I actually had a girlfriend my sophomore year in college who was a member of a sorority and then became very actively involved in a campus Christian ministry group. The entire time we dated, I respected her decisions not to drink, have sex, etc. and then one day out of the blue she dumped me saying, " I don't want to risk falling in love with someone I know is going to hell." I asked her what she meant by that, and she said that my being in a fraternity was incompatible with being a Christian (I am a pretty active Presbyterian I might add).

Not to make light of your love life, but she sounds exactly like Puddy in that one Seinfeld episode.

Ha you are so right! I never thought of that. Hmmm, come to think of it, my life often seems like one big epsiode of Seinfeld. Yada, yada, yada...