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James were you the guy?
-Rudey |
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That's just it. You don't need to trust people who you have just met. People need to earn your trust. And we (especially women) need to protect ourselves when getting involved with different people. Pay attention to all of these red flags this guy is giving you. People like this should not have our trust. Forget the sex offender stuff. Just look at the way he is already trying to control you by saying how you guys should meet. I can already sense things are going to get worse if you continue with him. When it comes to internet dating, I think guys and girls should take proactive steps in learning about the person so that you are comfortable. If people cannot respect that, then screw them. You can find someone better. |
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Is this the same boy who made a snowman on your lawn that one time? Lol I probably know him. Could you PM me his name? Lol I hope it's not a relative! I've found that Italian boys like skinny girls though. Who knows? |
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Definitely done with him. He creeped me out at first but I thought "hmm maybe it's just me". But yeah... def gone. |
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So true. |
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Stories like this should keep you from meeting men off of websites and nothing more. I see nothing wrong with Googling a man's name and driving separate cars when you go out until you feel comfortable with each other. I don't let a man see where I live or go to his house until I know his background. This includes whether he has a criminal record (I don't date men with criminal records), his family, education, and career. I pretty much am trying to figure out if he has as much at stake as I do. Meaning, I don't do drama because I have too much to lose. I date men who have as much if not more to lose from drama as I do. Therefore, no drama. :D Anything beyond that, in my opinion, is doing too much. |
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The perceived "anonymity" of the internet increases the chances of dating mishaps and other crazy stuff. Meet your guys in-person and begin the screening process from there. |
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If you ever meet a guy again rather it be on the net or in person, if he does anything that you find wierd, leave him alone right away. |
DSTCHAOS, I pretty much share your sentiments.
I don't see anything wrong with people meeeting other people off of the internet, but I sure as hell am not going to do it. |
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I have met 3 men since I was of legal age from an internet dating sites...the first was a great guy who eventually came from NY to visit but the distance kinda faded things..the second was lame but a really nice guy and we are still friends...the third I met and we dated for several months...my thing is respecting your own comfort zone...I always meet dates out in public and they only get the work cell at first...I drive mysef and if he's crazy then he doesn't really know much about me...but I'm a talker so in my case we had talked on the phone/emailed for a while until I felt comfortable...I personally think that there are psychos in the club, on the net, at the market, etc so the internet isn't different from any other setting...I actually like the fact that on the internet at first at least a man has to be able to type, spell, and use the king's english correctly.I still have the same requirements that I have with a man I met elsewhere,...ie eduacation, no more than 1 child if any, a sense of spirituality, etc..from there it's the phone conversations...I don't know I was kinda adventurous/crazy in my younger years...now I'm a mommy and its all different...kinda...:p :D |
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