I've been feeling like Collin Farrel in the movie "the recruit" while I beat the crap out of the punching bag at the gym. Smiley needs to send me a pm cheering me up.

Actually, more and more couples are going to pre-marital counseling. I think it's required in some States. It helps to iron out any issues before marriage to make the relationship more stable. There is no relationship out there that couldn't use a little bit of work. The therapist is there to help resolve differences and teach the couple how to deal with problems constructively. Research has shown that couples who had pre-marital counseling have a much lower divorce rate.

Ever seen how to loose a guy in 10 days? Something like that, right? If I've done nothing wrong...how would that help me? :confused:

she really is a bitch. pre-marital counseling is bullshit in this case. she's obviously got some serious mental issues. pre-marital counseling isnt going to change her mind about things. its going to take some counseling on her part to make her realize she's not her mother and her mother is wrong. i can relate to her with the bad parent thing (it is my dad) because it f's with my thinking a lot. when a parent thinks a certain way you cant help but to wonder if theyre right. but i realized that i was lucky and if i turned into that, i'd lose him. she needs help. cashmoney...help her. if you love her, try to make her see whats going on and how wrong her mother is. if her mother hates her so much then why is she being a kissass and acting like her? to please her.

You basically just described 99.9% of the women in this country.

I'm sorry about your troubles.

But look for the silver lining here, isn't it better that you are realizing this now and are out a diamond ring, rather than end up in a miserable marriage that would probably end in divorce and have you paying out the nose in alimony??

Everyone should just be single anyway.

Yeah!!! :D

I don't want to believe that, but for some reason I'm inclined to side with you. That actually worries me. All that tells me is most of the married men out there are all pussy whipped and they're wives run them. I'm seriously wondering if thats how shit really is in married life. But then you have people like my parents, where the man wears the pants. Like my dad said, either you put her in her place or you leave her. One thing I noticed right off the bat when I began dating her....the women in her family all try/do wear the pants in their marriages.

I've been going to the gym 2 times a day....its helping a bit. But yea, its better to go through this now than 5 yrs and 1 kid later. Its sucks though, I'm still paying that ring off. You have any idea how much a 2 kt diamond ring costs these days? Phucking ridiculous. :mad: :mad: :mad:

I need a booty call.

Yeah they're nice until they go crazy.

Maybe I'm terrible for focusing on this, but why don't you get the ring back?

Booty calls are therapeutic and definitely the way of the cougar.

we still luff you Cash!