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Whether the NPC chapters on your campus will consider you a viable candidate for membership is another matter entirely. p.s. I would also delete your other post. |
My Alma Mater when to delayed rush, and the sorority chapters are half the size they used to be. Having fall rush encourages young women to pledge a sorority to be busy, have a group of friends, etc... When rush is deferred, many already have found their cliques, groups outside of the greek system.
I think there are strong reasons for deferring (especially at big schools with so many sororities), but it certainly does hinder the numbers. |
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I would rather have 40 sisters who are all involved and participating to the fullest than a chapter of 100 where half are just "jacket sisters" who only participate in the barest minimum to keep from getting kicked out. |
when are you initiated...after the new membership trial period?
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So...a question: (I suspect that I know the answer but this is confusing). Girl A accepts a bid for a colony chapter of a national sorority. Two weeks later decides that it isn't "right" for her. Has a friend in a top house, a new member, not an active. New friend supposedly invites her to COB in a house that has met quota. Mom calls Panhellenic (adult advisor) who tells mom that daughter can COB (right now) or rush (in spring). Can someone accept a bid, depledge and the accept a bid within a month period with the exception being made because this is a colony?
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I believe my situation is a little unique and would like ANY information/advice. I was in a sorority at my school (but it is not nationally panhellenic), was initiated and was active for a short period of time before deactivating because I was not satisfied with how the sorority was run and was individually harassed by another sister. Now, quite a while later, I am offered to rush an NPC sorority. Need help as to what to do with/how to approach my former national sorority because I would really like to pursue this new sorority.
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Also learn discretion, I was able to figure out the sorority with five minutes of research based on your post. |
Dear Psi_U_MC_Vito, I have sent you a private message. Please read and don't be too quick to judge people you don't know.
Also, this sorority is panhellenic at a couple of universities around the country, so I was a little unsure as to my situation. |
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If you became an active sister, you may require a formal resignation before you can join another group on campus.
For instance, in Alpha Omega Epsilon, you need to fill out the Voluntary Deactivation of a Candidate/Active (depending on your status) and turn in all your membership materials. If you formally resigned, you should then be eligible, unless your campus panhellenic has a rule that you are bound to any chapter of PHA (rather than just NPC) for a year after accepting a bid. |
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