If these girls don't want to go to parties with you (you and the other fraternities you), I'm sorry, but there must be something wrong with you.

I know mixers/swaps are alcohol free now and not as fun as they used to be, but they're the same way everywhere, and I don't see guys from every school complaining that the girls are just "meh" about them.

no no! its not like they dont wanna come with me...

they just wanna come to fill up their points

im not saying they're like "oh sams weird i dont wanna go with him"

its more like "ugh im so tired i dont wanna go to the party tonite but i have to b/c i need my points"


so it just kinda ruins the mood

if shorties dont want to go the frat parties, that must mean ya'll shits suck yo, or ya'll some cornball ass dudes...REAL TALK!!!

and why would a chick go on a date if they have a man already? that dont make any type of sense...

and if they dont want to go out with you again, that must say something about YOU...maybe they think you're wack, or just not their type, or maybe ya breath stinks...i'm just sayin...

"Maybe they are just not into you"....Miranda Hobbs

As the Mom of a Bama sorority girl, I say "Way to go, girl". I am very glad that she is not hooking up with the likes of you. If that is all you want out of a relationship, then maybe you are looking in the wrong place!!

I could be wrong but maybe it's you.......I usually only go on dates with guys I'm actually interested in.

No one every guaranteed that Joining a Fraternity = Lots of Dates = Partying with the Sorority Girls = Getting Laid

Just from reading your posts, I wouldn't be interested even if you looked like Clooney.

Well, come on now, let's not get crazy...;)

j/k :p

Well......maybe Clooney :eek:

well, i guess ya'll are right.

i mean we are young....18, 19, 20



even though the girls are prudes....its the right thing to do...after all, the
Bible says to stay celibate until we're married


not tryin to sound arrogant, but i modeled for Ford Models in NYC when i lived there lol...but im no clooney lol

To help answer your original question, it would behoove you to get involved with other campus outlets other than Greek life. The Greek presence at Bama is huge, but there are other women out there who you could meet somewhere else on campus. In no way are you compromising your fraternal pride, but you could probably meet a gorgeous young woman who will stay over late because she doesn't feel like following the "rules".

It's no guarantee that you'll hook up (whatever your definition of that is), but there is a better chance that you'll have someone who will stop by your house to see you, and not be seen.

Well, that's your problem, son. Those sweet Bama Belles don't always cotton to yankees.

im from alabama actually

NEW YORK CITY??!!?!!








get a rope........

Let's see some pictures.