Yeah, they have never had a problem with it. I mean, they get a list of new members once they join I guess.

All the non-NPC/NPHC sororities that I know of personally do this.

I believe they give the Greek Life a list of new members, but the new members aren't allowed to tell anyone they are pledging.

I know when I tried to pledge ABC, we couldn't even tell our friends who went through rush with us. We were told to tell them we dropped. When we did fundraisers (as pledges) we had to make up a fake organization.

Of course this varies from organization, and in no way am I saying this is what sylviasushi's organization does.

My sorority makes books full of inspirational quotes instead of pictures for new mems. Mine has lyrics to songs about Alpha Phi that aren't secret, our family poem, cheesy quotes about sisters, etc. I also included pages that are decorated with places for pictures at A Phi events, like a page each for functions, sisterhoods, community service, our big philanthropy event, Red Dress gala, formal, a family picture, etc.

ooo, these are some great ideas, i love the quotes one! thanks so much for sharing, you've given me a lot of new ideas. =)