It usually works like that if the teenagers live here in Oklahoma, Arkansas, Mississippi, etc...

I guess there's just something in the water.

rubbersoul...i'm sure that was a REAL boost of confidence for WS...good work! :confused: :confused:

I speak from plenty of experience...

For one, the Morning After Pills cost about $30 at Planned Parenthood. They MUST be taken within 72 hours of possible conception...the sooner the better. It's simply two pills that she takes once in the morning and once at evening.

Birth Controll pills DON'T need to be taken at the exact time everyday.

Yes, a girl can get pregnant off the pill even if she uses it properly (I'm living proof).

A girl can get pregnant no matter what time of her cycle she is in...obviously. And for the record, sperm stays in the body longer than most people think.

Hootie

I have read and reread this site many times before I Decided to post this!

I Dated a Lady in College and we loved each other with all of our hearts!

We had a simple ceremony between us!


Well she became Pregnent with I have No Doubt my Child!

She left school and was beaten by her strict Luthern Farmer Father!

I dropped out of school and my Mother took me to a Lawyer who said I Did Not Have to Pay for anything!

Well most of you knowing me, I told him to kiss my ASS!

I worked to pay for my baby!

My Mother God Rest her Sole did not like her as she was very Dark complected with Coal Black Hair ! German, go figure!

I get a call on Christmas Eve from her saying congratulations, you have a Blonde Haired Blued Eyed Son!

That is the last time I ever heard from her!

I have been trying to find her ever since and My son!

Well He is 44 years old now! He probabably just hates me if He has asny idea!

Yes life is hard, and I nevered had any other Children after that!

It hurt just so much that I could not bring my self to do it again!

You now know my deepest secret and goodby!

You are the Best!

Wow Tom.
I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how much that must hurt...

hello,

i am very curious so i want to react:

don't you get an information leaflet with every box of birth control pills? here in holland you get one, containing information on how to use 'm, do's and don'ts, what to do when you forgot one and possible side effects! all the info you need should be in there.
if you stick by those rules your chances of getting pregnant are below 0.1%

dutch greetings
dutchgirl

well it came out negative but its so early that im no more comforted than before she even took it but she is and thats good cause shes been real stressed out about stuff. tom - no words can express my sympasthy and hootie im sorry to hear that you didnt mean to get pregnant and did. i hope we dont. everyone has been real supportive on here which helps cause im scared to talk to my friends or family about it. thanx.

Yes, it is early but I am pretty sure those tests are accurate when administered a week after conception may have taken place. I don't want to tell you for sure that she's not pregnant but I think that you can relax a little bit more.
When girls have been on the pill for a while and they are regularly taking it, their chances of getting pregnant are very slim.
Might I suggest that you tell her to visit a gynecologist? They can do a blood test which is 100% (or close to) in pregnancy detection. That way, you will know for sure whether she is or isn't.

clarification
 

Ok first of all its obvious (no offense) that some of these posts are from guys. So I'm going to feel like the sex ed teacher here but I thought you guys might want the record straight. First of all you CAN get pregnant when menstruating, many times the egg is still around even when a girl is ragging it.

SigmaChiCard- You're basically fucked if you think that there is a 10 day period after the girl has her period when she is safe. I know for a fact that for 14 days AFTER a girls period she's in danger of getting pregnant. You are safer a couple days before.

twinstars- A GIRL DOES OVULATE WHEN ON THE PILL!!!!! WHY DO YOU THINK SHE GETS HER PERIOD THEN???? The only way you can not ovulate is if you get the Depo shots but if you are on the pill you ovulate hence the bleeding every month.

UF_Pike- It actually DOES matter when she takes the pill everyday. The whole point of it is to be regular with the pill because if you do miss it that's how your chances of pregnancy increases. Granted you are suppose to have a 2 hour safety bracket in case you do miss you regular time but why risk it?

ktsnake- The morning after pill (if you dont go through insurance and go to a family planning center) is soemwhere between 30-80 dollars. the pill goes anywhere from free to 30 bucks.

offense taken
 

That was a pretty F-ing rude response not just to me, but to everyone. Why exactly would I be fucked might I ask? Asshole!

Incidentally...where does your vast knowledge that allows you to be a sexpert derive from in the first place? Secondly, given your 100% correct, there IS a way to give information in a constructive manner rather than through the means of degrading others...I'm seldom offended, but this is once when I am....

Re: clarification
 

Uhm, actually the way most pills work (specifically combination and progesterone) is by preventing ovulation most of the time. At only about 3% of the time does a woman actually ovulate.
A woman does not actually menstruate when shes on the pill but still sheds a lining similar to that of a monthly period(i think, maybe one of the med students/nurses/doctors on the board could correct me if thats wrong)

www.coolnurse.com/pill.htm

HBADPi- perhaps next time you can avoid looking like a complete ass by doing some research before jumping down someone's throat.

HBADPI,

You do not ovulate when you are on the pill. When we say ovulate we mean that an egg is released. The pill is supposed to prevent this from happening. Of course there will be a few exceptions such as when a pill is missed or taken late.

Re: clarification
 

I can't believe you said "ragging it". I never thought words like that would come out of a woman's mouth. I find that to be offensive and disgusting.

The uterus doesn't know that no egg is being released from the ovaries. It sheds its lining every month anyway. All it knows is that you're not pregnant. And please chill out, I'm almost positive that you're wrong and you're just making yourself look dumb and rude. Would you like to explain how the pill stops pregnancy, if it doesn't stop ovulation? You know all kinds of stuff about sex ed so I'm sure you can give a good, detailed explanation.

Sorry if my comments offended anyone. This is just a subject that had come up recently with some friends. I've seen my share of girls and guys be misinformed and have had to suffer the consequences.

Re: clarification
 

It would be wise to shut your face and learn yourself somethings before you open it next time.

To be honest, I think that most of the guys that have posted in this thread know more than you seem to know, I think you need to go to sex ed again. You bash SCC, you could have just informed him instead of saying "you're basically F*cked." And correction your part because if a girl can get pregnant while menstrating, she is ALWAYS in danger of getting pregnant, not like the 14 days after in which you suggest. Hence, you are never safe, there is always the risk.

As for ovulating, um, hello, that's what the pill is for, to help prevent ovulation. A woman will ovulate on the pill if she isn't using it correctly (taking it different times of the day, skipping days, etc.) and the rare case of the pill not preventing ovualtion, other than that, that is one of the reasons for the pill, from what I believe and have been told anyway. A woman will still get her period because her system is still "flushing out" so to speak. An egg might not be present, but the rest of the elements that are included in a woman's period are, hence, she will still have a period. I think maybe you need to do a little reasearch about yourself before you continue to post about nonsense.

As for the morning after pill and your rudeness to ktsnake. Hell, it might be more expensive than birth control, but if you aren't certain and if it might be a wise decision to get it, get it. Some women can't take the pill for various health reasons/risks. I know my sister was on the pill to help control her period and it actually became worse. It happens, but not often.

Yes, I am no doctor, I am no nurse, but my sister is a nursing assistant and has worked with birth control and volunteers at a local Planned Parenthood for the last two years. Moreso, from her actual experience of the pill, and from the experience of many of my other female friends, I feel that what I know is somewhat truthful.

Blaine

Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it.

Don't let the way you say something get in the way of the actual message.

All things considered I feel I'm more informed than offended. Thanks for the words damasa. Good to see you're back to posting again.

While you make this claim, you too seem to be misinformed. Again, try doing your research before attempting to be the "sex education savior" of the thread and failing said task miserably.

I just have a question.. Is taking a pregnacy test about a week and a half after you have had sex is that to early to tell if you are pregnant? And if it is what is a good time to take one to be sure?

Good question... I'm assuming that you're talking about do-it-yourself pregnancy tests. They're a lot more accurate than they used to be. Nowadays, you can pretty much rely on the results if you take the test one week after you've missed a period or longer. However, it is always smart to visit your doctor, regardless of what that little stick says. :)

Actually, it DOESN'T matter what time you take the pill every day, as long as you take it. My doctor told me that it's BEST to take it at the same time everyday, but if you slip up by a few hours, you're fine. It's just when you start skipping days at a time is when you're in trouble.

"Ragging it"? Is that appropriate?

You just said "slip up by a few hours" which means that it does matter what time it is taken. If you took it a noon one day and then at say 11 p.m. the next day, that is more then a "few hours." I say this because a friend of mine never once skipped a day but she always took it at different times, and well, you know what? She's now almost seven months pregnant.

Blaine

my mom is a doctor and she told me yes, you are supposed to take the pill the same time everyday. if you do happen to miss it, you have a 4 hour time frame in which you need to take it in order for it do what it is supposed to do. if youre sexually active, and you skip your pill, all your ob/gyn asap and tell them and see about the morning after pill...

Isn't that essentially what I just said? By "the same time" I was referring to the exact time. My first year on the Pill, I was worried that if I took it at 1:35 instead of 1:30, that I was ruined. My physician simply eased my concerns. Boh.

NO, that isn't essentially what you just said? Did you not read what you posted previously? If not, here, I will quote it for you.

Note here, that what you thought you esentially said, you didn't esentially say, you are basically contradicting yourself. In your first post the one I quoted second you say "Actually, it DOESN'T matter what time you take the pill every day, as long as you take it." You go on to say, "but if you slip up by a few hours, you're fine." That means that it can and does depend on the time you take it....if that's not what you meant, maybe you should have said, "it doesn't matter what time you take it as long as you take it within a few hours of your regular time." Because saying that it doesn't matter when you take it, as long as you take it, doesn't mean that.

Second, in your first post, you never stated anything about "the same time." You simply stated what I just said above, about it not mattering. If you meant to say the "same time" referring to "the exact time" (which you said neither) you should have stated it.

So to end with answering your question after showing your faulted argument, no, you didn't esentially just say that.

You stated two completely different things.

If anybody is interested there will be no worriedstudent jr. i am going to be more cautious now though. thanx everybody

HappyStudent

Congrats. Now maybe use a condom? How's that for a grand idea?

http://www.plauder-smilies.de/happy/xyxthumbs.gif:D http://www.plauder-smilies.de/jump.gif

ahh..such a simple solution, yet such wise advice..why didn't he think of that to begin with? :)

Quick question to the "sex-perts" who've posted on this topic--

I took the depo shot for about a year and stopped getting periods. Around January I stopped taking it and have not had a period yet. My bf and I had sex this past weekend with a spermicidal condom but it temporarily got "lost". We found it after about 5-10 minutes of searching. Can I still get pregnant?
:confused::confused:

There's ALWAYS a risk of getting pregnant, no matter what method you're using, unless it's abstinance. that's a fact. There's a slightly higher risk if the condom was "lost" but you should still be better off than if you used nothing at all

hmmm i wonnder,

That's exactly why my girlfirend didn't get depo provera. Those monthly reminders tell you that everything's okay!

Glad to hear it! :) I'm sure the news came as a huge relief for both of you.