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James 06-27-2003 01:45 AM

Bump

kstring10232004 01-12-2007 04:07 PM

What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?

KSig RC 01-12-2007 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kstring10232004 (Post 1382539)
What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?

pretty much you're screwed

winnieb 01-12-2007 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kstring10232004 (Post 1382539)
What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?

Please give us more details-- we love people to air their dirty laundry on here!!

thesweetestone 01-12-2007 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Serenity (Post 79513)
OK, I'll admit it. I have a dirty mind.... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Me too.:o

AGDee 01-13-2007 01:33 AM

How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.

valkyrie 01-13-2007 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 1382745)
How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.

I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

Munchkin03 01-14-2007 09:40 PM

Troof. It seems that if you were "in love" with two people, it would either have to be twins who were duping you, or the "love" was so weak as to be kinda shady.

GeekyPenguin 01-15-2007 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie (Post 1382933)
I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

I think that's really different too - if somebody is dead you shouldn't really be "actively" loving them. (Sounds bad, but I hope you can get what I'm saying.)

sweetness27 04-25-2007 10:18 AM

I think it's possible but not one and the same way!

Kevin 04-25-2007 11:42 AM

Sure I think it's possible. In polygamous households, I'm certain that the head of the household in some cases loves at least some or all of his (or her) spouses.

Do I think it's a little strange? Yeah.. but that's because I'm from a strictly monogamous background. Does strange mean impossible? Nope.

mulattogyrl 04-26-2007 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by thesweetestone (Post 1382663)
Me too.:o

Me three. :eek: :o

trideltrockstar 04-27-2007 07:08 PM

I think you can love two people at the same time, but being IN love is such a powerful and entirely overwhelming experience I think it is only possible to have with one person at a time. I believe you never truly stop loving someone, it just becomes a different kind of feeling/love.

1908Revelations 04-27-2007 07:45 PM

I had refused to even look at this thread b/c I thought it was really dirty!

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Originally Posted by tickledpink (Post 79520)
*smiling* Ahem, ladies, dirty minds aside... No, not true love. When you truly love someone that way, you simply cannot love someone else the same. When you truly love someone, your feelings and emotions are wrapped up in that one person, and you don't have the desire to look at anyone else.

Usually when people say they love two people at once, they're not in true love. They may love one quality about one person, and love something else about the other

Mocha, I don't think many men will answer this post for fear that it may incriminate them... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Well said!!


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