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Drolefille 06-20-2007 03:16 PM

Not everyone's daddy gives them beer money.

Or pays their credit card, or their other bills.

KSUViolet06 06-20-2007 03:18 PM

This sounds like unecessary drama. She should have asked about reimbursement before fronting the money.

Not attacking you, just asking: Did you know your chapter didn't reimburse for fundraisers? If you're her Big, why didn't you let her know before she bought everything?

AlwaysSAI 06-20-2007 03:21 PM

She is continually getting the run around. No one wants to talk to her. No one wants to reimburse her.

AlwaysSAI 06-20-2007 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1470238)
Not attacking you, just asking: Did you know your chapter didn't reimburse for fundraisers? If you're her Big, why didn't you let her know before she bought everything?

Everytime I have contributed monetarily to a fundraiser I have been reimbursed, so this was new to me.

And, I was not the VPM. I assumed the VPM would have notified them of anything they needed to do to make sure nothing like this happened. I mean, that's her job. Her job was to supervise their pledging period and make sure they knew everything they needed to know and did everything they needed to do.

ForeverRoses 06-20-2007 03:41 PM

If they haven't bought the gift yet, then who has the $177 that they did make from the fundraiser?

AlwaysSAI 06-20-2007 03:43 PM

It's in the SAI account. I don't know when money changed hands and I really don't know when all of this started, but I was just notified today.

AlwaysSAI 06-20-2007 03:55 PM

Resolution
 
Alright, GCers.

Apparently, this has all been solved. I was notified by my little that she will be recieving a check tomorrow from the VPM.

I probably acted a little prematurely by coming here, but my little was very upset and was afraid she wouldn't be able to pay her electricity bill.

I apologize if this caused anyone undue stress.

I just didn't know where else to go.

NutBrnHair 06-20-2007 04:20 PM

20/20 Hindsight
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1470203)
Okay, so here's the deal:

May SAI little is kind of awesome. And, I just found out today that she turned down a bid from Chi Omega (one of the top sororities at UNCG) because she wanted to join SAI that badly.


She should have joined Chi Omega and this never would have happened! ;)

KIDDING...I'm only kidding! Sorry, I couldn't resist!

Kevin 06-20-2007 04:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1470218)
But, then again, me and my little can kind of be drama queens....:p

We believe you.

AlwaysSAI 06-20-2007 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NutBrnHair (Post 1470278)
She should have joined Chi Omega and this never would have happened! ;)

KIDDING...I'm only kidding! Sorry, I couldn't resist!

HAHAHAA :D

It's cool. She said she really liked the girls, but that it just didn't line up with her ideals the way SAI does.

Dionysus 06-20-2007 05:08 PM

She could always pawn her rings. If she don't have any rings, I'm sure her mom and grandma have some.

ladygreek 06-20-2007 05:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1470218)
It is catastrophe when you can't pay your bills because you are waiting on reimbursement.

But you said her family is able to help her with money, which is why she footed the bill in the first place.

ETA: Glad it was resolved, but believe me it didn't cause me any stress.

SydneyK 06-20-2007 05:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1470286)
She said she really liked the girls, but that it just didn't line up with her ideals the way SAI does.

I know this has nothing to do with the thread topic, but since the catastrophe has been averted it doesn't matter...

Doesn't she realize she can do both? I had several sisters who were in both SAI and KD, and I know KD wasn't the only NPC org represented in SAI.

.

ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl 06-20-2007 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1470334)
But you said her family is able to help her with money, which is why she footed the bill in the first place.

ETA: Glad it was resolved, but believe me it didn't cause me any stress.

Mom and dad can have their own financial problems when there's an illness in the family, or something in the house that needs to be immediately repaired, for instance. I personally know that can change quick and drastically.

Mom and dad might also have assumed they'd be getting reimbursed and weren't happy when they weren't. I've been in that situation as well.

adpiucf 06-20-2007 05:24 PM

So she put out $200 and they only made $177 which was then put in a chapter account? Now your little is being reimbursed her original $200....Sounds like there wasn't much of a fundraiser there... they ended up costing the chapter $23.

Can't they just get each girl who want to voluntarily chip in $5 to get the chapter a gift? We did this when I was a new member of ADPi. We got the house a gift from our class. Anyone who couldn't afford it didn't-- most of the girls contributed, however.


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