It's not just about inner beauty. Some people are genuinely attracted to what many might consider unattractive. There are men that are sexually attracted to obese women. There are women who are sexually attracted to obese men, or really skinny men. It happens. Just because it doesn't turn you on, doesn't mean it doesn't turn someone esle on.

Yeah, that's sort of what I mean...I'm not a very big person, and if a guy was smaller than me he'd be pretty tiny! That, to me, isn't attractive...I like to think I wouldn't be able to beat up the guys I date. :p Thin is OK, but downright skinny is not good--one time in high school I had a crush on this guy and I was over the moon when I got the chance to dance with him at a sock hop, only when I put my arms around him, I felt nothing but...bones. He was so light I think I could've picked him up! Height doesn't really matter, but if I can see ribs...it's a no-go. :p

i think "not so skinny girls" are disgusting creatures

they do. in fact, i avoid having any kinds of talks with a fatty, because i dont want them to get any ideas of me and them together.

lolololol

I don't like not so skinny girls either. Especially the ones that are total b**ches and then when you don't like them they say "You don't like me just because of my weight." I'm not atracted to you because of your weight. I dislike you based on personality.

i was banned for flaming users and cussing too much.

here, i am stating my opinion and disgust for overweight women. why are you taking such offense?

are you pissed off that you'll never get a guy like me? i'll tell you why. big girls intimidate me...the fact you can out eat me in a buffet is FRIGHTENING.

btw, i would bang a girl even if she had the most horrible personality ever. looks is the most important thing to me, and whenever i grow up and start lookin for a wife, im sure personality will matter, but for now, i will stick to my dumb, little cuties.

no, fat guys are cool.

but i wont talk to fat girls cuz they often mistake my kindness as some sort of gesture of love...

:rolleyes:

like i said before, im not really interested in a girl with brains and a personality right now (that is about 2% of the female population out there, the rest of yall just think you have it). im just 21 and im still immature.

a) i respect the 2% of women who are intelligent and independent, which is why i wont bother wasting their time with my childish antics. the other 98% i can care less about.

b) the quality of the girls ive been with is fine with me. im not sure where you're trying to go with this?

like ive stated several times before, im only going after looks...i dont really plan on having a relationship with these girls so why should i bother caring about what they know? if they are dumb enough to let an idiot who is only after one thing (like me) to hit, then they dont deserve a second thought.

I dont care what you look like, but dont go dissin on other couples. They are together for a reason and that reason is because they love each other in that way. You may think its awkward, but its not. If two peoplle are attracted to each other they are attracted to each other.


I would keep your comments to yourself...

He does have a right to post his opinion...he's just in the minority.

no...i am just one of the few who will admit they are shallow, immature and all that good stuff.

Ok, so in defense of some of the larger people out there... It's not necessarily how much they eat, but how low their metabolism runs. I'm a big girl, and I eat hardly anything compared to my smaller friends and family. It's not my fault. It's not like I'm always pigging out on bon-bons and McDonalds, either. My metabolism just isn't up to par. :D

(Note that I did bold some... Because there are a lot of larger people that do eat a lot)

And just a couple of quick questions for you... Are you intimidated by big guys that can eat more than you at a buffet, or anywhere for that matter? If not, then why women only?

I was once like this, to a far less degree I still am. But, I think you'll change your thoughts in about 3-4 years. Stupid girls can be a lot of fun, though. In contrast, I think the percentage is wrong about independent and intelligent females. It's probably more around 27% world wide and 11% within the United States. There's been women that I've ran into and simply wouldn't dish my game out to them on the basis that I actually found them to retain both of those qualities, but it has been rare. In most cases they're either emotionally, financially, physically or in some cases, pyschologically dependent on men. And thats why we rule the planet....

That's what we want you to think...

Speaking of defense, why aren't there any big girls defending themselves against what he said?

i'm not the skinniest and i'm not the biggest.. but i just don't feel the need to say anything b/c he has opinions and he's going to continue to say them and it's just not worth it to me..

He said his opinion and you all jump down his throat. He didn't attack anyone in particular but said that he himself has no particular attraction to something. Replace that something with a car, another glo, and it becomes ok all of a sudden?

The fact is that Annie has problems in my opinion. Last night I wasn't even talking to her and she decided to insult me. While she can claim to be such a great person, that great person decided to insult how I looked without even putting her own picture up and without me even saying anything about how she looks.

-Rudey
--At the end of the day, if you really want to claim you're intelligent or have good hearts and personalities, you better have something to show for it. Otherwise your words have more garbage in them than staten island.

I have to agree here. I may be a big girl, but if someone is not attracted to that or to me, then so be it. It's not worth getting into an argument out there. There are plenty of people who are attracted to bigger girls and plenty of people who aren't.
While I think Imthachamp could use a little more tact, I respect his opinion and he can be attracted to whom ever he wants. He's not hurting anyone. No one is saying we should be attracted to him so why should it matter if he's not attracted to bigger girls?

Defending against what? His opinion? I already said my piece, and he's allowed to say whatever. It's just obvious that some people aren't as open minded as others when it comes down to looks. Plain and simple.

My feeling on this subject si that everyone has their own taste. But as for me, I like guys that are not too skinny, not too fat. I'm probably on the thin side of average. Everyone has their own opinions though.

all i did was state my opinion. i didn't call anyone names...and that chick just attacked like some sort of rabid dog.

its sad. people cant even state their own opinions without this crap happening.

I may get flamed or whatever for saying this. But I have to point out that at least Imthachamp STATED that yes, he's immature and his opinions aren't in the majority and they may NOT be the nicest thing ever. But you know what? He doesn't care. Let him think what he wants you guys, at least he realizes that his thinking might be shallow. It's very easy to sit on the internet and act like you are a great person who only thinks the best of everything, but we all know that's not true, and Champ just doens't waste time pretending. End of story. :)

thanks bud.

Hell yeah we are. Plus, it's really tough being a fat guy in a frat, you've got to live up to the Belushi stereotype frat guy. Drunk all the time, doing crazy things, peeking in sorority house windows, it's tough i tell ya.

Nice to see all the love for bigger guys on the thread.

Champ, post on bud. I dated a freshman every year i was in college. Why? because i could. I wasn't looking for a relationship and in most instances they were more than willing to oblige that.

I personally could not date a twig gal, nor could i date a gal bigger than me. I want the J-Lo kinda gal, the gal with the booty. Cuz i want to be sure that in the heat of the moment she ain't gonna break.

Kitso
KS 361 skinny girls for champ and rudey, and i'll distract their bigger friends.....its a win-win situation :D

Well, if all of the things are said on here are TRUE, ask Kitso, I would be lovable to all of the women on GC!:D

Short, Sweet, Chunky and semi-mature with Hair and Fantastic Blue Eyes!:cool:

It's called taking the high road.

My opinion is this...

I date who I want. Everyone else can date who they want. There is somebody that is going to want everybody, so let everyone couple off, and worry more about who you're going to couple with instead of who everyone else is with.

Defend ourselves against what? Someone who says he knows he is shallow? If his comments were made by someone claiming to be a great guy, even then I wouldn't feel the need to defend myself. I may not be small, but I know that I am beautiful in my eyes, the eyes of my friends, the guy I am dating, and in the eyes of the God who made me. He will continue to have his opinions, and they will continue to be shallow. I for one am glad he just continues to be honest. I also don't really feel the need to defend myself to a guy on the internet that I will never meet.

My boyfriend has about a medium build... Normally I like them bigger, but he was too sweet to pass up. I actually had one guy that was so into bigger girls that he broke up with me when I dropped 30 pounds...:eek:

Exactly!

Heeeeeeeeeeeeey!!! That's me!!! ;)


:cool:

Weren't you the girl who got ran through by 2 guys at one time in one of the sex threads?

No.

I have never had a threesome.

Also, to dispel any other rumors that I've heard going around...

I am not a camwhore. I have never and will never get naked on a webcam for money. I have however, taken naked photos of myself and sent them to people I was romantically or sexually involved with. Never strangers, and never for money.

wow! it's tell it like it is day on greekchat! yay

I nearly spewed my Mt. Dew out of my nose! Dude that was funny.
I am a fairly small girl, though I went thru a curvy time in high school. I'm 5'2" and a size 4 now and I'm totally happy with that. Mr. Swissmiss is a solid guy of about 5'8". He's strong as a mofo but definitely not tall. That doesn't bother me. I dated a guy who was like 6'4" or 6'5" and about 160 lbs. I liked it but it made cuddling awkward. I dated a guy a few years ago who was average-tall height and definitely overweight (6 feet and 250, none of it muscle). And his peepee was quite tiny. :p Call it an Oedipus/Electra complex, but I like guys who are about the size of my dad (he's about 185 lbs, 5'10"). They're big enough to be protecting without being gargantuan.

Shine is the MAN, lol!

:D

*cough*

WO-MAN

Okay.

Shine has the biggest cojones of any woman I know.

Better?

What can I say?

I don't like to beat around the bush.

I'll try to look for it, but I could swear you wrote a message in one of the sex threads that you either got tag teamed back to back, had a threesome or did something along those lines. I specifically remember it, mainly because I was in shock that someone would actually post something like that.

I highly doubt it.

If I did, I was being sarcastic.