A couple of years ago, I found a great book that explains all of this. It's called What Men Want. It was written by 3 young professional guys (a doctor, a lawyer, and an accountant). According to this book, when a guy meets a girl, he can immediately determine if she is a "good for now" girl or "wife material". This book is a great way to see how a man REALLY thinks, this is stuff that he WON'T tell you (examples are 1) with sex, men still believe in the double standard, and 2) women have more power over men than they know).

SOME women have more power over men than they know, not all. ;)

That's true...kind of like when you agreed to be my slave for a week :p

Daaaaamn, you must be able to do something right. :p

I know, I've been told that my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard :p But it really only works with the hot ones, so YOU must be doing something right...;)

Eh, not ALL men believe in the double standard, thankfully.

My ex-fiance pulled the same thing on me...except he had a specific person he wanted to sleep with: MY BEST FRIEND!!! I should have known then, but it took me a couple of months to realize that if he was interested in pursuing something with other girls, then he wasn't ready for anything with me. Good luck, and I hope your situation turns out better than mine did. (Although not marrying him was the best decision I ever made!)