-Rudey
--Deflating the dreams of GC ladies since 2002

That's what I do. :)

Dayamm some of you people are harsh!

Yeah, I'm not a big fan of the guys who like to slobber all in my ear. A few guys have found my earrings in their mouths. You'd think they'd learn, but one guy took out my earrings 4 times in 1 night.

Sometimes I like to kiss/suck their lower lip, and the guy will do the same to my upper lip-- I do it playfully/softly-- don't do it too hard. Last week a guy was doing it so hard I came home with my lips black and blue.

Sometimes, it depends on which Lips you Kiss!:)

Slobbering in the ear gets ear wax on tounge!:(

Lightly kisssing on the lips, ears, neck, eyebrows, back,and Yes Thighs always worked for me!:cool:

Damn is so long ago:(

Hate to kiss a women who wants to suck my face off!:o

I thought of another one I hate... this guy kept kissing with his eyes open... I was like why are your eyes open, he said that he just does it and other girls have complained about it too.

i remember when i went out with this one guy who thought he was all of that. he would talk to me in this weird voice while he was still REALLY close to my face. it was in between kisses. i hated it!!!!!!!!!!!!! it took everything in me not to roll my eyes. i think i was asking for it when i said yes to him asking me out. he was 16 and i was 19. he tried so hard to show off. i could kick myself for going out with a guy still in high school. now, i am not even crazy about going out with a guy still in college. with me being 21, the guy has to be between 23 and 27. my current bf just turned 27 and i LOOOOOOOOOVE his kisses. he has these incredibly soft lips that make me melt. so to be a good kisser, you need to have soft lips!!

bad bad bad sign....if your partner is kissing you with his/her eyes open, it means he/she doesnt trust you.

***dances a "come kiss me with your eyes closed" dance***

i have to disagree to an extent. i do not open my eyes during a kiss. however, sometimes i get curious and have to open for a sec or two

clarification time (i am sorry)

kissing continuously with your eyes open is bad. peeking is not. i peek every once in a while too, but i always keep my eyes closed otherwise.

just seems so much more natual!

***dances a kissing dance***

Hmmm...kissing...yum :)

Let's see....if I'm not enjoying what he's doing throughout time I'll alter his way of kissing through games and etc, I've done it plenty of times and it's helped them immensly.

If he knows he's not that good of a kisser but he's -trying- to be, then well, I'll make sure we move onto other "places" to entertain us for awhile. :D

If he thinks he's a good kisser or he's just not into it, well, his butt is outta the door, simple as that. *nods*

Yeah, a peek is fine, the guy I was referring to did it for most of the time I believe (not sure my eyes were closed as usual). Yeah, the whole trust thing makes sense, I had just met him that night... but he said it's just a habit with all girls so who knows.

I dated a guy once that kissed with his eyes open all the time. It totally bugged me at first and then I got used to it. I guess my preference would be for a guy to close his eyes, but if he doesn't and is still a good kisser...oh well :p

I hate it when guys do the whole trying to jam their tongue as far into your mouth as it can possibly go! Can we say gag factor here? Haha. And I don't like those real wet,slobbery ones..ewwwwww. I want to be kissed as if he's been wanting to kiss me for so long that just takes my breath away. Yeah yeah romantic notion I know. I just read waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much. Heehehehehehhe.

most guys have a fat tongue and it just sits there. . .talk about ewww, gross me out.

i will tell someone that they can't kiss. . .it's not like i'm going to call them back. . .you've got to be kidding me

Do not think I want to kiss you after you have been drinking some gross tasting beer. If I wanted that taste in my mouth, I would have ordered gross beer too.

exactly

hello. . .that's why they invented gum and tic tacs(for the ladies like me)

but conversely...guys like girls who taste like beer....all the studies confirm.

GeekyPenguin, you are now my favorite GPhiB ever. Bwahahaha!

How about I think I need to get kissing-sluttier? For some reason lately I've taken an inordinate interest in "numbers".... how many girls have you kissed? had sex with? etc. Couldn't say why -- maybe I need a hobby?

Anyway. Reserach indicates I am on the low end of the spectrum for a 22 yr old female. Thus, I need to get kissing-sluttier.

I'll tell you, though, I think there are MUCH better results from kissing the same girl 10 x than kissing ten girls once each. I agree that different girls like different things -- but if you get to know a girl, you get to know how to "read" what a girl likes, too.

i feel like i was just part of a scientific study! :p

haha. You like it.

Ok, this is my personal definitive list of kissing negatives and positives.....
NEGATIVE THINGS:
- never ever kiss after eating spinach or garlic or anything with alot of flavor...as romantic as it sounds eating and then immediately making out, trust me it is disgusting and you will feel ill.
- the whole stubble thing...it's so hot and rugged on him, but when you kiss for hours and hours, your face will eventually get very irritated and painful. Not a positive.
- bad breath (ok I kind of covered this earlier), but this is just soooo gross and honestly ruins the entire experience (duh)
- guys that think good kissing means moving their tongue around in my mouth like it is a snake...ummm no....not so good thanks!!!
- WET kisses...EWWWWW do not kiss my entire face please...I am sorry but I do not like the fact that my entire face is covered in your slobber.....GROSS!!
- biting my lip to the point where it feels like it is going to bleed...ok so a little nip is playful and fun but when it starts feeling painful...it's NOT cool.
- going on and on for TOO MANY HOURS and never wanting to stop even when I am like super tired

POSITIVE THINGS:
- fresh, minty breath!!! YES YES YES!!!!
- soft lips
- knows how to work the tongue without overusing it/not using enough...
- kissing all over, esp the ear....that feels so nice...but please not to excess.....
- going on and on....I love kissing!!
- stopping every once in a while but continuing again

OMG I HATE THAT SOOOOOOOO MUCH...ummm my ear being soaking wet is NOT sexy and does NOT feel nice...thank you very much

kissing is, like, super doooper important. you can't kiss, well then buddy....you sure as hell ain't gonna get the chance to do anything else.

sometimes, though, a mediocre kisser can be trained. i've had a few mediocre kissers/exes that i personally transformed into the best kissers on the planet, thank you very much. ;) but seriously, kiss and kiss well.

i'm a big fan of the right side of my neck....that'll get me everytime. ear nibbling is good, but only if it is done with ABSOLUTE PERFECTION. no hard core breathing to make me deaf, no slobbering, no tongue in ear....gross. that's a case of less is more, really.

i've had a few convos with rudey on this subject, so it's funny. if you couldn't tell from this thread, he is very particular about how girls kiss......but again, rudey.......no worries if you are ever down the Kentucky way. ;) :D

i'm just a big face proclaimed face w---e, though.....i love love love gettin face! :cool:

Aaah, I am still traumatized by a bad kissing incident...

I was a little freshman in a club with some friends, and I met this guy and started talking... he was 21 or 22, and kinda cute, and nice... so he bought me a drink and we danced together some, and then we started kissing. And he just put his toungue in my mouth - and just LEFT IT THERE! His big huge gross toungue just sat in my mouth, not moving. At all. It was so gross I almost threw up. I had to run away and find my friends, and then he found me when we were leaving and I gave him the wrong phone number.

Also, I hate making out with someone when I'm really sleepy, and I just want to go to bed but they won't stop... that's the worst.

Lol...my ex-bf used to come at me with his mouth wide open trying to kiss me...it was like looking into a scary hole lol and then he would leave slobber all over my mouth...ewwww thank god i finally taught him how to kiss....

Maybe that wasn't his tongue.

bwahahahahaha

Ew!!

I love this thread....

Just shut up and kiss me right there....

Ok, I know that whoever was talking about the licking girls all over, from the neck to the stomach and then up the leg, thouht it was really hot. Well, I can't stand it. I like a little nibble on my ear LOBE (not in the canal...ewww) and little licks on my lips between kisses, but that's it. I don't want to be covered in your saliva when we're done.

Good kissers start soft and slow. Putting your top lip between their lips, slightly sticking out their tongue periodically to ease you into more intense action. Then there's some more tongue, but this doesn't mean you stick your tongue in my mouth and we move our heads from side to side for an hour. You have a serious tongue kiss for a couple seconds, move back, have couple of slightly less drmatic kisses, then go back in for the killer again. It's a pattern fellas! And you don't need to go itching the back of my throat with your tongue, it's really quite alright. Gagging is not sexy.

It's also very good to put one hand behind my head, and one on my back, lower preferably, then switch them/move them around. Have both onmy back then one and one, then both in my hair, or on the side of my face and neck.

Basically, you should act like THE KISS is the most important task right then. Concentrate on not screwing it up. The problem is that some guys are so interested on what the kiss will lead up to, they don't pay attention to the actual act at all. Remember, without a good kiss, you're not getting much further....unless you're really hot of course, then we can overlook that :D

I really hate it when you kiss someone and they don't use their tongue...its like dead-weight in your mouth. Yet on the other hand I live for a good kisser. This is inclusive of the hand on the side of the face or back of the head and some tongue...A peach is a peach and a plum is a plum but a kiss isn't a kiss without some tongue. ;)

Be in the moment. I'm a Zen Kisser. I'm very aware. ;)

I think kissing is the most important connection two people can make without going to far... it's letting them into your comfort zone...breathing the same air...so romantic.

The best thing EVER is the moment right before your lips meet and you can feel the sparks flying and you know that in just one brief second you will be sharing something AMAZING with someone you click with.

I am all about soft, sensual kissing...no HARD FAST SLOBBERY CRAP!!

And sometimes, it's not all about the tongue...

"Kiss me once, and kiss me twice and kiss me once again...it's been a long long time"

The best type of kiss, in my opinion, is one that leaves you with butterflies in your stomach. This could be a first kiss, kiss on the check, kiss on the lips, or whatever you want. If it leaves you speechless, it's an awesome kiss!

yes jadey...i totally agree.

I like kisses that make my spin. and then you smile at the person after the first little kiss or two and are like "wow, I can't believe I'm kissing her." :)

Also, if she's shorter than you and stands on tip toes to kiss you. That little extra effort is so great. My heart is swelling with joy.

librasoul22 wants to kiss me.