See, I think they BOTH did something wrong, and that's why I think it might be worth trying to get past it if they really dig each other, you know?

Yes, you are right.

OBviously he has to let it go and can't hold it against her, but does that mean she should modify the way she hangs out with guys?

Like not hang out with drunk guys that like her? And stuff like that?

Yes, we both did something wrong. We both fully admit that. I spent the weekend with him and it was incredible. ... we had a wonderful time together.
I think we are just going to see what happens. Although I fully admit I know I am love with this man, I also know we both have to deal with our issues to have a fully loving relationship.

And yes, I think if only one of us had done something this wrong we would not be able to get past this and would have to let go, but we both care enough about each other and want to go forward to see what can happen.

We both plan on modifying some of our behaviors.
Hopefully it will get better.
We shall see....