Sunnyhibiscus - I think you are probably doing the right thing in deciding not to participate in recruitment but NEVER tell yourself you are not good enough. Being good enough has nothing to do with it. It is easy to fall through the crack during recruitment and then it is very hard to get a bid after that. My HS BFF is at UGA and was cut by everybody when I thought she would have the top chapters fighting over her. It has taken her about a year to get over it but now she is fine. Another thing to remenber is that if your college is like most others most of the students are not greek and they get along just fine. Make non greek friends and become involved in non greek activities, move on and leave the greek thing behind. Take it from me, it looks a lot better from the outside than it does from the inside.