@teena,
where did you get those "smileys"...that MJ is bad!

I forgot where I got them, but I posted all the cool ones I found Here

Teena and Perfect Verse's response------>http://www.websmileys.com/sm/love/250.gif

I hate it when dudes just start dancing with me without asking first.

It's usually some FUBR looking guy that knows I would turn him down if he'd ask, so he just creeps up behind me and starts rubbing his lil vienna sausage-sized pecker on my booty.

I just completely stop dancing and tell him to back up off me!

:mad:


Oh yeah, the drink thing works well for me too. I've rarely had to buy myself a drink in the club.

You're not the only one sitting in the rocking chair knitting, lol. This thread is making me feel old as hayle! LOL

Wow what kind of clubs do you go to???:confused:

I'm noticing a trend. Do women go to the club empty pursed with the intention of getting men to buy them drinks??? I guess so and that must be why they be acting so thirsty. LITERALLY!!! They be like:

“[Cough] I’m thirsty. So how are you doing tonight?”
“I’m cool.”:cool:
“Yeah cool as that drink you’re holding.”
“Hmmm.”
“What is it?”
“Call-a-cab.”
“Oh…looks nice. Wish I had one.”
“[Pretending not to hear her] So you enjoying yourself tonight?”
“No. I’m thirsty [She’s getting mad]”
“Well the bar has a two for one specials tonight.”
“Really? [Fake smile appears]”
“Yeah so go get yourself something to drink. I’ll still be here.”
[She rolls her eyes :rolleyes: ]
“What??? You thought I was gonna buy you one. [Pulls out my degree]. I graduated from PerfectVerse06 and lil_sunshine University of Ghetto Pimpology. You can’t get a sammich out me, let alone a $10 drink. K.I.M.!!!”

Same clubs as everyone else. That used to happen to me a lot and my hair wasn't even that long. And guys seriously don't see the problem with pulling my hair, like it's just normal to them. I've gotten into plenty of arguements at clubs...I bet if they had random ugly chicks rubbing their heads, front and back sides as they walk by they would stop doing all that stupid stuff.

I have random ugly chicks rubbing me all the time, but I mug'm real hard and they get the point.

Get 'em Ike

LMAO! I wish I could do that. For some reason when I go out guys think I'm playing when I say "Get away from me" or "I don't want to talk/dance with you." Seriously. I think it's b/c I look young and they think I'm stupid. I don't know how many times I've said no and they stand there and say "Why not?" I just stand there like :confused: I told you I don't want to be around you and you're still standing in my face :o I remember distinctly when I went out last October b/c my friends were in town. This dude kept bothering me, I was walking away, telling him no, everything I could think of. Then, I come back to see him asking my friends why I wouldn't talk to him:o I swear I attract losers:( Another time, I almost got into a fight with this enormously sized dude at the club...long story lol...

I don't know about y'all, but it annoys me when we as greeks think it's cool to stroll or partywalk in the club. That's not why I paid to get in here and I'm sure no one else paid to be pushed out of the way and have their bump and grind interupted by a line of sweaty dudes.

Let the choir and the church say
**all together**

AMEN!!!

ETA

I meant to say chuch

clubbin
 

well, as for me we really dont hit the clubs too much anymore, in ATL the big thing now is hittin bars and happy hours...its a lot less jam packed and sweaty and you dont get that sweaty+smoke+sex smell that you get when you leave "THE BOUNCE" or one of those crazy clubs. You can actually stand and talk to people.

But when I was younger one thing I used to not understand is why girls sometimes will go out in groups and all dance with themselves, isolated and wont want to dance with any men. I understand sometimes you just want to have fun with your friends, but whats the point in going out if you have no desire to meet new people?

I never leave home without my cash monies.

In case of emergency, I always carry enough cash for a cab ride home or if anything else comes up.

I don't DEPEND on men to buy me drinks, but since he's offering...who am I to turn him down. As long as I follow him to the bar and stand beside him and watch him and the bartender with my sinful beverage, it's cool.

But he BET NOT think that just because he bought me a drink that means I'm all his. Negro, you are like a styrofoam cup- disposable!