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IowaStatePhiPsi 11-01-2004 02:53 AM

I have no hometown anymore. My parents and I moved from my hometown when I was 14, moved to another town when I was 16, and then my parents moved again after I came to Iowa State. I can't claim any of those places as my hometown as I barely know anyone and few people remember me.
I rarely go to any of those towns, and have only been to my parents' new place 5 times.
Instead of "a man without a country" I am "a man without a town."

cutiepatootie 11-01-2004 04:01 AM

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Originally posted by gphiangel624
I don't "hate" my hometown, but I definitely don't like living there. I mean, you can't complain too much about a small city in a hot, almost desert-like valley that's only 1-2 hours from the beach, big cities, Mexico, the desert, and the mountains... we have everything nearby. My biggest issue with Moreno Valley/Riverside California is that you need to get away from it to appreciate the few good things about it. I only live 45 miles away and I've started to appreciate that you can find a decent home in a decent area for a near-decent price (yes, even MoVal and Riverside are overpriced... it's California).

If I end up moving back to the MoVal/Riverside area, I definitely won't be living in Moreno Valley itself... 22 years in that city has been enough for me, thank you very much.

I pretty much had two small towns i grew up in in the same area as gphiangel lived. I grew up both in San dimas/ glendora area and also in Victorville( San Bernadino county).

I DETEST victorville and that is where i went t o HS and where i moved to when i divorced and bought my house. I also grew up and lived in the san dimas glendora area and absolutely love it there.

Victorville is getting to be purely ghetto and i hate it. No values or morals here and it is UGLY.

Where as Glendora there are morals and values with a small town family related feeling. When i sold my house last yr and moved here i was leaving a great church family , many perks to living in the san gabriel valley, and the feeling of safety , and the ease to get anywhere at a decent amt of time.

Where as victorville you have to COMMUTE.....no way around it.......the new houses up here are great and i LOVE my house , but i detest this place and the ppl here ...except for the few ppl i know that still live here.

Lady Pi Phi 11-01-2004 09:13 AM

Taualumna,

I hate Toronto too. I am so sick of this city and I really need to leave. I'm planning on moving out of the city...out of the country in fact when I finish my program.

Toronto is a hole. But for me it's not because it's too liberal...just a little too Liberal. The TTC is NOT the better way. It's far too expensive, it's making me sick. I just think I need a change of scenery, even if it's only for a few years.

Dionysus 11-01-2004 11:28 AM

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Originally posted by cutiepatootie


Victorville is getting to be purely ghetto and i hate it. No values or morals here and it is UGLY.

Where as Glendora there are morals and values with a small town family related feeling. When i sold my house last yr and moved here i was leaving a great church family , many perks to living in the san gabriel valley, and the feeling of safety , and the ease to get anywhere at a decent amt of time.

:confused:

Okay, some places are "ghetto" and some are not. But...you're not going to find a place with "morals and values" or "no morals and values". It's about the same everywhere....immorality just shows up in different ways. Sometimes it is blatent and overt, sometimes it is subtle and covert.

DeltaSigStan 11-01-2004 11:59 AM

I still live in my hometown of San Diego. I wouldn't say it's the problems with the town so much as the town not fitting the type of person I am.

1) San Diego is too laid back for me. I constantly need to be doing SOMETHING for some reason, and I think the city moves too slow for me.

2) Well, this is a bias standpoint, but of course, San Diego is a very superficial town.

3) This is NOT, HAS NEVER BEEN, NEVER WILL BE a sports town. SD is probably the most fair-weather sports city in America. There's just too much to do elsewhere to get religiously involved with sports, and I need to be around an environment where people actually take their sports teams seriously.

The positives (best weather on Earth, hottest women in California, most polluted yet still inhabitable beaches on CA) outweigh the negatives, but spending 21 yrs here, it's time for me to leave after graduation.

I can only hope Boston is the city I imagine it to be.....

Peaches-n-Cream 11-01-2004 12:27 PM

I have only heard really good things about San Diego. I visited when I was 14 and really liked it. It's supposed to have the best weather during the winter when we in New York are covered in a foot of snow. San Diego is one of the few places to which I would consider relocating if the winter weather becomes too much for me to handle. :)

Taualumna 11-01-2004 12:41 PM

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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
Taualumna,

I hate Toronto too. I am so sick of this city and I really need to leave. I'm planning on moving out of the city...out of the country in fact when I finish my program.

Toronto is a hole. But for me it's not because it's too liberal...just a little too Liberal. The TTC is NOT the better way. It's far too expensive, it's making me sick. I just think I need a change of scenery, even if it's only for a few years.

Where do you think you're going to go? My parents want to send me to China to take Mandarin for a year. It's not really something I want to do :(....I guess I'll have to look for something on my own.

EEKappa 11-01-2004 02:36 PM

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Originally posted by DeltaSigStan

I can only hope Boston is the city I imagine it to be...
If you're imagining that it's cold, very cold, and then colder, then your imagination is right on target.

:D

I live an hour north of Boston, and would trade you San Diego in a heartbeat. IMHO, it's far superior not only in weather, but in temperament of the people who live there.

(Geez, I guess I'm pretty cranky considering that it's only the first week of Standard Time and the snow hasn't even started piling up on the streets yet.)

bcdphie 11-01-2004 03:04 PM

There are some things about living in Vancouver that drive me up the wall, such as people who drive without licenses and people who refuse to serve you in English (or French), but it's nice living in a liberal, multicultural city (most of the time).

I think everyone has some issue or other with their city; if you lived in a city your whole life and outsiders come in and change its face its hard and vice versa, if people move to a city and it's not what they expected they make not like it.

DeltaSigStan 11-01-2004 03:07 PM

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Originally posted by EEKappa
I live an hour north of Boston, and would trade you San Diego in a heartbeat. IMHO, it's far superior not only in weather, but in temperament of the people who live there.

I sweat very easily. A cold place would be the perfect setting to avoid this embarassment.

I'm also suffering through a long curse that's provided many let downs, so I think I can relate. In terms of temperment, I'll trade rudeness for superficiality, but that's just me.

The sun's over rated.......

EEKappa 11-01-2004 03:27 PM

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Originally posted by DeltaSigStan
I sweat very easily. A cold place would be the perfect setting to avoid this embarassment.

I'm also suffering through a long curse that's provided many let downs, so I think I can relate. In terms of temperment, I'll trade rudeness for superficiality, but that's just me.

The sun's over rated.......

You're going love it here then!

Just invest in some wool clothes and boots, you'll be good to go. :) Luckily, Trader Joe's finally made it here a few years ago, so it will feel almost like home.

Hope everything works out for you in Beantown.

bcdphie 11-01-2004 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by CutiePie2000
And Calgary and Vancouver have lousy transit systems...
I left the crappy transit system off my list - if you want me to go green build a sky train out my way and lower the cost of transit, oh and a bus route where I only need to take one bus would be nice... :p

Lady Pi Phi 11-01-2004 05:18 PM

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Originally posted by Taualumna
Where do you think you're going to go? My parents want to send me to China to take Mandarin for a year. It's not really something I want to do :(....I guess I'll have to look for something on my own.
I'm planning on moving to England. I can get citzenship through my mother, so really the only problem will be finding a job once I get there. Fortunately I have family that can and will help me out until I get settled. I really need a change and an adventure.

Find something you enjoy and go for it.

Lady Pi Phi 11-01-2004 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by CutiePie2000
As someone who has lived in Toronto, Calgary and Vancouver (my hometown), I will tell you that if you think Toronto is too liberal, go live in Calgary for a while, where people are scary right-wing. And Calgary and Vancouver have lousy transit systems...I thought the TTC was pretty good in Toronto. At least in Toronto, when you are conneting from the subway to the bus, you can wait in COVERED areas (Calgary has not thought of these things...duh)
I've never taken any other transit system, so I don't have anything to compare it with. But right now, it's still not the better way.

I consider myself liberal, so that's not my issue with Toronto. I am definitly NOT, nor will I ever be a "big L" Liberal. But that's not really a Toronto things as it is an Ontario and Canada thing.


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