Have you ever cheated on a significant other.
Nope. Well, maybe mentally a couple of times, but never for serious.


Should you/did you tell them that you did. Exceptions?
Yes, you should, if it's for the right reasons. If you're telling them to hurt them, or just to make yourself feel better when you know they'd rather not know, then you should keep it to yourself. Otherwise, it's best to tell. I'm a pretty open person.

Would you want to know? Why?
Yes. I'd want to know, from him. Immediately. It would kill me to find out any other way, and getting it out there and working it out always seems to me to be better than letting things like that fester.

What would you do if you found it they did that to you? Stay together etc?
Try as hard as possible to work it out and figure out why it happened and if it can be fixed. If it can't be fixed, then it'd be over ... but I really think that as long as two people are really in love and have the right attitude about relationships, then things can be fixed.

James,

I don't know whether you are gay, or just the threads you make up. Stop it man, you are scaring my cat named Rupert.


Are you Jestor?

He totally is Jestor! I get it now!!!! It is all becoming clear!