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Theft is a legal term, not something people get arrested for because you think it's not fair. |
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Just because you want it to be true doesn't make it so. Call them dishonorable, call them untrustworthy, call them whatever you like, but the only way to throw them in jail would be to bring back true debtors prisons. Besides, how would you even begin to 'tighten up' the law in such a way? |
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People were locked up until their family paid their debts and often died. Later they were often required to pay for their keep too. You mostly sound personally affronted that they had the audacity to make a choice different than yours and HOW DARE THEY. |
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Sorry if it makes you feel like a sucker for working hard, having good credit and getting to keep your house, though I'm not sure why it would, but this is all a civil matter and no one's a thief by any sense of the word. |
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Well, at least somebody is as outraged as I am...
Thos of you who are saying they arent a thieves due to a technicality of the term - :rolleyes:. If you take something without paying for it, and it was not a gift to you, then it is considered stealing. If you have money to go to Outback, and boating, and gambling, then you have money to pay your mortgage. The good news is, thanks to asshats like these, the lenders have finally toughened up to where they should have been all along. Because my husband is not working full time, and only acquired his part time job 3 months ago, the lenders will not count his income as income, Therefore, for us to buy a house, we have to rely on my income alone. By myself, I qualified to a whole $100K. My credit is high (no credit card debt) but I have student loan debt. So as disappointing as it is that I cant look in the 130-150K price bracket that I wish for, at least I know what I'm capable of for now. So I can either get a home at 100K, or I can wait until I have some of these student loans out of the way, or for my husband to graduate and get a full time job so that we can qualify for more. As hacked off as I am at these irresponsible freaks, at least I know I'm not going to be like them - because I am restricted to what I truly CAN afford, and not just on a dream. |
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Through the Looking Glass, Chapter VI. Words have meaning. Recognizing that isn't a technicality; it's good communication. |
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I'm still missing how they're getting away with anything that can't be handled by the bank. Do they get to keep a lump sum of money and/or a house to show for their stealing? Drolefile once told me to not get stuck in the literal (despite how words and phrases have meanings) because you miss the general point that is being made. :) People are debating the "theft" and "steal" parts of this when we all agree that it's not a good thing what these people are doing. What are some solutions to this problem that don't involve extremes of labeling these people based on the criminal code (because, as was said already, all of the people in debt aren't spending money at Outback)? |
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Legally, the house belongs to the owner/borrower, whose name is on the deed. The bank has a secured loan, with the real property as the security. If the owner/borrower defaults on the loan, the bank has the right under the terms of the loan to initiate legal proceedings to take possession of the property (which wouldn't be necessary if the bank already owned the property) and have the property sold in order to satisfy the loan. But despite the fact that people say it all the time, the bank does not own the property unless and until it forecloses. Hence, no stealing. Call them deadbeats, call them defaulters, call them useless. But thieves simply doesn't fit because they, not the bank, own the property. Meanwhile, what Dr. Phil said. |
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I don't have an outside solution as I think mostly this is all going to work itself out through some people getting modifications and others losing their homes. I don't think there's any reason to froth at the mouth over other people's choices. |
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How common is it for people to stay in their homes without paying on them? It's a relative rarity.
That's clearly a problem and takes some HUGE cajones to even attempt. Wouldn't the police remove the people? "Call the po-po, ho" ~ Madea |
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I do not get the outright personal affront that has been exhibited throughout this thread. It's very much a "how dare they when I'm working my ass off" conversation and I just do not think that makes any sense. |
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Anyway, with foreclosures continuing to be a veritable epidemic, why are banks being stupid? Wouldn't it be better to rent the home back to the former owners for a then-fair market rate with the understanding that the house could be sold out from under them at any point? |
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If they cannot pay, they cannot pay, and squatting or not they're going to affect the banks their rates the same way. With the fed keeping Prime low, it's going to make rates pretty good for the near future. As far as eligibility it was the bust that affected that and probably for the better since prior to that it was being handled haphazardly. Banks don't have the resources to be landlords, they avoid it like the plague. |
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IF YOU'RE NOT OUTRAGED YOU'RE NOT PAYING ATTENTION. |
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It's not against the law, they are just using the system for their best benefit. Just as there are many honorable people who've just gotten in over their head, there are dishonorable people who are gaming the system as it stands and will continue to do so until the game changes. The banks do not want to take ownership of those homes. |
I actually work in real estate and am in frequent contact with people whose homes are underwater. Many of them attempt short-sales. The thing is that you cannot paint them all with the same brush.
Many of the people doing short-sales and being foreclosed on were people with a conventional, reasonable mortgage who had never missed a payment, but suffered horrible luck...perhaps a loss of a job combined with a huge medical bill. I really feel for those. On the other hand, there are many families who were, to put it bluntly, wildly irresponsible. They took a liar's loan or a loan with a balloon payments, bought a house they would NEVER be able to afford otherwise, and then on top of that decided to take out a home equity line of credit and use their already poor investment as an ATM for Mastro's and the Bahamas! Some fault lies with the banks for even offering such absurd loans, but a lot of fault has to lie with those homeowners. I'm sorry. They make a horrifically risky and greedy financial decision and now, of course, there are consequences. So some are unfortunate victims of the economy, and some are wildly irresponsible...and neither side has an outright majority. There are plenty of both. |
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http://www.walletpop.com/blog/2010/0...-to-those-who/ |
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Interesting but how is this any different from people who write hot checks serving a few days in jail?
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