Not to kill the morale but.....
 

Y'all are a trip. Here's mine:

I cannot get my mother to understand: How much my life changed when she passed away.

Focus on the postive stuff. I would do anything to have my mom call me before 7pm, give me advice, or fight my battles for me, or any other thing that used to get on my nerves. Trust me, when your mom is no longer there, you miss those little things that used to peeve you. And mother's day is so much more difficult, when you are a motherless new mother.

Happy mothers day to you all.

Sistahdiva, you KNOW that we are birds of a feather! I've already told you all about it.... :p

Re: Not to kill the morale but.....
 

I wish my mom would understand that I can't have a job from 9-5 like she would love for me to, AND go to school 9-2. Mommy, I'm not cloned, nor will I be cloned. I have an almost full time job in the summer, so during school season can't I just have a slack job of some sort and it be ok with you????

No Matter How Hard I Try,
I Cannot Get My Mother to Understand...

that the reason my phone bill is so flaming high is because I'm talking to HER all day long!

We talk every single day, bare minimum an hour a day, over the dumbest stuff, watch tv/surf the internet together over the phone (yes, my roomate thinks I'm CRAZY) It's sweet, but she shows no mercy when that verizon bill comes through and she knows that all those charges are from HER phone! (we're like the people on the couples talk free commercial... we need to get that plan!)

I wish I could get ______ to realize_______

My Mom:
* Realize that sometimes I need you to be my Mom and not my friend...
* I'm the daughther, you're the mom...you're supposed to be responsible and in charge...not vice-versa
* It's hard to have respect for you like a mom when you've never been a mom
* I need you to be there sometimes

My Grandma:
* I love you
* I do hear what you have to say/I do listen
* I'm not my mom
* I'll never be my mom
* I can take your advice, but I HAVE to be myself
* Just b/c I'm thicker than I used to be doesn't make me a FAT A@@ so lay off sometimes
* You push me away when everytime I talk to you all you do is give me the negatives of what's going on.

Happy Mother's Day to all!!!

SKEEphis...you're in my prayers
Thanks for saying that, you really made me think.

...that even though I piss her off sometimes, I love her very much and value everything she and my father taught me.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MOTHERS!!!!

that i don't know the answer to everything;

that i really don't like my brother;

that i'm really going to stop shacking and do the right thing;

that i'm too old to have and set in my way to have children;

that i don't won't her washing my clothes;

that the housekey is for her using only during emergencies;

that i can't help but spend money on my godson;

that i'm trying hard not be as picky as she is and as non-emotional as my father;

that i'm not interested in her soror's daughter cause she is ugly and i don't want to come right out and say that's the reason;

LOL! Professor, although her looks are... unfortunate, I'm sure she has a delightful personality. *smirk*

Happy Mother's Day Sorors, SFs, et. al. :D

Enjoy your day!


Back to the topic:

I wish I would get my mother to understand that no matter how hard she tries, she cannot pull those guilt trips on a sista. :p :D

. . .that despite the fact that I'm now separated, I REALLY AM doing just fine!
. . .that I still feel like such a little girl around her sometimes.

I can't get my mother to understand that I'm 23 not 13
that I like my pants to be a lil' snug. :p

I wish I could get my mother to understand....

* that her actions taught me lessons beyond her wise words.
* that she was a major pain back in the day, but I'm thankful for every prayer she prayed, for every game of mine she attended, for every "you can do it" she ever gave me; (even for some of those undeserved hotwheel track whippings)
* she can stop quizzing my sisters; when it gets serious with somebody I'll holla;
* just how truly thankful I am that she is here to answer the phone when I call;

*P.A.M. -- you, indeed, are one of a kind. I love you


Happy Mothers Day to all the GC moms and those who take on the role for children not their own....

I can't get my mother to understand that I have to learn lessons on my own. Her telling me not to do certain things only pushes me to actually do it. And even though she says, "I told you so," I am so blessed that I have her to offer wise words. She's a phenomenal woman and I love her so much for everything!

Happy Mother's Day everyone!

Honestly there are a lot of things I wish my Mother would understand, but we've had a rough couple of years with her health and my aunts also, so I'm just grateful that she's here to bug me about anything........

I loves my motha GAWD knows I do.......:o but SHE CAN WORK THE HAYLE OUT OF A NERVE sometime.....:D :p