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Drolefille 09-20-2006 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by liltrixx (Post 1324082)
I thought most sororities don't let their girls wear letters or names when drinking. I don't remember what the bracelets looked like nor do I know what national Sigma Kappa rules on letters are, but if it did wouldn't that be going with national rules.

ps. I wish they would put "Sorority Life" on DVD...it was very entertaining!

Ditto on what Alphafrog said, however SK does prohibit drinking in your letters.

Ocalagirl 09-20-2006 12:48 PM

I thought they used locals, but honestly I could not tell you it has been so long ago. But in the case of nationals, I know that is the rule.

AlphaFrog 09-20-2006 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by liltrixx (Post 1324093)
I thought they used locals, but honestly I could not tell you it has been so long ago. But in the case of nationals, I know that is the rule.

Not all NPCs have that rule. ASA has a rule that could be interpreted to mean no drinking in letters, depending on how closely you want to read into it, but it's not spesifically stated. I also believe Theta does not have a rule about drinking in letters.

tunatartare 09-20-2006 12:52 PM

I think that may be Theta Phi Alpha, not Kappa Alpha Theta.

Ocalagirl 09-20-2006 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by liltrixx (Post 1324093)
I thought they used locals, but honestly I could not tell you it has been so long ago. But in the case of nationals, I know that is the rule.

OK let me rephrase....A lot of nationals have this rule, I know personally from friends that Alpha Xi Delta does not allow members to drink in their letters. I just assumed that most had this rule.

33girl 09-20-2006 12:54 PM

Unless it is written in your bylaws...and you've seen it with your own eyes...there are no national rules about drinking in letters.

Back to the topic of the thread.

WCUgirl 09-20-2006 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1324102)
Unless it is written in your bylaws...and you've seen it with your own eyes...there are no national rules about drinking in letters.

Back to the topic of the thread.

Thank you!

Symbal 09-20-2006 03:09 PM

Woah that exploded! I was hoping to keep the sorority names under wraps until rush was over and I goofed. :(

Symbal 09-20-2006 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi (Post 1324039)
Symbal.. I'm a sister here at WVU.. I'm APPALLED that someone would tell you that you can't afford dues!! I know my sorority offers payment plans that many girls use, especially because our new member fees are particularly high this year- around $700. I don't know which sorority you're referring to that did this, but I'm completely shocked that someone would be so rude to a PNM!

Anyway, hope your rush experience is going well! Maybe I'll see you Thursday.. (or maybe I've already met you!)

I didn't get an invite back to your fine sorority, though I've often stopped to admire the house! :o

Drolefille 09-20-2006 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Symbal (Post 1324207)
Woah that exploded! I was hoping to keep the sorority names under wraps until rush was over and I goofed. :(

It's ok. I can tell you as a Sigma Kappa that I'm not offended by your words, but by the member's actions. I wish you luck.

As for the no drinking rule, while I do not know if it is a national rule or not... it has been drilled into me on the chapter level.

twinkle555 09-20-2006 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1324087)
Sigma Kappa was NOT the sorority featured on Sorority Life. Whatever sorority it was (I think it was something like Sigma Alpha Epsilon Pi) is NOT national and would NOT have to worry about following national rules.

i thought it was something like DZO..i think it was delta xi omega..does anyone else remember?

Drolefille 09-20-2006 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by twinkle555 (Post 1324227)
i thought it was something like DZO..i think it was delta xi omega..does anyone else remember?

That was Season 2 :D


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Originally Posted by AXiD670 (Post 1324224)
Just wait until you're an alumna and you find out IT'S ALL LIES!!! It was weird the first time I had an alcoholic beverage while wearing my Quill. Mind you, I wasn't getting smashed, but enjoying a glass of wine w/ dinner.

lol, well I'm an alumna, but I haven't gone to any meetings yet. I get to help with recruitment this weekend though! I'm excited :p

_Lisa_ 09-20-2006 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by twinkle555 (Post 1324227)
i thought it was something like DZO..i think it was delta xi omega..does anyone else remember?

There were several seasons:

First Season: Sigma Alpha Epsilon Pi
Second Season: Delta Xi Omega
Third Season: Zeta Sigma Phi

GtownGirl98 09-20-2006 04:13 PM

I think that when most chapters refer to "not drinking" in letters, they are referring to the "drunk to you can't walk" kind of drinking, the kind of drinking that can get you into my office or before a judge, not just a glass of wine with dinner. But that is my interpret on it. I think that if you are an alumnae and out to dinner with friends and you have your beautiful badge on then having a tasteful drink is okay.

As to SL... loved watching the train wreck... whatever happened with those chapters?


Symbal's good luck... finances are important to the chapter but that was just rude. I hope that word gets back to the chapter and they can have a chat about rude behaviors. If that had been my chapter or my group, you can bet that I would be on the phone to sisters who could address this issue with the chapter.

Drolefille 09-20-2006 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by GtownGirl98 (Post 1324243)
I think that when most chapters refer to "not drinking" in letters, they are referring to the "drunk to you can't walk" kind of drinking, the kind of drinking that can get you into my office or before a judge, not just a glass of wine with dinner. But that is my interpret on it. I think that if you are an alumnae and out to dinner with friends and you have your beautiful badge on then having a tasteful drink is okay.

As to SL... loved watching the train wreck... whatever happened with those chapters?


Symbal's good luck... finances are important to the chapter but that was just rude. I hope that word gets back to the chapter and they can have a chat about rude behaviors. If that had been my chapter or my group, you can bet that I would be on the phone to sisters who could address this issue with the chapter.

:) No worries.


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