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ree-Xi 05-25-2010 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1934343)
While that's true in general I don't know enough about their family to judge.
But her image is what makes her money. It makes a lot of immediate sense for her to postpone college. It makes more sense for an actor to attend school particularly if they're going to be doing theater in addition to TV/comedy/etc.

I don't know, I don't really judge famous people for whether they go to school. And I think all this article showed was that if you get lucky you can make it without a degree, particularly in Hollywood.

But being "famous" doesn't equate success. What skills do most of those twits from "The Hills" have? Sure, they made $75k an episode, but after that is dried up (Heidi spent $2m on her album that failed, then on all that plastic surgery), then what? Their notoriety (and getting pad $5-10k to show up at a party) isn't going to last. Sure, one or two of the girls have clothing lines, but lasting success? We'll see. Easy come, easy go, right?

And unfortunately, many a successful skilled actor/musician, or famous "celebrity", have suffered tremendous financial difficulties. Many aspire to the financial success and fame of actual hard-working performers, but even the most successful have hardships: Wesley Snipes is in jail for tax evasion, Nicolas Cage is on the hook for millions (and is bankrupt), Billy Joel (and many other musicians) were screwed out of decades' worth of huge paychecks due to being unaware of what their "people" did with their money. (Not saying that higher-educated people don't have money problems; education can make you more aware of both good opportunities as well as potential risks.)

I know that college isn't for everyone, but the level of fame and fortune that many people aspire too is a. elusive, and b. hard to keep going. An education can open doors that people might not otherwise see. For example, savvy former sports players who are blessed with the skill (thanks to education) to speak and think critically have gone on to become sportscasters. People in the film business can turn to directing/producing, writing scripts or books - all which require many advanced thinking and organizational skills, etc. Many business-minded people become entrepreneurs. Not to say that natural talent isn't involved, but higher education can make you more aware of choices and access to resources.

Lastly, the argument that people became successful without or in spite of degrees (as in, they don't end up working in that field) is one I have a hard time swallowing. College isn't just about facts; though academic and worldly pursuits, the very processes it takes to finish an advanced degree, one learns to think critically, analyze options, practice multi-tasking, brainstorm, access and consider differing theories, challenge themselves academically/socially/mentally, and not only survive, but thrive in difficult circumstances.

Whether you're what people consider a high-level professional where you directly use what you've gone to school for (doctor, lawyer), a teacher, a business person, store owner, computer programmer, or even a stay-at-home mom, everyone has to make decisions. The tools you learn in college give you so many more options. Knowing how to be resourceful, having a general understanding of many different subjects and processes (biology, economics, psychology, sociology, politics, math - theories and the abstract, writing, etc.) - it affords freedom and opportunity.

The biggest issue in my mind is the rising cost of education. I don't have an answer for it, and my husband is still paying off those loans, but I don't think that education is ever wasted. Never, ever.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 02:12 PM

correction...Wesley and Nicolas brough that upon themselves.

Drolefille 05-25-2010 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ree-Xi (Post 1934373)
But being "famous" doesn't equate success. What skills do most of those twits from "The Hills" have? Sure, they made $75k an episode, but after that is dried up (Heidi spent $2m on her album that failed, then on all that plastic surgery), then what? Their notoriety (and getting pad $5-10k to show up at a party) isn't going to last. Sure, one or two of the girls have clothing lines, but lasting success? We'll see. Easy come, easy go, right?

And unfortunately, many a successful skilled actor/musician, or famous "celebrity", have suffered tremendous financial difficulties. Many aspire to the financial success and fame of actual hard-working performers, but even the most successful have hardships: Wesley Snipes is in jail for tax evasion, Nicolas Cage is on the hook for millions (and is bankrupt), Billy Joel (and many other musicians) were screwed out of decades' worth of huge paychecks due to being unaware of what their "people" did with their money. (Not saying that higher-educated people don't have money problems; education can make you more aware of both good opportunities as well as potential risks.)

I know that college isn't for everyone, but the level of fame and fortune that many people aspire too is a. elusive, and b. hard to keep going. An education can open doors that people might not otherwise see. For example, savvy former sports players who are blessed with the skill (thanks to education) to speak and think critically have gone on to become sportscasters. People in the film business can turn to directing/producing, writing scripts or books - all which require many advanced thinking and organizational skills, etc. Many business-minded people become entrepreneurs. Not to say that natural talent isn't involved, but higher education can make you more aware of choices and access to resources.

Lastly, the argument that people became successful without or in spite of degrees (as in, they don't end up working in that field) is one I have a hard time swallowing. College isn't just about facts; though academic and worldly pursuits, the very processes it takes to finish an advanced degree, one learns to think critically, analyze options, practice multi-tasking, brainstorm, access and consider differing theories, challenge themselves academically/socially/mentally, and not only survive, but thrive in difficult circumstances.

Whether you're what people consider a high-level professional where you directly use what you've gone to school for (doctor, lawyer), a teacher, a business person, store owner, computer programmer, or even a stay-at-home mom, everyone has to make decisions. The tools you learn in college give you so many more options. Knowing how to be resourceful, having a general understanding of many different subjects and processes (biology, economics, psychology, sociology, politics, math - theories and the abstract, writing, etc.) - it affords freedom and opportunity.

The biggest issue in my mind is the rising cost of education. I don't have an answer for it, and my husband is still paying off those loans, but I don't think that education is ever wasted. Never, ever.

I totally agree with you and that's why I made the point earlier that as along as her money was being managed well she's probably making a reasonable choice. Just as making it to the professional level of sports is unlikely and unreasonable as a life goal, aiming for that level of success in show business is unlikely and unreasonable. Since someone like Miley Cyrus has that level of success (not that she's good, just that she's making bank) and that success is at least in part based on her youth and looks, capitalizing on that now is not a bad thing. Hopefully she does attend school one way or another so that she can manage her money and her career wisely as she grows up.

ree-Xi 05-25-2010 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934377)
correction...Wesley and Nicolas brough that upon themselves.

I wrote:
And unfortunately, many a successful skilled actor/musician, or famous "celebrity", have suffered tremendous financial difficulties. Many aspire to the financial success and fame of actual hard-working performers, but even the most successful have hardships: Wesley Snipes is in jail for tax evasion, Nicolas Cage is on the hook for millions (and is bankrupt), Billy Joel (and many other musicians) were screwed out of decades' worth of huge paychecks due to being unaware of what their "people" did with their money. (Not saying that higher-educated people don't have money problems; education can make you more aware of both good opportunities as well as potential risks.)


I know they did. I put a comma after mentioning each one's mistakes, then said that musicians such as Billy Joel had problems due to being unaware of what was going on.

I apologize if it read differently.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ree-Xi (Post 1934390)
I wrote:
And unfortunately, many a successful skilled actor/musician, or famous "celebrity", have suffered tremendous financial difficulties. Many aspire to the financial success and fame of actual hard-working performers, but even the most successful have hardships: Wesley Snipes is in jail for tax evasion, Nicolas Cage is on the hook for millions (and is bankrupt), Billy Joel (and many other musicians) were screwed out of decades' worth of huge paychecks due to being unaware of what their "people" did with their money. (Not saying that higher-educated people don't have money problems; education can make you more aware of both good opportunities as well as potential risks.)


I know they did. I put a comma after mentioning each one's mistakes, then said that musicians such as Billy Joel had problems due to being unaware of what was going on.

I apologize if it read differently.

I caught it, that's why I didn't bring up Joel...I just don't like 'giving credit' to those who bring money problems on themselves.

Another good example: M.C. Hammer....LOL

als463 05-25-2010 02:45 PM

I have to say that there have been some successful stars who went to college, while still staying in the public eye. The young woman from Wonder Years who is an Alpha Delta Pi, Danika McKellar (sp?) and Jerry O'Connell who is now back in school to get a law degree. Claire Danes went to school, as well as, Natalie Portman. I think it is incredible to be so successful and still choose to go to college. It is too bad that we push college on kids, not for the educational aspect of learning but, more for the money aspect. The message should be that you should go to college to LEARN and not necessarily make money.

DrPhil 05-25-2010 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934400)
I have to say that there have been some successful stars who went to college, while still staying in the public eye. The young woman from Wonder Years who is an Alpha Delta Pi, Danika McKellar (sp?) and Jerry O'Connell who is now back in school to get a law degree. Claire Danes went to school, as well as, Natalie Portman. I think it is incredible to be so successful and still choose to go to college. It is too bad that we push college on kids, not for the educational aspect of learning but, more for the money aspect. The message should be that you should go to college to LEARN and not necessarily make money.

Yep, Danica McKellar was on NCIS last night.

DrPhil 05-25-2010 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1934343)
And I think all this article showed was that if you get lucky you can make it without a degree, particularly in Hollywood.

That's the message to take home, kiddies. :)

als463 05-25-2010 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934403)
Yep, Danica McKellar was on NCIS last night.

Oh...Thank you! I knew I was spelling it wrong! See, she even has a Ph.D. in Science, as far as I know. Once again, please don't quote me on this one because I'm not 100% sure. Maybe one of the ladies from ADPi can answer that one.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934400)
It is too bad that we push college on kids, not for the educational aspect of learning but, more for the money aspect. The message should be that you should go to college to LEARN and not necessarily make money.

On the flipside of that, I think it's WORSE that some kids get convinced that athletics or entertainment is their only out and they should 'use their talent' to make as much money as they can. While I don't exactly knock it, I think when kids are told that it's their way out (as well as the fast way) someone along the line forgets to let these kids know to be prepared for disappointment along the way and that their talent is still only a dime a dozen.

Psi U MC Vito 05-25-2010 02:52 PM

And doesn't Emma Watson go to Brown?

DrPhil 05-25-2010 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934407)
Oh...Thank you! I knew I was spelling it wrong! See, she even has a Ph.D. in Science, as far as I know. Once again, please don't quote me on this one because I'm not 100% sure. Maybe one of the ladies from ADPi can answer that one.

I think she's a Mathematician.

Amen, ree-Xi. :)

ETA: I hear ya, DaemonSeid. Sports and music aren't the only ways to make money, neither are they immediate ways to make money. What parents need to teach kids is that there are no quick fixes or easy money. What's important is to make the investment in your future, which includes some type of secondary education (not necessarily a traditional college or university) and building a skillset. People can take your job and even your career but they can't take what you have learned.

Drolefille 05-25-2010 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934407)
Oh...Thank you! I knew I was spelling it wrong! See, she even has a Ph.D. in Science, as far as I know. Once again, please don't quote me on this one because I'm not 100% sure. Maybe one of the ladies from ADPi can answer that one.

Or wiki. Math degree, summa cum laude. She's written the books about how Math Doesn't Suck.

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934408)
On the flipside of that, I think it's WORSE that some kids get convinced that athletics or entertainment is their only out and they should 'use their talent' to make as much money as they can. While I don't exactly knock it, I think when kids are told that it's their way out (as well as the fast way) someone along the line forgets to let these kids know to be prepared for disappointment along the way and that their talent is still only a dime a dozen.

This.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934411)
I think she's a Mathematician.

Amen, ree-Xi. :)

ETA: I hear ya, DaemonSeid. Sports and music aren't the only ways to make money, neither are they immediate ways to make money. What parents need to teach kids is that there are no quick fixes or easy money. What's important is to make the investment in your future, which includes some type of secondary education (not necessarily a traditional college or university) and building a skillset. People can take your job and even your career but they can't take what you have learned.

Exaclty..think about all the one hit wonders out there in entertainment and sports....Maurice Clarrett anyone?

Drolefille 05-25-2010 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1934409)
And doesn't Emma Watson go to Brown?

I think so, but I don't think she does much acting outside of Harry Potter right now. A few outside roles but she's one of the incredibly lucky plucked from obscurity and now set for life actors.

And she just started in Fall 2009 since she took a gap year. She chose school over being a full-time actress per her quotes. Makes sense, she probably wants to be 'normal.'

Hell I'd take being worth 10 million pounds and having 2 more movies on the way, guaranteed and then retire myself. But I'm lazy.

tld221 05-25-2010 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934151)
Success without a college degree. It is possible and here are some people who accomplished it (at face value). :)

The irony is that the only nonwhite person (there was J-Lo, but that's a different topic) that they showcased is...wait for it...TRACY DAMN MORGAN. Yeah.[/URL]

*ed lover voice* cmon son.

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934154)
r**e war.



^^^ Fixed.

DS: the GCer who cried race war.

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1934187)
And if Ice T says it, I do it, basically.

LMAO can someone make a .gif out of this?

The time spent "making it" without going to college, you couldve... went to college. Remember that phrase "stay in school, don't be a fool?"

yeah, still applies.

agzg 05-25-2010 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1934420)
I think so, but I don't think she does much acting outside of Harry Potter right now. A few outside roles but she's one of the incredibly lucky plucked from obscurity and now set for life actors.

And she just started in Fall 2009 since she took a gap year. She chose school over being a full-time actress per her quotes. Makes sense, she probably wants to be 'normal.'

Hell I'd take being worth 10 million pounds and having 2 more movies on the way, guaranteed and then retire myself. But I'm lazy.

I do think she takes modeling gigs once in a while.

knight_shadow 05-25-2010 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1934433)
LMAO can someone make a .gif out of this?

ehh, close enough...

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4026/...c9abeb14_o.jpg

als463 05-25-2010 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934408)
On the flipside of that, I think it's WORSE that some kids get convinced that athletics or entertainment is their only out and they should 'use their talent' to make as much money as they can. While I don't exactly knock it, I think when kids are told that it's their way out (as well as the fast way) someone along the line forgets to let these kids know to be prepared for disappointment along the way and that their talent is still only a dime a dozen.

You read my mind! I just watched "The Blind Side" and thought that throughout the movie. It made me smile when Michael went to Ole Miss and made the Dean's List, with the help of a tutor. Not only did he have athletics, he also had education (with help from tutors and teachers who cared). On a side note: That movie made me smile.

DrPhil 05-25-2010 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934444)
You read my mind! I just watched "The Blind Side" and thought that throughout the movie. It made me smile when Michael went to Ole Miss and made the Dean's List, with the help of a tutor. Not only did he have athletics, he also had education (with help from tutors and teachers who cared). On a side note: That movie made me smile.

I refuse to see that movie. I'm sure it's excellent.

agzg 05-25-2010 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1934441)

Loyke, Omigah! YAY! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3

knight_shadow 05-25-2010 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1934452)
Loyke, Omigah! YAY! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3

Can you tell I'm bored at work again? lol

als463 05-25-2010 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934450)
I refuse to see that movie. I'm sure it's excellent.

Really? I'll be honest, I was pretty reluctant, as well. I was afraid it would be another Ernie Davis (The Express) movie but, it turned out much better than I expected. My boyfriend brought the movie home, so I figured I'd check it out. It made me smile because, while I want to have children of my own, as a former caseworker, I also really want to adopt. I would have no problem (and this may be simply because I grew up in the North) adopting a child of a different race. I am really happy about the ending (spoiler alert) that Michael didn't just make it because of his athletic ability but, because he was willing to put in the academic work.

DrPhil 05-25-2010 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934459)
Really? I'll be honest, I was pretty reluctant, as well. I was afraid it would be another Ernie Davis (The Express) movie but, it turned out much better than I expected. My boyfriend brought the movie home, so I figured I'd check it out. It made me smile because, while I want to have children of my own, as a former caseworker, I also really want to adopt. I would have no problem (and this may be simply because I grew up in the North) adopting a child of a different race. I am really happy about the ending (spoiler alert) that Michael didn't just make it because of his athletic ability but, because he was willing to put in the academic work.

Okay.

The good thing is that Michael has a kickass college degree. Alright!!

als463 05-25-2010 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934462)
Okay.

The good thing is that Michael has a kickass college degree. Alright!!

I'm not as concerned that he has a college degree as I am that he worked all the way through college and graduated without quitting. I know a lot of NFL and NBA players quit college and they only use college as a stepping stone to the big times. The fact that he finished is great. He went from not having a very high IQ to making it through college. It proves that if you are willing, you can learn anything! That is why kids should want to go to college. The sad thing is, that doesn't happen.

As far as the adoption part, I was serious about that. I didn't mean to imply that people from the South would be opposed to it, I was just saying that it doesn't seem as taboo in the North as it may in the South (from what I saw from the movie-not my own personal experience...I am not trying to offend anyone).

Drolefille 05-25-2010 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1934438)
I do think she takes modeling gigs once in a while.

True. It's just that your level of involvement with your career changes a lot if you're going to be a college student at the same time. Miley Cyrus couldn't tour/record/act at the level she is while attending school, she's working a full time job. Emma Watson has chosen to pursue school first and it seems like she'll be able to fit it in with her much more limited acting and modeling work. I have no idea what her personal goals are either, whether she'd like to keep acting or not post-HP.

Anyway, for those lucky enough to already be rich and famous they have a bit more freedom in some ways and and less in others but privilege out the wazoo.

DrPhil 05-25-2010 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934464)
The fact that he finished is great.

Yeah he has a kickass college degree! Alright!

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Originally Posted by als463 (Post 1934464)
As far as the adoption part, I was serious about that. I didn't mean to imply that people from the South would be opposed to it, I was just saying that it doesn't seem as taboo in the North as it may in the South (from what I saw from the movie-not my own personal experience...I am not trying to offend anyone).

The taboo-o-meter aside, race and all that comes with it isn't a Southern construct. ;)

Are you going based on the movie? LOL. It's a good thing that movies aren't teaching tools. And, no, you aren't offending me and I really wish you would quit with the disclaimers.

agzg 05-25-2010 04:08 PM

Trans-racial adoption is a hot-button issue all over the country, not just in the South.

It may not be in your community, though.

See the recent Sandra Bullock adoption criticisms.

Drolefille 05-25-2010 04:11 PM

You know that thing about adding too much information to your posts? You're doing it again.

Should we use a codeword?

Pineapple. PINEAPPLE.

knight_shadow 05-25-2010 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1934481)
You know that thing about adding too much information to your posts? You're doing it again.

Should we use a codeword?

Pineapple. PINEAPPLE.

*done*

DrPhil 05-25-2010 04:18 PM

PINEAPPLE!! LOL.

ree-Xi 05-25-2010 04:30 PM

Another opponent of higher education. Cuz womenfolk don't need no edumacation.

http://www.unlessthelordmagazine.com...r_is_grown.htm

DrPhil 05-25-2010 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by ree-Xi (Post 1934500)
Another opponent of higher education. Cuz womenfolk don't need no edumacation.

http://www.unlessthelordmagazine.com...r_is_grown.htm

Jesus be a fence.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1934450)
I refuse to see that movie. I'm sure it's excellent.

I 2nd that...as a matter of fact, if Hollywood wants to make a good story...Make one out of Myron Rolle.

Drolefille 05-25-2010 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934519)
I 2nd that...as a matter of fact, if Hollywood wants to make a good story...Make one out of Myron Rolle.

Fix your siggy DS *glares*

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 04:59 PM

HMPH!

and no I am NOT adding the doink doink...

Drolefille 05-25-2010 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934535)
HMPH!

and no I am NOT adding the doink doink...

I mean my name! *glares*

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 05:02 PM

yikes............................



gonna go find my glasses.

Drolefille 05-25-2010 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1934539)
yikes............................



gonna go find my glasses.

Thank you. Now I don't need to go get KSUViolet to threaten to cut you.

DaemonSeid 05-25-2010 05:13 PM

GC....where the sockpuppets are crazy and the women are violent enough to cut you.


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