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We have alumni chapters around the country, although they're pretty losely organized in many places. I suspect that's true of many if not most fraternities. The sororities seem to me to have a much better organization of alumni chapters. Finally, I suspect that all Greek letter organizations stress life-long membership and support, a lot of members don't thet the message and thus the "I used to be..." dialog. |
Okay I get it now. Like I said before, aint no disrespect here...Im always down to learn something new. But if I may ask another question....why is your alumni system set up the way it is now. If lifelong commitment is stressed at the undergrad level, why are there some fraternities and sororities that have alumni chapters and some that do not? I would think that there would be a way to facilitate the alumni support thru said chapters in this way.
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So even if you don't see an alumnae chapter of a sorority near you, it doesn't mean they don't exist anywhere. |
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ETA: Just b/c there isn't an alumni/ae chapter in a particular area doesn't mean the member can't be active. A lot of times alums are active as an advisor or national volunteer, but they may not be active in their local association. Something I've noticed is that sororities tend to do alumnae chapters by area, versus fraternities by college chapter. Has anyone else noticed that? |
i havent read through all of the posts, but im sure most of them have covered the important information you're looking for.
all i can really add is....DO NOT VIEW FRATERNITIES AND SORORITIES THE WAY THAT THEY ARE DEPICTED IN MOVIES. I dont know what it is, but Hollywood really seems to hate the greek system. They make it look terrible by feeding on AWFUL stereotypes that most of the time have VERY LITTLE truth to them. |
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All National Greek Letter Organizations want to profess, Life Membership. While that is true, it is up to the individual Member whether to still stay active or not. I have been doing it for 40 years, so there is something therre for Me to want to do that. Basically, the Relationships that We make while in College and later are fantastic. Since doing this for 40 Years, I have been to many Chapters and numerious IHQ Meetings and met even more Brothers from all over the Country. Yes, I still keep in touch with them. I meet Brothers of Not only LXA My Fraternity, but Men and Women from all over from Different GLOs. While it may seem hard to understand, just look at GC. Where have you seen so many people working with and for each other.:cool: |
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My experience in Kappa has been enhanced by my participation in my local Alumnae Association and by advising my undergraduate chapter. I became active as an alumnae because we had great advisors when I was in school. I just saw it as this is what you do when you graduate. However, not all members want to participate on that level. In short, what was true for members as an undergraduate is true for alumnae members - you get out of your membership and organization what you put into it! |
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Great Post, dont think anyone could say it Better. A Trueism for sure to remember!:cool: |
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While it is nice - and even important - for alumni members to be as active as they can (join and participate in alumni chapters), I feel that upholding and following the fraternity's principals, ideals, objectives, creed etc. on a day to day basis *is* being active. |
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As a former advisor and Division officer, I find it discouraging that we don't have more alumni involvement. It's tough finding advisors for all of our chapters, let alone getting brothers to alumni events. We do take alumni initiates, but the process is long and tedious. I still think the women really have it figured out a whole lot better than we do. Of course I'm speaking for NIC groups. I don't know how it is in the D-9. In Delt, there are no national alumni dues. (Our local chapter does ask for $20 a year, I think, and most of that is used for a couple of small scholarships for our chapters in Colorado). In any event, once you've paid you initiation fee, you're a member for life and get the magazine until you pass to the Chapter Eternal. That's not to say that you don't get fund-raising pitches from the Educational foundation several times a year -- but that's a digression. |
Many cities also have alumnae panhellenic groups (for all alumnae of NPC groups) and hold panhel-wide activities. I don't know if guys' GLOs do this though. I'm only familiar with NPC groups.
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I was just trying to keep this one simple but I don't think we can. :) |
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