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Peaches-n-Cream

03-23-2005 06:10 PM

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Originally posted by laidbackfella
Hmmm, I've done that before.

After ordering a drink for a woman I make sure that the bartender hands the drink to me.

I look in her eyes and say very firmly, "If you're not here after what I'm here after, you'll be here after I leave."

I can't remember where I heard that before but it's very effective.

Based on the body language she either gets to keep the drink or I simply hand it to a random female walking by.

Have you ever seen the look in the eyes of a female when her six dollar drink goes walking off in another woman's hands?

Priceless

Only $6 for a drink. You're so lucky. They're about $10 around here.

HotDamnImAPhiMu

03-23-2005 08:03 PM

Oooh. And $8 here. Didn't even catch that.

laidbackfella

03-23-2005 08:55 PM

I'm in the country part of South Carolina.

Wait.

That's redundant.

I'm in South Carolina.

Lady Pi Phi

03-23-2005 09:28 PM

You should go with the $2.75 drinks at the cougar bar. They're there for the same reasons you are and you will save all that money.

ZTAMich

03-23-2005 09:36 PM

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Originally posted by Peaches-n-Cream
Only $6 for a drink. You're so lucky. They're about $10 around here.

If I lost one of my beloved martinis...I think I'd cry...

cashmoney

03-24-2005 12:34 AM

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Fuck that, I just get them drunk as hell. By the end of the night they're wanting to come home with me. :D

Peaches-n-Cream

03-24-2005 12:49 AM

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Originally posted by ZTAMich
If I lost one of my beloved martinis...I think I'd cry...

Me too. :( I am sad just thinking about it.

HotDamnImAPhiMu

03-24-2005 10:05 AM

what kind of martini?

ZTAMich

03-25-2005 11:02 AM

I like any martini, tend to drink them dirty or ultra girly with crazy fruit in them...

I made sure my drinks didn't leave me last night...

KSig RC

03-25-2005 11:35 AM

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Originally posted by ZTAMich
I like any martini, tend to drink them dirty or ultra girly with crazy fruit in them...

I made sure my drinks didn't leave me last night...

does this mean you did it? like, it?

ZTAMich

03-25-2005 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by KSig RC
does this mean you did it? like, it?

oh wouldn't ya'll like to know...:)

KSig RC

03-25-2005 01:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAMich
oh wouldn't ya'll like to know...:)

This means "YES"

Peaches-n-Cream

03-25-2005 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAMich
I like any martini, tend to drink them dirty or ultra girly with crazy fruit in them...

I made sure my drinks didn't leave me last night...

Is your crown crooked?

Is that the right expression?

I had merlot last night. :)

HotDamnImAPhiMu

03-25-2005 05:18 PM

When I worked in resturants we used to pronounce merlot the way it's written. Same with cabernet. Just in the back, between the staff, but I still think it's funny.

Rudey

03-26-2005 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by ZTAMich
Rudey & laidbackfella, while I think some people may not like you're attitude and may call it agressive rather than assertive, for me you're 'tell it like it is' attitude is really just honesty and that's essential for a relationship. I'll be sure to think of some whitty comebacks to those kinds of questions for the next 'just drinks' date I have...

I've gotten where I am in life with at least some measure of charisma or charm.

In other words, I'm not some keg standing, beer bonging, frat boy who says he "just wants sex" on his t-shirts.

-Rudey

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