our two-hour conversation, dumb, dumb picked me up from her apartment (they lived in the same apartment complex) he knocked on the door and asked for me and swore he did not know her. She looked at him and said to him how he had just spent the night with her and he looked at her and told her that he did not know her:eek: The funny thing about it was that besides him being soooooooo stupid for taking me over there, I was happy that I had a reason for breaking off the engagement. When I gave him his ring back and got on the bus to go back home, A huge burden was lifted off my back. He got married less than a year after we broke up apparently to someone else he was dating. He still to this day is trying to get back with me but I'm not having it:cool:

Kodaka 11-12-2002 07:18 PM

Clues that I knew it was over
 
I was a junior in high school dating an entering college freshmen....clue #1

2. When I REPEATEDLY called his dorm room and his roomate would ask who's calling.....I'd answer, and he would repeat my name loudly...then there would be this long silence where the roomate would sputter..."oh, he ain't here right now."

3. When he came home for Christmas and my pictures and name that used to adorn his dresser and mirror were replaced with "Tracy's" a "homegirl" at school.

Kisha 11-13-2002 12:00 PM

I knew it was over when I received an email from my ex’s coworker telling me she was pregnant by my fiancée.

Ideal08 11-13-2002 08:22 PM

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Originally posted by Dedicated1
I knew it was over when I was in Atlanta to see the guy I was engaged to and a woman called the apartment and I made dumb, dumb drop me off to her apartment to speak with her. She and I had some drinks and she told me everything about him and how she did not know he was engaged to someone that lived in another state. After she and I were finished with our two-hour conversation, dumb, dumb picked me up from her apartment (they lived in the same apartment complex) he knocked on the door and asked for me and swore he did not know her. She looked at him and said to him how he had just spent the night with her and he looked at her and told her that he did not know her:eek: The funny thing about it was that besides him being soooooooo stupid for taking me over there, I was happy that I had a reason for breaking off the engagement. When I gave him his ring back and got on the bus to go back home, I huge burden was lifted off my back. He got married less than a year after we broke up apparently to someone else he was dating. He still to this day is trying to get back with me but I'm not having it:cool:
I can't even tell yall how absolutely crushed, hurt, and PISSED OFF I would be if some mofo did this to me, meaning the other woman. I mean, really... to spend the night with you, then the next day, LOOK YOU IN THE FACE and say he doesn't even KNOW you?! That's just jacked up.

Dedicated1 11-17-2002 08:34 PM

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Originally posted by Ideal08


I can't even tell yall how absolutely crushed, hurt, and PISSED OFF I would be if some mofo did this to me, meaning the other woman. I mean, really... to spend the night with you, then the next day, LOOK YOU IN THE FACE and say he doesn't even KNOW you?! That's just jacked up.

I see this ALL the time on my campus!

1savvydiva 03-25-2003 06:51 AM

TTT

AKA2D '91 03-25-2003 11:19 AM

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Originally posted by 1savvydiva
TTT
girl, you really were bored at "5 oclock in the morning."

LOL

bro_strawter 03-25-2003 04:08 PM

how appropiate.
 
This just happened to me this weekend.

I knew it was over when she told me "well, I guess now you see you can't turn hoe into a housewife":eek:

She also said "you should have know I was no good back when I..." Believe me, I'd rather not say. :mad:

When the very last time she walked out of my house, and I didn't hurt. I new it was over.

Right now I feel like such a burden has been lifted off of me. I'm smiling inside and out. It's the Lord's doing. HE won't allow me to be hurt by her any more than she already have.

Honeykiss1974 03-25-2003 04:13 PM

Re: how appropiate.
 
Quote:

Originally posted by bro_strawter
This just happened to me this weekend.

I knew it was over when she told me "well, I guess now you see you can't turn hoe into a housewife":eek:

WHOA! :eek:


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