to a degree you are right about it bieng more on how they use it over the size. i've met some guys who have a huge piece, but have no clue what they are doing with it. i've met guys who have smallER pieces who can use it. but basically if it doesn't hit the G spot, it doesn't make a difference. as long as the girl gets hers, then we don't have a problem with the size, cuz we know they can use it. oh and for girls, why make the men do all the work in sex. learn to get on top and learn to do it right. it will surprise the man and make him really want to come back for more.

shelley j
sigma k

GOOD L*RD!!! :eek::o

I need to call that freshman girl before she gets fat.

Good Lord what?
i'm not saying i've slept with all these guys. heavens no!:rolleyes: girls talk and we find these things out.
please....i have better taste than that.;)

shelley j
sigma k

It was at your honesty. :D

gee thanks. i try not to sugar coat stuff. ;)

Eh, I don't engage in pissing contests with James at every opportunity. I did mess around with him about the threesome thing, but the exercise comment I made in this post wasn't to mess around with him. He's actually one of the few people on here who talks about working out and believes in the ketosis diet so I have a lot of respect for that.

And my analogies aren't irrelevant. You just can't keep up dear. ;)

And can we stop talking about penises now? Great you're all liberated women who can talk about penises and show you have "control" over something in your lives.

-Rudey
--In the end the guy is happy and he will most likely still control your pleasure...some liberation.

You sure hit the nail on the head there! It really annoys me when men whine about how they're so "nice" but women never see it and yada yada yada. Let me tell you, an alarming number of the self-proclaimed "nice" guys I've run into have turned out to be weirdos! (I'm talking stalkers here.) They think women don't notice them? Well, we do--it's just that I'd rather have a man that acts like a man! I don't want a "nice," "sensitive" guy--if I did, I would date women. I expect men to think and behave differently than I do, and if they don't, I start to wonder. Sure, a thoughtful gesture like roses or something every once in a while is lovely, but I don't like sappiness and the fact that many guys don't either is fine with me.

1) As yes...analogies such as:

Slapping the cashier is to she didn't give me correct change

is the same as

USA is to bombing Iraq

Brilliant! :rolleyes:

Now as for the penis talk, sorry if it makes you feel vulnerable. If it will make you feel any better, we women will commence in a rousing chorus of "It is not the size of the rise/It's the motion of the ocean," in three part harmony.

Rudey---in the end, how many women have YOU lib... oops I mean pleasured, lately?

Maybe if you did more of THAT and less worrying about women and our wild penis envy, you would be a little more secure.

librasoul22 and Rudey sitting in a tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G! :p ;)

Dear, keep working on the comments on the analogies. I know you mean well but you seem a little stressed lately...perhaps you should just listen to some Jill Scott and do a little less commenting on who is brilliant.

And I don't see your point in discussing how many girls I've pleasured lately. You brought up penis size and pleasure for no reason and are now trying to redirect the discussion towards something else...something more personal. And I am secure. The fact is that my security does not depend on my sexual activities. Your being a born and bred American (a self-hating Americans at times I might add) has you projecting your attitudes quite blindly on others right now.

-Rudey
--And while you attempt to try and keep up with me, stay off the more personal comments. I have a girlfriend and I find no need to discuss her or how many people I've been with on GC to get my highs.

RARRRR... hiss hiss *scratch* *claw* grrrrrrr...:p

I actually did not bring up penis size.

Nice try though.

Am I directing the conversation? Wow, that feels so LIBERATING! As far as the personal comments go...my rule of thumb is take no offense unless it applies to you. If not, why even worry yourself with it?

Here we go with the American thing. Does that have absolutely anything to do with the nature of this thread? Really.

Projecting a self-hating attitude onto others....mmmmmmmkay. If Dr. Rudey says so!

Don't feel the need to discuss your girlfriend...yet bring her up...hmmm...searching for logic...

Cream...I hate kissing in trees, it makes me itch! Plus, me and my clumsiness would have ALREADY fallen out of the tree, lol, forget getting to first base! :D

My quote was in reference to girls not walking around talking about how their breasts are so small. Obviously you took that as free license to go off on a tangent.

And for you to tell me not to take offense at personal comments/insults is a joke.

I didn't say you project a self hating attitude either. You are mixing up a couple of my comments. Either way I'll drop the American thing entirely.

Furthermore, I can mention something without discussing it. So keep searching for the logic. I bet it's hidden in that famous book "Librasoul is getting a verbal spanking" written by Dr. Rudey.

-Rudey
--Save your energy for the "Semi-intelligent" threads on GC. I bet you're really tired right now.

*whipping out academic penis*

I AM SO FUCKING SMART! YES! AAAAHHHHH

*putting away academic penis*






I love this place kids, I really do.

ROFLMAO!

THanks for coming out folks! G'night!

LOL!!!!!!

Well Rudey. I will say this about you. You are consistent.

I guess when I read your posts, I am not supposed to read them LITERALLY. As in the meanings are always subject to change at your discretion. Guess what?

WHATEVER! :p

For the record Rudey, I think the only thing you are spanking, verbally or otherwise, is Mr. Centrum. But hey, DON'T TAKE OFFENSE TO THAT UNLESS IT IS TRUE. :D

i'd say that's a one up for librasoul22. nice come back!

as for rudey, i do have to agree about having no need to discuss how many people you've been with. it's simply distasteful.

shelley j
sigma k

There really isn't a need to DISCUSS it. lol, I really couldn't care less. Just wanted him to ponder it.

btw, James where are you? I know you didn't give up on this thread? I even put in a patented female WHATEVER just for you. ;)

LOL Librasoul! You say everything I wanna say but I'm too chicken to:D

Keigal excercises . . .

Ever have to urinate really badly? And you hold it despite the urgent desire to let it go . . anywhere? Especially when driving long distances?

Well one of the muscles associated with withholding a liquid treat from innocent bystanders is the keigal muscle or muscles . . . Or something like that .. . . its not something we covered in Anatomy and Physiology :p

So for women strong keigal muscles would be associated with those women that are able to say cut a bannana in half with one deft movement of their . . . vagina (is that a better word than say: pussy, twat, or cunt? Which would be the vernacular.)

But I guess for the sake of all your sensibilities we'll call it the jade gate, or maybe the heavenly pavillion.

Supposedly a woman with deft control of those muscles can bring a man to orgasm with no movement :eek: !

For a man its part of the system that allows him to delay ejaculation.

So men that are two pump chumps would benefit from keigal excercises.

Keigal excercises are done by flexing the same muscles you would use to stop urination or to stop it mid stream.

You would start by doing 3 sets of ten and then working up to sets of 75. And then you would hold each for a count of three or longer. .. you get the point.

A strong keigal muscle will dramatically increase the orgasm strength of men and women . . read: Women will intensify the strength of their orgasms by a factor of at least two or three . . .

Keigal excercises are also at the core of the infamous "tantric" love making system. Made mainstream by American Pie 2.

A side note: Imagine a spiritual system based on intensifying the pleasure of sex? There is a Sunday Service I would have always been early for . . . and stayed late . . and volunteered my services . . . ;)

Anway getting back to Tantric and keigal . . .

One of the ideas behind tantric and therefore also Keigal is to teach a man to delay ejaculation indefinitely.

ITs possible for men to have orgasms, even multiple orgasms without ejaculation.

As a reference point they use the fact that men can have orgasms before puberty from masturbation. Therfore they are having "dry" orgasms.

At that point men can have orgasm after orgasm without much of a refractory period.

Note for women: This means they can keep going as long as you can.

So the idea behind tantric is that the man can learn to have these types of orgasms again . . . and also as a side benefit they can last as long as they want to in bed.

Another side benefit is that men can derive more energy from orgasms and sex.

Women seem to gain strength and power from orgasms . . a few orgasms a day would probably make women more productive.

For men, ejaculation seems to drain their strength. So the tantric philosophy says that men that learn to have dry orgasms can not only last much longer, have multiple orgasms, but will derive the same kind of strength and power from sex that women do . . .

Also, the tantric system says that ejaculation is actually bad for a man and it gave a chart on how many times a man should ejaculate a week determined by age!:eek:

But a man should have as many orgasms as possible . . just the dry variety.

Any more questions ladies?

James actually talked about them haha. So now if you have small breasts or feel like you might be too big for a 2 liter coke bottle, you can still fix things up a bit girls.

-Rudey
--;)

I was just talking about keigals with someone . .. .

Re: Annoying girl things
 

my boyfriend goes to the bathroom way more often the i do. i would say when we go out to a bar at night, he goes to the bathroom at least two times for my one time......and i do have to say, this is one of the aspects of him that i find annoying because i hate sitting in a bar by myself

Finally, someone who agrees with me on the whole self-proclaimed "nice guy" label.

Every guy I've ever known who's sworn up and down to be a "nice guy" has either ended up being a jerk or merely a sappy pushover who's so willing to let me control him that I can't stand to be around him. (Yes, guys, we don't always want to be leading the guy around by his dick--give us some sort of a challenge!)

One "nice guy" ended up ditching me for no reason and later on, sleeping with one of my co-workers and friends and then blowing her off, too. Real nice.

As for the other category of "nice guy," I know a guy who proudly announces to the world that he can't wait to be "so whipped" when he's married. *Gag* Grow a spine!!!

I don't know who some of these girls are, but when I think of a nice guy I think of a guy who'll be polite and well mannered when he's around my parents. Is not constantly being vulgar and a guy who treats me with respect.

I don't want a guy who is a push over. Or is overly sensitive. I don't need or want to talk about my feelings 24/7 so don't worry, I won't make you do that.

Clingy and dependent are wayyyyyyyy different from nice.