Am not a virgin.... however I'm taking a hiatus on sex until the Big Night after the wedding. Sex is good, orgasms are good, but in the end its all not worth it for me. A lot of times I've found in relationships, that sex becomes the be-all end-all and everything else becomes secondary. I want to build a relationship with someone and get to know them and become friends before I even think of becoming their girlfriend, let alone getting married to them! :eek: Especially right now I'm not particularly looking for a relationship (even though I've been noticing quite a bit of hot guys.) I'll probably be doing this no-sex thing for a while.....