LOL. I was wondering when someone would bring that up.

The best movies to know about the Tantrica practice is:

The Kama Sutra--and Indian movie about the tales of love...

Bliss--with Craig Sheffer

The best book on the Tantra is by the Muirs, "The Art of Conscious Loving".

The best set ups are by The Kama Sutra--Weekender Collection and Body Chocolate Paints by Dilitante Chocolates...

Also, Queen Afua's Books on Afrikan Holistic Healing teaching appropriate cleansing habits before and after sex for healing baths...

Such as Sandlewood Oils are good for most men, whereas, Rasberries are good for women... There are reasons for that... Let's just say it tastes better...

Margot Anand music is a must to put sound in the mix. And there some Tantra CD, but, I think it's a waste of time and money...

Like I said on some other posts, only practice the Tantra carefully--NEVER do it with any old body. Most people's guards are waaayyy up the first time they have sex with a new partner. So performance is very low.

Also, if no relationship has been expanded, no matter how high the level of attraction, the sexual act will have a level of violence or quickness or whatever level you want to assess to it.

Besides, the Tantra was used to help procreation, so folks who do not want children will want to watch for that key aspect...

And, when one lets his or her guard down, then there is always a risk of inappropriate feelings arising... Something that they call the "gut chakra" activating... Especially when you are trying to get to the green heart chakra and beyond...

Just think, one look by your lover will make you express the "nectar of Amitra"... Y'all ain't ready for no kinna special lovin' by Shakti and Shiva...

Tantra means expansion... The Divine Sex... Folks who practice it, maintain their love relationships...

Now as far as the type--such as a "dichotomous relationship" or "multiple parties involved one" are two different stories...

Believe me, finely practiced players get angry when their world's rocked... Think PC muscle "scratch" without anal stimulation...

The University of Indiana has an institute to answer such questions... might want to ask there.

I think I'm in love . . hehe . . . ;)

You best be careful... It might be a bit too much power between your legs, honey... Sho you got the DCIK-strength???

Okay so I have a question.

Say a girl meets a guy and they have a one night stand. That's all they expected -- just a one night bang and that's it.

Fast forward two and a half years later -- they've never officially hooked up (even though he buys girl Tiffany's/Coach/Louis for her bdays and Xmases), but they still get together (all the time, even when he's had GFs) and it's always like it was the first night. Bear in mind that guy always calls girl and girl HAS NEVER called guy whenever she needed some ass.

Would it be egotistical for the girl to think that she's doing something right? Or should she just assume that guy is just a horny bastard who gets tired of his hand or his GFs that can't quite hit it? :confused:

The girl should have a small statue made of her so that other girls may show their appreciation.

She gets wild sex when she wants it and he buys her expensive gifts but doesn't try to control her?

She should write a manual lol.

She gets Tiffany's/Coach/Louis for Birthdays and Christmases??? Then, she's Finessee-ing and layin' it on him right to get the hook up like dat...

Slow motion for him...

But, hey, Homey knows what homegirl is AND he knows her price range...

That's why you just don't layin' it onnn lak dat, back, front, side ta side, to I like it daddy---and be sharin' dat chit with sum odda chick...

But don't hate, 'cuz boy's being a playa... Don't hate the girlfriend, 'cuz she really don't know... Just know the game--And it just gets Pimped lak dat dere...

Oh, I think the manual is already in the works. :D

He doesn't control her and vice versa. She doesn't expect the gifts, but they're definitely appreciated.

What's cool is that they're friends and they respect each other a lot.

To sum it up, he's convenient, she's convenient. Everyone's happy.

Sometimes the girl feels bad because she know he got a girl.

But fcuk dat, a woman has her needs.

I think that I am probably bad at sex. A lot of times I just want to lay there and not do anything which doesn't usually work out since 99.9% of guys like the girl on top. Which I believe is because THEY don't want to do the work. Lazy asses.

Oh and my ex boyfriend told me I was an awful lay after I've had too much to drink, but I guess thats probably what happens when you can't even remember your name.

My friend Dara was notorious for falling asleep on her BF. I think it's obvious that their sex life was bad.

Thats when you just pile the pillows up, put your head on them and put the ass up in the air. You don't have to work and no guy ever gets lazy over that one. ;)

When the glass windows are broken by my man's voice at the end of the night, that's how I know I'm that damn good. :cool:

Imperial1

All of you girls that are making your BF Black Out . . . you need to teach a class.