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starang21 02-08-2013 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2202423)
"Socially conscious" = blowing any slight to your heritage WAY out of proportion?

The notion Asian Student Association at Duke somehow gets cultural approval over other organizations is just absurd. To seemingly believe that they actually speak for all Asians at Duke is just about as bad as anything Kappa Sig did. I'm sure many Asians would be offended to be remotely associated with these over the top protests.

Am I suggesting they be silent? Not really. Maybe send a letter to the editor of the student newspaper, maybe hold an event promoting awareness, whatever. But day after day of protest? Demanding the offending organization be disbanded? I'm just saying there's a more moderate and reasonable course here.

who said they get approval OVER other organizations? they chose to protest a cause they felt was just. just like any other organization. i have yet to insinuate that they speak for all asians. they speak for their organization. there may be a group such as "asians for whites dressing as gieshas" that may be completely cool about this party. if they are, they should come out and do a counter protest.

you can demand whatever you want, whether or not it occurs is a different matter. free speech works both ways. don't get mad for being called a bigot when you say or do something that makes you look like a bigot.

starang21 02-08-2013 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2202432)
And when I want to think about oppressed minorities, Asian students attending one of the top universities in the country are not near the top of my list. Further, if you're saying the enhanced reaction to this was because of the actions of other students, is it fair to victimize Kappa Sigma for those other students' actions?

just because asians en masse don't have to worry about getting pulled over or getting denied a home loan, doesn't mean that it's cool to run around saying stuff like herro or dressing like a sumo wrestler.

MysticCat 02-08-2013 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2202485)
Admittedly, this didn't come from the ASA, but rather some apparent pamphleteer.

Right, so it doesn't support what you keep saying about how the ASA is making itself look dumb. (And it is hardly specific about the action desired.) So, that quote isn't evidence of your allegations.

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I did a little reading about the water buffalo incident at Duke. If you don't recall, I linked a wiki article above Apparently being racially insensitive is a very serious student conduct violation.
Read more carefully next time. The water buffalo incident was at Penn, not Duke. So again, no evidence of your allegations.

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There were also lawsuits based on retaliatory behavior by faculty against members of the LaCrosse team following that whole boondoggle.
I'm very familiar with the Duke Lacrosse fiasco. It started when criminal charges (rape) were brought against the players by the DA. Comparing this incident to the lacrosse case is comparing apples to pumpkins. Citing it would only be relevant if faculty took similar actions against Eta Prime. Any evidence that ASA is advocating that? I sure haven't seen any.

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Asking for "serious things" to happen doesn't require a lot of speculation to lead one to think they are suggesting the University seriously sanction anyone deemed to have offended someone else.
Context Kevin, context. The statement is that they want serious things to be done by the student body and the University because things like this keep happening. Given that a student body has no power to discipline, and given the other quotes and statements calling for conversation and changes in attitude and understanding, it takes less speculation to read the "serious things" statements as a call for conversations that will change campus culture than it does to read them as calls for University sanctions.

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And here's a quote from the rally of several hundred people (not an overreaction?)

She may feel that way, but that's certainly not anyone but her fault. If that's how she wants to interpret and internalize some grown men and women dressing in adult diapers and bathrobes, that's fine.
Again, statements of one person =/= statements of an organization, and 700 students at a rally =/= do not equal actions of an organization that didn't plan or sponsor the rally. And while we're at it, one rally =/= "day after day" of protest.

(And to set the record straight, the only demand that I saw in the Chronicle report where anyone said an organization should be disbanded was where a freshman said the ASA should be disbanded.)


Good grief Kevin. If you want to think there's overreacting going on, fine. Certainly one can discuss whether other means of protest might have been more effective or appeared more (or less) reasonable. And we get that you want to characterize this as just college kids playing dress up, even though the reports, including the statement of the president of Eta Prime, all indicate that there is more to it than that.

But your efforts to castigate those who are offended by lumping them all together (as "the ASA") and accusing them of overreacting based on nothing more than your own assumptions and biases is transparently feckless. And frankly, your pronouncement that no one has any reason to be offended to begin with just comes off as jackassism.

NYC2008 02-08-2013 09:54 PM

This is funny...

If white people make fun of Asians, and Asians get upset, we say they're overreacting.

If white people make fun of Blacks, and Blacks get upset, we scream Racism!

I would love to know how people would react if they wore black face paint and ate chicken and watermelon.

It's okay to say the "C" word but don't ever say the "N" word.
Asians are so sensitive...geez...

NYC2008 02-08-2013 09:59 PM

I love how Kevin the moderator is telling a bunch of Asians to stop being so sensitive.

I love when a non-minority tells minorities to stop being so sensitive.

I think the next party should be a Mexican party with border patrol cops and maids.

adpimiz 02-08-2013 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2202492)
Oh, is this another thread where we pretend there is no such thing as white privilege? Sorry, sometimes I get confused and think people who are educated enough to be members of a GLO are also capable of some sort of self-reflection.

LOL.

AOII Angel 02-09-2013 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by NYC2008 (Post 2202524)
I love how Kevin the moderator is telling a bunch of Asians to stop being so sensitive.

I love when a non-minority tells minorities to stop being so sensitive.

I think the next party should be a Mexican party with border patrol cops and maids.

Already been done and the sorority chapter was put on probation and the national organization issued an apology.

I agree, if a minority is offended, who are we to tell them they have no right to be offended? I think the group involved is more ignorant than willfully racist against asians. They obviously got the idea from America World Police. I can see where they thought that if Trey Parker and Matt Stone could mock Kim Jong Il they could do the same. Apparently they did not see the difference in what they did and satire. Stupid is stupid.

Kevin 02-10-2013 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by NYC2008 (Post 2202524)
I love how Kevin the moderator is telling a bunch of Asians to stop being so sensitive.

You should note that I haven't used any of my moderator powers to do anything whatsoever. Call me an asshole, call me whatever, this thread remains open. It's my opinion that the reaction to this event was an overreaction, that's all it is. If you disagree with me, feel free to post your opinion.

DeltaBetaBaby 02-12-2013 02:18 PM

http://devildems.com/2011/12/06/an-o...y-invitations/

They provide some pretty solid guidelines on choosing a party theme:

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Now we have three quick heuristics for knowing when a party invitation is not OK. To recap:

(1) Did I tell women that they were supposed to be sexy or slutty if they wanted to come to my party?

(2) Did my party make reference to a powerful group and a disempowered group or two groups that engaged in a contentious crisis resulting in many peoples deaths?

(3) Did I divide my party guests or attendees into two groups, male and female, and imply two different standards of behavior or dress for the two groups?

And there we have it!

DeltaBetaBaby 02-18-2013 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by TKESunDevil (Post 2202289)
Agreed. I read some of the comments and one of my favorites is "If you are not outraged...then you're a normal person.

I don't think that there would be a lot of outrage if a bunch of Asians were to dress in overalls and straw hats and throw a "White trash/hillbilly party".

I'm half Asian and I'm not offended by this.

How about if a bunch of Pikes at U of M threw an "America" themed party? Nobody would be outraged, right? Right?

/i know, i know, i'm such a troublemaker

naraht 02-19-2013 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2204355)
How about if a bunch of Pikes at U of M threw an "America" themed party? Nobody would be outraged, right? Right?

/i know, i know, i'm such a troublemaker

Well, they'd need to include stereotypically American food which is so over the top that no one in their right mind would actually consume it anywhere else on the planet....

Deep Fried Turkey!

naraht 02-19-2013 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel (Post 2202553)
They obviously got the idea from America World Police. I can see where they thought that if Trey Parker and Matt Stone could mock Kim Jong Il they could do the same. Apparently they did not see the difference in what they did and satire. Stupid is stupid.

Now if you could pull off having everyone come to your party as Marionettes, *that* would be cool.


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