It's a pretty long story! I'll make it short though! I hung out with him (Steven) for about 2 weeks straight. One night (a Saturday night) we went to his house after a party and had the best time (not like that.. he wasn't ever that lucky). I left at about 4am to go meet up with my friend at a party b/c i was staying the night with her and Steven called me, and we talked for another hour! I was really thinking things were great. Then i screwed it up the next night b/c we sorta had plans but not official and i never called him like i was supposed to b/c i was with other people all day at the beach and they had told us to come out to a party later so we took showers and went straight there.. he called me and i told him i couldnt talk b/c the cops were busting it and then when i called back he didnt answer. he has caller id.. he hasnt called since and i havent called him. SaDnEsS!

You could try something novel like calling him again . . . after all he isn't a mind reader.

Never play it so cool the other person gets away. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif


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Bebe..That sucks. You seem like an awesome girl, and he should see that, even if you didn't have a chance to call. YOu should try calling him or seeing him somewhere to talk. Good luck.

He called me yesterday but i was in class and we had an old, vicious substitute, so i had to turn my phone off on him.. so it sounded to him like i hung up on him. i tried calling back, but his sister said he was at WF.. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif i told her to tell him i called.. he hasnt called back, and he does have caller i.d!

Ok, my dreamguy....my husband fits most of these characteristics thank heavens!!!!

Taller than I am (I'm 5'8) but not too tall....I hate a guy to LOOM over me...

Dark hair (I have only ever dated one blond guy my whole life!!!!!)

Big blue eyes with thick, long black lashes

Full, soft, kiss-me lips

Strong bone structure, firm chin, high cheekbones, manly-looking!

Bigger frame...not a big cheesy workout freak, but more like a well-fed frat boy who knows how to fight....a rugby body maybe?

Conservative in dress and in thought (except in the bedroom!) I like my boys preppy...my hubby's fave store is Brooks Brothers!!!

Ok, I may come under fire for this, but he's gotta be financially with it....there's no nice way to put this, I was a spoiled brat only child with a rich daddy, and I know how money issues can tear a marriage apart. Money issues helped lead to my parents' divorce and I never wanted it to be an issue for me, so I needed a man with similar wants, expectations, and potential.

Car? Well, my hubby drives a Mustang GT in the summer (yuck I hate it, midlife crisis car 15 years early!!!) and a Buick Park Avenue in the winter. I would prefer that he drive a smaller sedan, like an Audi or an Acura or something. I drive an SUV because I have 2 little ones, but when they are out of carseats (or at least my older is) I'd like him to drive an SUV and me get a cute little car like a BMW 3 series or a Jetta (LOVE Jettas) or something.

Personality---strong, honest, loving, mischievous, generous, humorous, intelligent, opinionated but open-minded, family-oriented but likes to party....

Gotta be athletic---my hubby is a PGA professional so obviously he is a fantastic golfer. He's also good at tennis, skiing, and softball. I like to ski so that is important to me.

I like a more artistic-minded man....unfortunately this is where my hubby lacks. I love to go to art museums, see cool films, listen to cool music....I love gallery openings, the symphony, etc. I also like gourmet food and my hubby is a meat and potatoes man.

He has to have a great family---I hit the jackpot on this one...

I'm going to use this as my singles ad http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

I bet you will not get very excited to hear about me though
when I have more time - I'll write down my dream girl

I'm a short 5'9"
with very dark brown hair
quite tanned, yet not on false pretenses
If I'm outside, I get tanned, contrariwise I do not.

Girls adore my blue eyes and I usually recieve things like "best smile," both, in conjunction with the general aesthetics of my face, have been used as examples on why people think I have the appearance of Tom Cruise in his Top Gun years. I also usually get best dressed

I have no muscles whatsoever, and it's almost certain you can beat me up

Though actually I can hold my own on the Soccer field, and I've always been on highly successful teams, but for run-of-the-mill sports, I stop at Soccer.

I mountain bike, camp/hike, and free-hand climb as much as possible.

My style ranges from outdoorsy like a pair of bostons and a NF fleece to car coats, wool pants, and cashmere sweaters.

I love productions, I see every play that I can, every concert I can

favorite band is Phish
favorite writers: JD Salinger, Saul Williams
short gelled hair typically
read alot
write alot

I've been termed chapter poet for Sigma Chi

I practically collecet anything soft, so gore windstopper and cashmere and two of man's greatest findings in my opinion

I'm going to school for electrical and computer engineering, but plan on going to Law school after that, then take an additional 24 hours to get an MBA, and I plan on turning my families sports store into more of an outdorrsy hiking/biking store, somewhat like what abercrombie used to be like.

i sound decent right?
why cannot I ever seem to have "luck with the ladies?" http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

hehehe


wanna hear a date I have planned for whomever comes along during the summer?
e-mail me - it's pretty phat

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SigmaChiCard-
Wow! I am dying to know what your "Dream Girl" looks like! You sound really cute!!

Thank-you for the compliment techADPi
Here’s my dream girl
[maybe if we’re lucky it’s a match http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif ]

My Dream Girl….
By her physical nature
Needs to be approximately my height
With preferably a darker shade of brown hair, and short
Green eyes
Quite skinny
With smaller breasts
And, considering this is my favorite spot on a woman’s body
Needs to have a genuinely nice curve just above her hip
Insinuating a firm stomach, as well as a nice back,
Because she needs to have a nice back, I love backs for some odd reason.

I’d want her to be reasonably tanned,
But on legitimate pretenses as I said in mine earlier

Concerning fashion and general outward impression
I’d like her to be very fashionably sensible
Without being overcome with it.
I’m very much into style I guess
So I’d want her to be the type of girl who
If she wants a leather jacket
Doesn’t buy a crappy one that will last for a small fad
But is a quality one you can wear through the years
Because I don’t like it when you become too caught up into today’s fashion.
I’m more into some eternal fashion senses, I guess.

I’d want her to be ¾ outgoing
Not 100%
I’m a pretty shy guy
So I’m not the type of person who just goes up and chats with people
Unless I have some reason to do so.
I’d want her to be able to hold highly intellectual conversations
Particularly about the abstract
Because that’s kind-of what interests me most
I’d like her to have a high vocabulary
For one reason
Because I always want to improve mine
And also because I find a girl who knows exactly what she wants to say somewhat sexy.

She’d need to be able to go camping/climbing/biking with me
I would love a girl that’s better than me at soccer as well
Wouldn’t have to be muscular at all
Just reasonably in shape
As that’s all that I am
Must have very white teeth
My teeth are very white
And it’s one thing I’m somewhat anal about
Not really
But nasty teeth just disgust me

Her hygiene would have to be very good as well
But her apartment could be as messy, as long as it’s not
Genuinely dirty, as she would want it to be.

I particularly love very short hair
And I love going to parks just to read or write
Or just to sleep in the middle of the fields you can find there
Just lying in the grass
I need a girl who is, essentially, the romanticist/idealist that
I consider myself to be.

Also I want a girl that, when we’re at a party, and on opposite sides there-of
All we’d have to do is look at each other amidst conversations with other people
To know that we were in love, a reassuring glance you might say

And for my Dream Date...

This could woo Aphrodite herself, I think, but I never can find a girl good enough to do this for, but here it is.

It would have to be in the summer, but
there is a stream a short distance from my home than runs at about ankle height for most of the way, further down it becomes waist height, but nevertheless

I want to place a pic-nic table into the portion of the stream that runs ankle height, and take a date their for a pic-nic so that we'd take off our shoes, about a quarter mile upstream, walk to the place where the stream bed is all nonslick slate rock where the table would be, and because the slate is their, it wouldn't hurt your feet at all, and I'd want to have perhaps a buddy go upstream and drop Rose petals into the stream, such that they'd float by as we were sitting there, drinking wine, and eating whatever the food selection may be.

Am I wrong, or does that not seem like it could be an ultra romantic dinner? But I know all the girls I've dated wouldn't appreciate it, I've never had one girlfriend thank me for a poem I've written and given them. They're just not appreciative of thoser sort of things - so tell me if that is a good date, or what i need to improve upon it, or if it's sketchy since other people are going to be around dsroping flower petals and stuff.

all thoughts appreciated

Here's my thing I think with backs

If they have a nice back, then it's probable that they have a nice stomach, reasonably skinny, reasonably in shape, not to mention it's just a generally sensous place.

I love kissing girls on their backs and I also just love any contact with a womans shoulders too. It's werd and unexplainable, despite my best effort.

Welcome to the no apprecsiation club buddy. Girls are weird about that stuff. They say they like it but when you try then its, all like, "settle down buddy."

I can't wait to find the love of my life. Hopefully he will fit my Dream Guy description, but if he doesn't that's ok. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
Here it goes:
-Taller than me, so at least 5'9".
-Brown hair(I have blonde hair so I don't want to feel like I am dating my brother.)
-Athletic
-Good body(Doesn't have to be really muscular, just in shape)
-Tan
-Green or blue eyes
-Nice hands
-Cute Dresser
-As old as me or a COUPLE of years older
-Christian
-Nice hair(short)
-Straight white teeth
-No hairy chests!
-Considerate and Gentelmanly
-Loves me more than anything else in the world!
-Wants to have at least 2 kids, no more than 4
-Doesn't mind moving away from Texas and living in Maine or Boston.
-I don't care what kind of car he drives as long as it runs.
-Gets along with my family
-He has to love pets
-Likes to travel
-Romantic
-Likes my friends
I don't even know if there is a guy out there like this, but one can only hope!!!

Let's see here. I guess my dream guy is described somehow in almost everyone else's post, but oh well. In no particualr order:

*sweet, but not overly eager to do anything I ask, unless we're serious.
*MUST ADORE ANIMALS, especially your run-of-the-mill everyday pets.
*5'8 or taller, I'm 5'3 so....
*any color hair is alright, but preferably not the exact color of mine(sandy blonde)
*intellectual and non-conforming. Especially when it comes to wierd books, religions, race and other norms.
*handsome. doesn't really matter his qualities, AS LONG AS THEY'RE PLEASING TO ME!!!

My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0")
-Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular
-Into sports
-Republican and likes to talk politics
-Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha
-Clean cut
-Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans
-A good listener
-Very much into goals/academics
-The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha

My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0")
-Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular
-Into sports
-Republican and likes to talk politics
-Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha
-Clean cut
-Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans
-A good listener
-Very much into goals/academics
-The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha