My ex... who I should mention WON"T GO AWAY... was into wearing corsetts and panties. I didn't really believed him and thought the corsett he showed me was an ex girlfriends or something. Then I saw him wearing the panties one night.... it was over soon after. Also after that incident I found out how messed up in the head he was.

ccutoff I think you might be gay and you just don't know it yet.

I am baffled how I got found out on the bus, because before I leave I make sure what positions/poses to avoid so there is no bra outline projection through my shirt.. I try not to draw attention to myself. I guess I must have gotten careless for a split second and she happened to glance at the perfect time, or maybe it was just the lighting on my back. Don't know, but before I go out I always make sure the potential for bra outline projection through my back is as small as it can get. But you are right, maybe others have seen it but just ignored it or not said anything, or didn't let me know. That lady was the only person who has ever let me know about it, and it was a positive experience, much less dreadful than I ever thought getting caught wearing a bra would be. It kind of makes me want to get caught wearing one even more just to get more reactions and such, but I will play it safe for now.

I think telling my team mates would not be such a great idea :)

I don't know if I could ever try on bras at the store or browse... when I buy my bras I know exactly what I am getting so I am in and out in a timely fashion. The hard part for me is just stepping into the store, its very hard for me to do. Once I am in the store I am fine but just getting in the store is hard. I'll walk by the store 4-5 times before going in. I have researched the whole "men wearing bras" aspect on the internet.. and you are right, most of the people on the internet who admit that they like wearing bras are not only over the age of 35(more like 40s-50s) but also all out cross-dressers whose online screen names are female names. It freaks me out, that is the problem with my bra wearing - I don't want to be classified with those freaks. I haven't found many subtle bra wearers over the internet.

I just got curious one day with a bra that was left at my friend's house after a party, and fell in love I guess. I don't see how women hate it...

Nope, I have a girlfriend and all that! I am definatley NOT gay! If I were to tell anyone I knew about my bra wearing it would be my girlfriend. My family would not understand at all, my friends would think I am gay. But for some reason I think it would turn my girlfriend on? I've read stories on the internet about girlfriends/wives who use bras as a mean of controlling their significant other. Trust me.. I am a normal 20 year old guy. If you would see me in person, you would never suspect me as a person who would have a bra wearing hobby.

Yeah, what's DITY?

ccutoff seriously, this isn't normal. I mean think about what you're saying. You wear a bra! A bra!

You say you have a girlfriend, so like I said, you may be gay and you just don't know it yet.

Can your basesball player buddies see the bra sticking out through your jersey? How are you able to hide this?

What is this world coming to? Guys wearing panties, bras, g strings ect ect. That's sick.:rolleyes:

I never wear my bras to practice or games.

I don't wear anything other than bras. No panties, thongs, g-strings, nothing.

I am not gay. Wearing a bra is just something that I enjoy. Can't tell you exactly why, but I do.

OMG! I can't stop laughing at this whole thing.

o.k. Where do you wear the bras?

Just about everywhere except practice, games, and while I am sleeping.

Typical daily routine:
-Wake up, shower, etc., put on clothes + bra
-Go wherever with my bra on, that could be class, a store, etc.
-If I have practice/game, take off my bra before leaving for practice/game
-When I get back from practice/game, put it back on
-Go wherever with my bra on, which could be a store, movies, restraunt, etc.
-Won't take if off until I go to bed

Places I won't wear bras:
Practice
Games
Beach/Swimming Pool(duh)
Doctor's Office
Church
When I am with my family/relatives/girlfriend and I know I get hugged

I wear my bras everywhere else though.

I have worn a bra every day since January 3, 2006(when I first bought my bras). I would say that if I sleep 8 hours per day, that leaves 16 hours I am awake. I have a bra on roughly 14 of those 16 hours on average. Some days I don't take it off at all.

Hope this helped :) If you have any other questions just ask

P.S. I want more opinions/reactions if you were to catch a guy like me wearing a bra!

Too much information.

If you ONLY wear a bra in the bedroom, that MAY make some sense, I could see how that can be considered as an act of submission.

While this is definately abnormal, I wouldn't call it sick. Now, if he wore an 80 year old woman's "bloomers" or wore an 8 year old boy's Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle briefs, THAT would be sick.

ccutoff, just so you know I'm not making fun of you when I laugh, but right now I am laughing so hard I'm crying. I'm just laughing at this whole thing, not at you, but your routine.

Are you someone else, or are you really you? Is this a joke?

I have some more questions for ya.

Are you wearing a bra right now?

When you do wear a bra, do people look at you funny?

Dionysus you just made me laugh harder at the Ninja Turtle underwear.:p

It's not a joke. I decided to post this here because of the large forum userbase.

I just woke up, and I am still in bed with my laptop. No I do not have a bra on right now but once I get out of bed, shower and get dressed I will.

Well, like I said, I have only been "caught" wearing a bra by one person. I may have been caught by more, but this lady was the only one who let me know she caught me. I was on a shuttle bus and she somehow saw that I had a bra on, how I don't know. I must have gotten careless. Anyway, when I got off, she approached me and smiled at me, and then whispered "I think thats great". She was about my age, and it wasn't too bad. No funny looks. But she is the only one I know who has caught me. Perhaps others have but just ignored it. I don't know.

hm... well I am big on doing whatever you want, regardless of what others think as long as you aren't hurting anyone (well... without their consent) so.... My first reaction (being honest here...) is one of shock, however, i've thought about it, and I agree with the woman on the bus....

Gender identity is something that is often confused with that of your genetically based sex (that of male/female) and society dictates how we are supposed to behave when we are of either sex. However, in the case of the transgendered, homo or bi-sexual, these lines are blurry, as they are in this situation. if you enjoy this behavior, then i say you do what you want, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders but perhaps it is not only the wearing of the bra- but the secrecy of it... does that make any sense?
you mentioned in another post that you wanted to tell others, but feared their reaction. I would investigate this further if you want to understand this behavior...
we can talk about it more if you'd like :)
-Maggie

Seriously. Grow up. Take a psychology class.

Well, it may be comfortable for you, but the only way I can compare a woman wearing a bra to a male is.... think about how you'd feel if you had to constrict your marbles in an underwire, sometimes with different push up methods, all day long. It's the fact that bras are holding two things (sometimes heavy, depending on size) connected to your body all day long. I'm thinking it'd be similar to your marbles being constricted like that all day. They just wana hang.

And I agree.... DITY???

I'm sorry CG I agree with her here, I know that it is unconventional but there isn't anything wrong with it.