September 17th!

I wouldn't go. It doesn't matter how "alright" your ex tells you she is with you attending his wedding, there is bound to some animosity in the back of her mind. Why give her cause to have more anxiety on her special day than need be?

It's times like this that make me happy that, even though I am still friends with a lot of my exboyfriends, they do not put me in the awkward situation of inviting me to their weddings. I know for sure that one of their wives would have told her husband that it was fine if he invited me and then completely freaked out when she saw me there. She still really has a complex about me and I don't know why. Oh well! It's her loss ;)

It's your decision, but I wouldn't attend.

Women are competitive . .. or so i have been told.

So, if you are clearly and objectively better looking, don't go. It will make her feel bad about herself.

IF she is clearly and objectively better looking, go, cause she will see the difference right away and be relieved.

Honestly, I have had girlfriends that had a best guy friend or best-ex-boyfriend . . . and I was always relieved to meet them, it was a competition issue.

YES.

(Only because I hate that word "Co-Sign")

don't go. sounds like a trainwreck waiting to happen.

no matter how happy you are w al and he is w his fiancee, you just don't know how emotions will play out that day.

plus, if it was my wedding and one of mr amycat's exes was there? I'd be VERY unhappy with that. I don;t think most brides want a reminder of their new husband's past love life around on their wedding day.

Hey if she was hideous and you knew they were still friends . . would you feel better though?

Okay... I think I've made up my mind not to go. I'll still invite him to ours, but I just don't know enough about his fiancee, and don't want to run the risk of being a drama-starter.

Thanks for the advice, yall :)

Send her a really really really nice wedding gift :) Then see if she still wants you to go, hehe

If you get an invitation and want to go, I say go. You know you are mature enough to handle it and I doubt that you will really have that much interaction with him while you're there - the groom is usually a little preoccupied with the bride and making sure to greet everyone.

I'd go. WEddings are fun.