To put this bluntly, he doesn't care about you. Cut him off from sex, and while you're at it, cut him of from any and all contact with you.

It will be hard, but if you stick to it you will thank yourself later.

Why would you waste your time on a guy who is obviously not going to change anytime soon?

You should read "10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives" by Dr. Laura. It was fabulous.

I must be reading your original post wrong.

It seems to me that you broke up with him by saying that he was too young for you. Which is really patronizing.

So how do you expect him to act towards you?

Also, you went out with him for 4-6 months. Thats a significant amount of time, if you were on completely different mental levels you wouldn't have been that attracted to him for that long.

It looks like you blew whatever chance you might have for a real relationship with him and he is just fitting you into his life as is convenient for him.

If you can't handle the relationship you have with him either ask him to change it or stop talking to him completely.

Is the number 10 stupid thing reading Dr. Laura?

Sorry. That was too easy.

He's sooooo just using you.

I went through this situation with my last gf, where she played games like this for about a year after we broke up.

Basically she knew she had me by my balls and could snap her fingers and I'd come running.

It took me a damn long time to finally get it through my skull that nothing I was ever going to do or say was going to be able to bring her back to me.

We're back to being friends now, though, so it's all good. We're just not as close as we once were even on a friendship level and may never be again.

Yea, that's it. Number 10, "you're a big fat loser for reading my book."

:rolleyes:

I thought I was on your ignore list. :confused:

Oh goodness, my ignore list is an incredibly exclusive club. Anyway, I can't put you on it if you're going to advise people to read Dr. Laura -- somebody has to call you out on that and I don't see anyone else doing it.

My work here is never done.

As long as you were sleeping with her and not spending much money on her she wasn't actually using you.

She was just paying as she goes.

Sorry ladies, but thats how guy think. ;)

Let's see, the chapter I was refering to was on STUPID ATTACHMENT to men, when their relationships are going nowhere and they are being used. Sounds a lot like her situation. Of course I also recommend that people read the Bible and I believe you said that was your favorite Christian fiction book. So I guess we will continue to disagree on just about everything (wait, there was one time I did agree with you) but can we do it without calling each other stupid? That'd be fabulous. :D

Sure, but, um, where did I call you stupid? Please cite.

No, that's number one - she wants you to read the whole book first. :)

Sorry if I misunderstood, I guess you were saying it would be stupid for her to read it....but I thought you were saying I was stupid for reading Dr. Laura.

lol I know!
One night I sat down and asked myself "what kind of guys am I dating lately?, Oh my God this has to change!"
Then I erased and blocked the numbers of guys I considered trash.
Now I will take a big break with the dating thing.
I'll focus on myself and recover my (Inner ;) ) beauty.

I bet if you quit calling him, he'll suddenly take an interest in you. Of course, you won't want him when he does call, but at least it will be a lesson for him and he can see firsthand how you've felt all this time.