Our extended "family" of family, friends and neighbors who come from different faiths. We've taken to selecting names out of a hat and giving one "secret santa" gift to that person (in lieu of a bunch of spending $30 per person on various people for gifts, you spend $100 on that one person) and celebrating our own Chrismukah ;) It ends up being cheaper.

Oh ok. That makes sense. The way you said it, I thought it was like a club or an organization that you belong to.

Merry chrismahannakwanzakah to you too!

You, too!

Seriously, does anyone have any recommendations? Something simple, silver or stainless steel....

Have you tried Macy's or Dillards?

ETA: They have a bunch here, about halfway down the page. http://www.thetiebar.com/categoryPag....asp?view=all&

EATA: They also have a bunch of really nice sterling silver ones on amazon.com. Just search 'tie bar' in the jewelry section.

SigKapSweetie-- what a great web site. Thanks! I may end up ordering my boyfriend some ties from them, too.