Wowwwwwww. That's scary. Honestly, though, I actually feel some sympathy for her. She obviously has issues that goes far beyond the norm. I hope she gets the help she truly needs.

that chapter needs to keep its members and alumnae aware of this woman.

They really do. What does she hope to accomplish?

Tonight ZetaDaughter told me that a girl we've known since she was a child is a member of that chapter. I would personally go after that woman if she harmed that girl.

This woman has also been interested in Phi Mu and Alpha Gamma Delta. If you guys know girls who are members in the state of Al, you need to pass on the word. When we couldn't find her in our composites, she said that she was never there for the pictures. She is very crafty and has several names that she goes by.

Anywhere specifically in Al? I'm a Freshman at AU, and although I've only been here for a few weeks, I know about 3 girls in AGD, and 1 in Phi Mu. There are a few posters on here that have daughters of their own/daughter's of family friends in these two sororities.

We had people who missed the composites too...and the composite company printed their names at the bottom. Try again whack job!!

All four years???

My point is that if whack job missed the composite, they should have printed her name on the bottom. Her excuse is n.g.

We had a girl who missed the composite shot all four years. (Something always came up the day we did composites.... even if it was before or after mandatory events :rolleyes:).

However, her name was listed under "Not Pictured" at the bottom of the composite all four years.

I am sure this does happen, but it has to be rare. I'm not familiar with any such case with Chi Omega. Anyone who serves as a collegiate advisor is checked out by HQ. Of course, a random imposter could probably sneak in to help serve punch during a pref party!

I think it's crazy -- some chapters have such a difficult time getting alumnae to serve and here's someone who is willing, but not even a member!

This person actually moved into the chapter house during recruitment! She MUST be stopped, and some sort of suit filed. She could have been a female Ted Bundy!

If she's perping ADPi and is a potential harm to her members (collegians and alumnae alike) why hasn't anyone outed her here yet?

If she's supposedly interested in my organization now...I'd like to know. Put this sick woman on blast. Who cares about her privacy? That was thrown out the window when she decided she didn't want to leave the ADPis alone!

Wow that's scary!! That woman needs a restraining order or something.

I feel like determining if someone was an actual alumni or not would be easier than this. I know ritual knowledge floats around among some non-Greeks, but to me it seems like asking the person in question knowledge about initiation rituals, and grips would be a good way to determine the legitimacy of the person. I know some could pick up that knowledge, but I don't think most would go through the trouble of getting the details down.

I know that I can search sisters on our national website for members. Do other groups not offer anything like this? I've met a few people who told me they were Phi Mus and even though I'm trusting, I ran their names through the Bloom to double check.

I would imagine that in with the level of technology involved in everyone's daily lives that online searchable databases would be the norm, not the exception.

We've had an online directory for several years now.

Even before Sister Search was readily accessible, verifying one's membership was as easy as sending a message to IHQ with her information.

Wow, I don't log on here for almost a year and see what I miss?! Man, that is so wrong. I had to send in paperwork to IHQ a few years ago before I could help out a collegiate chapter.

It's just sad that this has become necessary and that you can't trust someone that you may be your sister at their word.

I just don't understand what someone can get out of a phony alum status. And in this situation by presenting one's self to actives. It just seems beyond weird to the level of serious mental illness. I hope this lady gets the help she probably desperately needs.

This happened BEFORE they found out that she was a perp. I'd be lying if I said that I knew all of the details, but this is a serious nutjob.

Aiiieeee! I got up this morning and the first thing on my Facebook was a post from this woman responding to something an ADPi friend had said!:(

No!!!!

As a sorority alumna, this makes me angry :mad:. As a mom, it creeps me out :eek:!

I'm embarrassed to admit what I'd like to see happen to her...!

I'm not. That might make me a horrid person, but Alpha Delta Pi nor any other organization should have to deal with a person like her.

So did anything further happen to this woman? Was she outed?

She was outed and I believe that ADPi's hq sent her a cease and desist letter although really, you can't stop people from perping. However, she had scared the actives so the campus banned her. Seems like she was caught again on campus and removed.

There's no ADPi stuff on her FB page anymore--it was covered with it back when this happened. The other groups got the word that she was trying to AI into any sorority she could leech onto.

She did come back here once more under another name (ADPiAlum or something like that?) and everyone piled on.:D

ETA: Here's a thread she didn't start but joined in on. I think there was another one.

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...91#post2035491

Question in my mind: Has she moved on from her pursuit of AI? That's one thing that I've been curious about, but could never find an answer to.

I'm told she joined Beta Sigma Phi.

Thanks for the info. :)

Wow--I never knew this happened. Makes me happy that we put our member numbers on our recs now!

Well, this was creepy to the Nth degree. I'm glad it turned out okay (as in no one in the chapter was hurt).

I'm tempted to start vetting the women who are joining the alumnae chapter I'm in after a recent e-mail I received. The sender wrote that she hadn't joined a sorority in college because there were only a few on campus but had long admired Kappa Delta (which was never at her school), so she was requesting info about the AC. How odd. I had to inform her that alumnae chapters are for actual alumnae. I don't know if she was angling for AI, but she didn't say and I wouldn't be helpful in that regard.

You know what is really creepy to me? That a GC member read this thread and then friended this perp on Facebook. What. The. Hell.

Well, dang. Why did you friend her on Facebook?

Why do I feel like I'm missing something here?

Me, too.

Huh? *very puzzled expression*
No random friending here....

The same day you asked about her AI status you friended Jacki on FB. Nothing random about it.