The first thing I notice about a man is his height. I love tall men. Secondly, I will say the teeth and last but not least, his shoes(I can't stand a brother in busted shoes.

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YOU took the words right out of my mouth!!! :D

I totally agree about the busted shoes. I just can't stand the dirty shoes, unless he is hardworking and his JOB requires that.

whew, i LOVE a brotha that smells delectable!!! but teeth come first (though i am semi-flexible) then his kicks, if his shoes look like they could run away on their own, i can't deal with him...but i LOVE a GREAT smelling man! um um um...:D

The first thing is the...
 

smile. Initially, it communicates that you're the warm kind of person that I love to spend time with. After closer inspection, then I can see if you are taking care of yourself by brushing and flossing. Stains and signs of decay are quite unappealing. :eek: After that, I'll have to say full lips, smoky/bedroom/warm eyes, beautiful skin, neat separated eyebrows, and thick arms and thighs. I need a healthy-sized man.

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Girl I thought it was just me that did that. :)

The SECOND thing I notice is his aura. I can stand a man that ends every sentence with "You know what I'm sayin...." Can he hold intelligent conversation, that's another question I ask.

Teeth, and dress run a close third. I really don't like guys that wear jeans and sneakers or Tims all the time....can I see ya in some nice pants with a nice shirt??? And as far as teeth, they don't have to be perfect, just white and not jacked up.


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LOL!

I always notice his overall attitude first. If he seems approachable, then I'll approach him! If not, then I know that he may be too "uppity" for me to handle! After that, then the smile comes in, and I love a great personality!

hmmmmmm...I notice the height (love a tall man, whoooo weee!) and the eyes

For me, the first thing that attracts me is the smile! Running a very close second is personality. This inner quality draws me like a magnet. That is usually evident by level of conversation, intelligence, and of course a sense of humor! I cannot stand people who lack personality. I don't have nobody hanging around me (male or female) with a dull personality, can't laugh and take a joke (or tell one) every once in a while ;)

I like tall, dark, and bowlegged brothers. I love the way bowlegged people walk.;)

Intelligence; nice cologne; humble, yet confident; has a sense of purpose and is compassionate.

I have to say that a nice smile will keep me around for a while. I love muscular shoulders and nice arms (my boyfriend would hate to know that those are the only reasons I keep him around J/K :D ). Also, intelligence. I love having deep conversations with a man. If he knows more about a subject than me, all the better. I can learn from him just like he can learn from me.

Just had to reply. We were talking about this at work today. I am a sucker for a handsome smile. I love a six pack, broad shoulders, and musclar arms! And I'm weak for a good smelling colagne! :D But I'm not superfical, personality is a must!