^From the outside looking in, I do find co-eds to be something I don't understand. I wonder if it tends to get "messy" when members start dating each other.

There are a few Latino co-eds (Alpha Psi Lambda, Delta Sigma Chi, Lambda Sigma Chi, Delta Delta - although I do not hear much about the last two anymore).

In Phi Sig, we have had two intra-fraternity relationships since I've been a member. And, when the first one ended, it happened pretty quietley. That could have been because the (ex) girlfriend was studying abroad in England.

I enjoy being in a co-ed fraternity! I have always enjoyed having male friends and have always veiwed them as the brother I never had (now, they actually are my brothers-haha!). I find a certain sense of security knowing that I have the males in the frat to protect and look out for me. We love each other--well, most of us. :p