that and she changed her story from the other thread she posted when she said she decided that it wasn't for her...

I don't think we were harsh either.

She received WONDERFUL advice the first time she posted her scenario. Only the first time she didn't tell us that she was "forced to" initiate into the sorority.

By her starting up this drama all over again in ANOTHER thread -- not to mention informing us this time around that she was initiated against her own will, one can't help but think that this is suspicious. Like Dani said, if she was initiated at gunpoint or she initiated a la the Sopranos, then she could have had out before I-Day.

I think what pisses people off the most is the fact that she was told over and over again that she cannot initiate into another NPC. What part of that does she not understand that she had to start another thread because a SENIOR NOT IN HER SORORITY misinformed her about some loophole in rushing once again?

She wants to cheat the friggin' system. I don't want any girl who cheats the NPC to wear my letters. That's just plain dishonesty right there.

So Phyllis, if you want to hold her hand and let her know that everything's gonna be okay, just make sure she knows she can't initiate into another NPC sorority. That's all.

KTHXBI.

Okay, maybe I'm missing something...what other thread did this person post in? I missed the "first" posting...

Are we sure this is the same poster? I'm not doubting...just asking...

yep. you can search for a particular poster's threads, btw.

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=60339

Thanks kddani! I guess this is the same person...how interesting...I would've never caught on...

Okay...all credibility has been lost...unless something has happened between the first posting on 12/5 to today's posting...I guess we need to know the whole story first...

I don't see how anyone can be forced into being initiated. You're gonna have to give us more credit. We've all been around the block once or twice. And, a few of us have already heard your first "excuse" for wanting another NPC.

It's all really been said above.

I will add that there are LOTS of us who have been at expensive universities far away from home. But, we didn't try and use that as an excuse for either poor judgement or bad experiences. It's called GROWING UP and TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. Blaming everyone else and saying they are the reason you are faced with the current undesirable situation is very unbecoming of any NPC member and lady.

Take a step back and think about your words and actions. After reading your posts, I can only say that it is time to lay in the bed you've made. Good luck.

And then when they ask you to take an oath, pledge, or some other way of asking you to join, you say NO. I'm sure every organization has that somewhere in their initiation ceremony.

If you're being hazed and don't know what's happening- you do actually know what's happening- you're being hazed!

The only way to have a fair excuse that you don't know what's going on would be if you were drugged, and that's pretty far fetched.

Like I said, unless she had a gun to her head, she had a choice.

It's also fairly obvious that this was a fly by poster that doesn't seem to be coming back

Ask Dionysus. She walked out of hers. :p :)

Yes I'm tacky and quoting myself. I still think the same thing

This thread has me CTFU. How did I miss this?

I didn't really just up and leave during my initiation, lol. I was escorted out by two actives. Yeah, it's best to decide if you want to stick with the sorority BEFORE you go to initiation. I did express indirectly that I didn't want to go through it. I DID felt pressured to go into initiation, but not forced.

You are so wise.

Re: is this possible?
 

Oh yeah...don't listen to her. A few BITCHES from another sorority told me the same thing. As I was quitting, the president from my sorority told me no. The greek advisor said maybe. I went on GC to ask...and no comment what they told me here. I never found the right answer...and it really doesn't matter now because I graduated.

When I was active in Alumnae Panhellenic, we found out about a girl who pledged at a school in Cali, did not like it, transferred to a school in Ohio, and without ever formally depledging at her old school, she pledged another NPC group and was initiated at her Ohio school.

Now, no longer being a student may have automatically "de-pledged" her, but we were all confused because some alums from various groups said they considered it a depledging because the girl was no longer a university student, but others insisted that their groups required the pledge to sign a form, and that created the mandatory year long wait, no matter where she was enrolled.

None of us notified either of the groups, because we didn't want to be the"bitches" to tattle on this girl.

I do know this is different for an active, but don't the fraternities have a different scenario?