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Titchou 09-22-2013 08:53 PM

Not a peep about time limits on COB in the Green Book.

33girl 09-22-2013 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Titchou (Post 2242030)
Not a peep about time limits on COB in the Green Book.

Thanks oodleroos. :)

Kevin 09-22-2013 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bama54 (Post 2241971)
Thank you Blue Skies and Yes, Tichou that is exactly what I am talking about. Sorry Dr Phil was offended. If I wanted to pledge a NPHC sorority, I would be a minority. If my child, who was born in India, wanted to pledge an NPC sorority at Bama, she would be a minority. It would not offend her to be called so, nor would I be offended.
Too bad real discussion can't be done in this thread. The subject is something I have done my part to change over the past 20 years. I am very happy these young women spoke up and even more happy at the pact the NPC sororities have made.
Contrary to what many of you apparently believe all Alabama Greek Alums are not prejudiced and even more difficult for you to believe is that those of us who grew up in the 60s are even less so. But then, we are the women who fought with our sisters of all races in the business world to open doors that were closed to women of all races.
Thank you.

It's great that you're participating here. Don't feel too attacked here, you've just come out and stated how you have fought with your sisters of all races in the business world, but back at (I'm assuming) your alma mater, all it took to really get a lot of folks at least give the issue lip service was for ONE collegian to come out about it in a public manner.

DeltaBetaBaby 09-22-2013 09:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2242034)
Thanks oodleroos. :)

Plus, if there were, you could just re-extend the bid as many times as you wanted.

ADPiEE 09-22-2013 09:19 PM

thread crash...
I haven't been keeping up with this issue too much and I'm lost trying to read this thread but to answer the original question, it appears from social media that ADPi has an Alpha who is AA...which I would assume makes them a winner.
Several AA NPC girls in Texas so I don't have a huge grasp on why this is a big deal but apparently it is

WestcoastWonder 09-22-2013 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KDCat (Post 2241981)
Does the Diversity Dashiki come in Lilly prints?:p

OH MY GOD!!!!! *dead!!* :D

DrPhil 09-22-2013 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ADPiEE (Post 2242047)
Many AA NPC girls in Texas

I doubt it.

Since Kevin quoted Bama54's "I'm a good white person" rant, suffice it to say the average white woman who grew up in the 1960s was not fighting along with racial and ethnic minority women for gender equality in the workforce. The majority of white women were fighting alongside other white women. Poor white women and nonwhite women were overwhelmingly excluded. Examples of this are in Black feminism (bell hooks is one perspective), the history behind the Black power movements, and the struggles that Black women faced in fighting alongside our sexist (in general) Black men. Many Black women preferred to fight for Black power than to further women's liberation with overwhelmingly racist (in general) white women.

It is wonderful if Bama54 was among those relative few who were fighting alongside nonwhite women but that was not a general truth and it shouldn't be presented as such.


But I call bullshit on Bama54. A real discussion has happened in plenty of threads. Bama54's late self is not presenting anything new. And people like Bama54 cannot have a real discussion because they still need to learn what "minority" means. People who need Introductory courses cannot have discussions. Further, I call bullsht because someone who claims to have been fighting for rights with nonwhite women would not be dumb enough to not know what minority means in this context. Bullshit...I call it.

summer_gphib 09-22-2013 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by PersistentDST (Post 2241958)
You guys are so funny...and so is this thread! Diversity dashiki's and quilt's...

Not to be snarky... but adding an "apostrophe s" does not make a plural! :o

DubaiSis 09-22-2013 09:50 PM

I think we have great discussions here, this Bama thing being a great example. This is a very complicated and awkward situation. Can we as individuals solve ANY of it? Probably not. I'm not aware of any active Bama sorority women who frequent this site and they are the only ones who would have any real power. HOWEVER, we can learn more about the deeper issues of a "post racial" America, because it doesn't exist. We can also learn that some of the things we say as fact or common sense are neither. And we can speculate about how to save the world, one rush and one campus at a time. How do you fight tokenism when you are trying to move from zero to some? How do you do this without making the young women in question feel like so much raw meat? How can we ensure that our alumnae everywhere turn off the douchiness? These things can be discussed, and have been often. When discussion can't happen is when you say something stupid, get called on it and flounce off. A better debater and/or conversationalist would instead 1-cry mea culpa, 2-argue her point because she still thinks she's right or 3-zip it because responding simply will not help.

AZTheta 09-22-2013 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by KDCat (Post 2241981)
Does the Diversity Dashiki come in Lilly prints?:p

Do you have any clue how expensive vintage lilly fabric is? not to mention very hard to find? And don't get upset, i'm not being mean, i just know that people have no clue what fabric costs! ;) I really like it but not enough to pay for it and make something of it. however i'd be willing to cut up lilly dresses, etc, if anyone sends them to me. some of those prints are begging for fussy cuts.

And we should all be agreeing on the use of "minority" so there's no more dissenting or misunderstanding.

In other news... *crickets*

Hartofsec 09-22-2013 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Titchou (Post 2242030)
Not a peep about time limits on COB in the Green Book.

lol, there is probably a lot about this situation that isn't in your Green Book.

ADPiEE 09-22-2013 10:03 PM

[QUOTE=DrPhil;2242057]I doubt it.

I probably should have said several over the years. I know of several AA active members/alumnae in my own group from Texas and several active/alumnae AA from other NPC's from Texas. They have been from large Texas Greek systems and small Texas Greek systems, as well as both urban and more rural Greek systems. I can't speak for UT but I know Tech had their first AA NPC member almost 20 years ago.

I'm not saying that Texas is the land of equal NPC diversity (I think partially because we have very large, popular NPHC and multicultural groups to compete with) but I will say some Texas Greek systems, in my observation, are fairly diverse with members of all races (including AA)/religions/etc.

Some meaning around 5
Several meaning more than 10

Bama54 09-22-2013 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2242057)
I doubt it.

It is wonderful if Bama54 was among those relative few who were fighting alongside nonwhite women but that was not a general truth and it shouldn't be presented as such.

.

You are wrong. In the 70s, 80s and 90s women united together to make a difference in the workplace.
I can tell you women of all races were discriminated against by men of all races. FACT! I know all about tokenism, having been a woman in a traditional male field starting in the 70s.

Still don't know why you are so nasty.
Obviously you are not at the University of Alabama, so why did you even respond? I found my answer by the way.
Don't presume to know me or what I stand for especially in public. I could make public presumptions about you which would be right on the money, but I won't.
Enjoy living your life on chat forums. I have better things to do.

DubaiSis 09-22-2013 10:15 PM

Promise?

DrPhil 09-22-2013 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ADPiEE (Post 2242068)
I probably should have said several over the years.

Ohhhh...darn....

I want people to stop exaggerating when it comes to race and ethnicity. I saw many white people at the airport today but I only sat beside one white person on the plane. Pretty straightforward.

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Originally Posted by Bama54 (Post 2242074)
I can tell you women of all races were discriminated against by men of all races. FACT!

DUH. That doesn't mean that women overwhelmingly banded together across race, ethnicity, and socioeconomic status to fight that discrimination. People with even a basic understanding of the intersection of race and ethnicity, gender, and social class in a capitalist society would understand that.

By the way, racial and ethnic minority men did not/do not have the same power that white men had/have. The majority of the discrimination was done/is done by white men because they did/do the majority of hiring and firing. Racial and ethnic minority men benefit on the basis of gender but arguably white women benefit more. Generally speaking, when white women struggled they had their white men to fall back on. When racial and ethnic minority men struggled, generally speaking, they had their overwhelmingly low income or unemployed racial and ethnic minority women to fall back on.*

*Certain Asian ethnicities tend to be exceptions when discussing income and employment across gender and race and ethnicity


Quote:

Originally Posted by Bama54 (Post 2242074)
Still don't know why you are so nasty.
Obviously you are not at the University of Alabama, so why did you even respond? I found my answer by the way.
Don't presume to know me or what I stand for especially in public. I could make public presumptions about you which would be right on the money, but I won't.
Enjoy living your life on chat forums. I have better things to do.

I apologize if you feel like a minority. *giving you the Minority Hug*

Power to the people.

Titchou 09-22-2013 10:38 PM

Maybe this one need closing too....

DrPhil 09-22-2013 10:49 PM

No, keep this thread open. That UA thread lasted for over 40 pages. This thread is not hardly as dumb as that thread was.

AZTheta 09-22-2013 11:03 PM

well, it isn't about the Delta Gamma alumna, despite the intent of She Who Shall Not Be Named. I say leave it open. It's been very informative.

As previously (and repeatedly) established she likes to have the last word/insult....wait for it. The condescension meter is flying off the charts.

lol.

ADPiEE 09-22-2013 11:09 PM

Dr. Phil, I stand corrected and I apologize...

According to Websters:
Many=large but indefinite number
Several=more than 2 but not very many
Some=unspecified amount

from now on, I'm only using some ;)

DrPhil 09-22-2013 11:21 PM

You're a good sport. ;)

As far as some people are concerned, "one is a ton" and "any is many". :)

Mizeree I2K 09-22-2013 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by summer_gphib (Post 2242058)
Not to be snarky... but adding an "apostrophe s" does not make a plural! :o

Do you give a shit? Because I doubt she does.

DrPhil 09-22-2013 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Mizeree I2K (Post 2242098)
Do you give a shit? Because I doubt she does.

Soror cares because she's both a scholar and a student. :)

summer_gphib 09-23-2013 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2242099)
Soror cares because she's both a scholar and a student. :)

Exactly.

Mizeree I2K 09-23-2013 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2242099)
Soror cares because she's both a scholar and a student. :)

She still didn't change it. Translation: "Doesn't give a shit." LOL.

have a seat.....

http://lonsdale-data.info/live/produ...ter-chairs.jpg

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Originally Posted by summer_gphib (Post 2242169)
Exactly.

You too....

http://www.meijer.com/assets/product...O043_A_400.jpg

DrPhil 09-23-2013 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Mizeree I2K (Post 2242197)
She still didn't change it. Translation: "Doesn't give a shit." LOL.

That doesn't mean she doesn't care about the apostrophe-plural distinction.

LOL. You give a shit about whether my Soror gives a shit but have the nerve to tell someone else to have a seat.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mizeree I2K (Post 2242197)

Since you insist on the unfunny and nonsilencing chair response, stop being lazy. Use the Africa chair.

Kevin 09-23-2013 02:17 PM

http://theoatmeal.com/comics/apostrophe

SWTXBelle 09-23-2013 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2242212)

Oh, how I love The Oatmeal and its wonderful grammar comics.

Just today my class had a discussion of the Oxford comma.

Kevin 09-23-2013 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 2242216)
Oh, how I love The Oatmeal and its wonderful grammar comics.

Just today my class had a discussion of the Oxford comma.

The apostrophe to make a plural thing is a major pet peeve. I would've probably said something had it not already been done. This board is a place where folks are routinely called out for poor grammar and I love that.

Titchou 09-23-2013 02:31 PM

Commas - the bane of my existence as a proofreader and copy editor.

DubaiSis 09-23-2013 02:38 PM

I, sooo often, have to go back and delete commas (and parentheses) because I over use them.

AZTheta 09-23-2013 03:14 PM

:pyou can never,ever,have too many commas. i've been collecting them and am happy to share.

Hartofsec 09-23-2013 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 (Post 2241854)
I agree... but I don't think Hart helped her cause by continuing to comment and obviously play dumb, even when she was essentially being called out. It almost seemed like she was pushing for it to happen.

Oh I do want to know the identity of "Lisa" aka "She Who Shall Not Be Named" aka "Bama54." Consider it pushed.


Quote:

Originally Posted by AZTheta (Post 2242092)
well, it isn't about the Delta Gamma alumna, despite the intent of She Who Shall Not Be Named. I say leave it open. It's been very informative.

I agree -- leave it open. I'm still interested in the results of the Investigation Biddies Investigation.

Fascinating stuff!

amIblue? 09-23-2013 04:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hartofsec (Post 2242240)
Oh I do want to know the identity of "Lisa" aka "She Who Shall Not Be Named" aka "Bama54." Consider it pushed.




I agree -- leave it open. I'm still interested in the results of the Investigation Biddies Investigation.

Fascinating stuff!

Oh, I thought that was you they were talking about. My mistake!

Tulip86 09-23-2013 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by amIblue? (Post 2242249)
Oh, I thought that was you they were talking about. My mistake!

ditto.

clemsongirl 09-23-2013 06:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amIblue? (Post 2242249)
Oh, I thought that was you they were talking about. My mistake!

http://media.tumblr.com/e594e1b40396...iIs1qz4rgp.gif

I am quite confused.

AZTheta 09-23-2013 06:30 PM

Dear Hartofsec,

before you go any further, what is your NPC affiliation? For the record.

AZTheta

Mizeree I2K 09-23-2013 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2242210)
LOL. You give a shit about whether my Soror gives a shit but have the nerve to tell someone else to have a seat.

CTFU! This is foul as hell. I'm done fuckn with you LOL!

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2242210)
Since you insist on the unfunny and nonsilencing chair response, stop being lazy. Use the Africa chair.

I got it in my invetory of scandalous chairs. I'm saving for a mofo who starts up.


Quote:

Originally Posted by clemsongirl (Post 2242265)

CTFU!!!

Hartofsec 09-23-2013 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amIblue? (Post 2242249)
Oh, I thought that was you they were talking about. My mistake!

Is it?

I didn't want to assume that, because then I would be an alumnass.

KDCat 09-23-2013 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hartofsec (Post 2242299)
Is it?

I didn't want to assume that, because then I would be an alumnass.

<cocks an eyebrow>

So what IS your NPC affliation, anyway?

33girl 09-23-2013 09:04 PM

http://www.broadwayspotted.com/wp-co.../whistling.jpg


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