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Shanums 08-04-2002 06:11 AM

No, I have never cheated on anyone. I am not sure as to whether or not anyone has ever cheated on me. And, I can honestly say that I've never thought about cheating on anyone.

Why? It makes you look stupid and requires too much extra work. When you cheat, you are basically saying that the person you chose to be with is not good enough. This makes YOU, not the other person, look stupid because it implies that you can't trust your own judgement. If you can't trust your own, whose can you trust. JMHO.

ykimber 08-04-2002 07:10 PM

Re: how you ever cheated??
 
Quote:

Originally posted by MaMaBuddha

have you ever cheated on your significant other? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif
have you been cheated on by your significant other? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif
have you ever thought about cheating? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

last but not least why did you cheat?

Yes, I have cheated
Not my current
Yes

The reason that I cheated was my exboyfriend was cheating on me and he didn't think I knew and I just decided to cheat on him with my first love because we had remained friends and we still attracted to each other.

kissy324 08-05-2002 08:36 AM

"have you ever cheated on your significant other?
have you been cheated on by your significant other?
have you ever thought about cheating?"

YES- I was very young when I met my significant other, and let's just say that I was still a little on the "wild" side. I wanted my cake, and had to eat the whole thing (slice by slice) too. :D

YES- Well, I was doing the same thing. :rolleyes:

YES- I still have temptations, but I haven't acted on them in a while. ;)

DSTilmatic_1913 08-05-2002 09:34 AM

No.
YES!! (Triflin' ba*****)
No. What's the point? If I can't trust you then we just won't be doing the relationship thing.

And I second the motion concerning the baby mama drama. Definitely not worth it unless you are 100% sure that he is the one!

Lizanabavi 08-05-2002 04:42 PM

No

Yes

Yes - I have been very tempted to cheat. One thing I think men
take for granted is that we(women) will always be
there... and that we will put up with them treating us
any kind of way and not get tired of it.

We have numerous opportunities to step out -usually when a woman cheats it's because she's found out her significant other has been unfaithful to her.

9dstpm 08-07-2002 12:58 PM

Cheating
 
Yes, I have cheated and as a result, I have a lovely 7 year old son. I don't regret having him but I regret cheating and thus ending a longstanding relationship that could have lead to the altar.

Yes, I have been cheated on. My ex-husband cheated on me (that's why he's the ex). I was angry, but then when I moved out, I had time to think about past relationships and accepted it as what goes around comes around. I cheated on a good man and then my husband cheated on me, a good woman. However, that didn't stop me from getting 1/2 and alimony!!

I haven't even thought about (let alone actually) cheating since my son was born. I know have a good man in my life and we're getting married next year. Things sometimes get boring and redundant at times, but I know now that a good relationship is not and will not be all romance and passion and sex and dinner at Olive Garden all the time. There are times when he just tells me that he loves me and kisses me on the forehead, rolls over and tells me that he's too tired for love making sometimes, and we have Meijer brand mac and cheese or ramen noodles for dinner sometimes. But he knows who's the queen, because he's the king!

When I look back, I cheated becasue I was immature. I thought that my old boyfriend was supposed to sex me up all the time, take to good (expensive) places all the time and just basically bow down to the queen:p and when he didn't do that, I went looking for someone who did and I paid for it dearly! I'm blessed that my "payment" for playing around on my sig. other was my son and I straightened up my life instead of suffering in a hospital with AIDS.

tudibuk 08-07-2002 03:41 PM

Re: how you ever cheated??
 
Yes, I have cheated.
Yes, I have been cheated on.
Yes, I have considered cheating.
Yes, I have helped someone cheat.

Why? Immaturity and at the time I cheated (several years ago), I had the mind frame of "do unto others as they would do unto you." I was not proud of my actions, but at the time I felt I was justified.
As far as helping someone to cheat, I realize that after the "deed" has been done, I still feel empty because that person is still going home to his wife. I'm going home to an empty house!
This forum is great!!!:D

Koss28 08-08-2002 08:18 AM

No, I've never cheated but my last GF kept accusing of it to the point I really considered doing it. But after awhille I got tired of all his accusations and lack of proof and broke up with her to her dismay. Interestingly enough, we still talk now and then and she's got a new BF. I told her don't make the same mistakes she made with me.


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