I feel your pain brother.

Wow...you must have overheard the conversation in which I was dumped...the same things were said to me. After 14 months, he tells me on a Monday night...over the phone...while he is in a store shopping for groceries...that he didn't think it was going to work out any more, that he still cared for me, he would not forget me, blah, blah, blah. It is always hard to hear that especially after you have put so much into a relationship that lasted a good chunk of time. The thing that burns me the most...he dumps me in November, told me that he had been thinking about breaking it off since September, but he had the nerve to invite me to his mother's Thanksgiving two days before he broke up with me, fully knowing that he was unsure of our relationship. I have forgiven past boyfriends but the way this one ended...I never, ever want to hear from him again. So, I feel your pain and I am sorry. Like they say...time heals all wounds.

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b/c they are a-holes, basically, who still wanna have you wanting them in case they decide they wanna come back.

a-holes, all of them!!!!!!!

Big hugs, sweetie :(

Thanks for the love, everybody. Seriously.

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Dear Phrat,

Sorry for HIS loss... You are a wonderful, sweet person and you deserve someone who is worthy of all of you...

I guess as a consolation, if you feel like self-introspection and reflection, you have to take this life's lesson, learn from it, move on and beyond, and you are probably better off without fool that does not have the decency to look at your "heart chakra" and take you to your "seventh house"...

Take care of yourself health wise... Because you will need the strength to endure this kind of pangs...

And get out of your bottom level "chakras"--because if you keep going with your gut and below--you will be in the wheel of confusion--contantly "yinging" and "yanging"--you don't need to continually go that route...

And remember, keep your head up and be the man you are supposed to be!!!

OR time wounds all heels!!
(not making light of your situation - I'm really sorry to hear about it. :( )

Because he's an....

http://www.blatti.net/pix/logos/assclown.jpg

:( I'm sorry you are going through this. Have a hug and a nice hot bath (lots of bubbles), a hot cup of tea spiked with something, then write a nice long F-You letter, but don't send it....then burn it.

The F-You for hurting my feelings letter is always good. (At least it has been for me.)

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Because they're being selfish...sorry you're going through something like that.

:(

Because they are so unthinking and stupidly selfish. Also because if he stays in touch with you, it's a mind game on his part. "If I call and they answer, they must still want to be with me." Puleeze!

"I still care about you." If you do, then don't freaking call.

I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I wish I could take a magic wand and just wish away all of the hurt and pain. I know the feeling...and it does hurt.

Stay strong. I'm sending you my prayers and thoughts.

I'm a boy.

Gay, but a boy nonetheless.

Thanks, everyone, for the kind words.

:o

I seem to be suffering from foot-in-mouth disease. Forgive me.

I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!