GreekChat.com Forums

GreekChat.com Forums (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/index.php)
-   Dating & Relationships (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/forumdisplay.php?f=206)
-   -   Need advice (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?t=49492)

chideltjen 04-19-2004 05:06 PM

It's the year 2004... no one is stopping you. I say go for it. It will be a good story to tell the grandkids and set the example for future granddaughters, etc...

good luck!

XOMichelle 04-19-2004 06:21 PM

Cute cute!!!! I'd have a cute explanation ready for the DJ. Maybe a small gift to give him? Have fun!

James 04-19-2004 08:32 PM

If a girl asked any decent guy I know to marry him . . . he would thinks he was desperate and feel smothered and skeeved out.

Even if they felt pressured to say yes, I say pressured because if he wanted to amrry you of his own free will he would have asked, it will make him resent you.

So up to you what you want to do . . but honestly stop trying to force him, its just plain wrong.

valkyrie 04-19-2004 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by James
If a girl asked any decent guy I know to marry him . . . he would thinks he was desperate and feel smothered and skeeved out.

Even if they felt pressured to say yes, I say pressured because if he wanted to amrry you of his own free will he would have asked, it will make him resent you.

So up to you what you want to do . . but honestly stop trying to force him, its just plain wrong.

Oink.

AXJules 04-19-2004 10:40 PM

Re: Re: Need advice
 
Quote:

Originally posted by SHEETCAKE
You'll probably have a SHEETCAKE at your wedding.
LOL.

mshoole 04-20-2004 02:55 PM

The verdict is....
 
Well...I asked him, I took him out did the whole dinner thing, He got really red, and sort of was like "oh my god what is she doing?" But he said: "I thought we were already going to get married? But yes I would love to marry you." We set a date. It is going to be October 15, 2005. Yeah, its now official...Hmmm, time to start planning..:)

sairose 04-20-2004 05:17 PM

Congratulations! :D

mshoole 04-21-2004 10:21 PM

No sheetcake Im sorry i didnt bake it in you. :( we did have a huge you on wednesday for his moms birthday though.

LOL....Thanks for asking though

MS

Sister Havana 04-21-2004 11:48 PM

WOOOHOOOOO! Congrats! :)

mshoole 04-21-2004 11:51 PM

Thanks everyone for all of your advice. Jeff and I appreciate it very much. We had a great night last night with all of the Tornadoes happening in the Chicago Area. No Sleep for us..Boo Hoo!!! Its okay thats what the weekends are for. ;)

mshoole 04-27-2004 07:14 PM

So Jeff and I went to Ohio this past weekend to tell his grandparents. They were def. not supportive. they think I am too young and not a good match for him. And they think he got me knocked up and that is why we are getting married. I thought they needed to mind there own business and just say congrats, but Jeff said they were not going to and that I needed to keep quite when I saw them. I did and that Im so happy its over now.

Updated today April 27th 2004

James 04-28-2004 09:39 PM

Goodness, you managed to put the entire plot of an After School Special into one paragraph. How sordid.

Quote:

Originally posted by mshoole
So Jeff and I went to Ohio this past weekend to tell his grandparents. They were def. not supportive. they think I am too young and not a good match for him. And they think he got me knocked up and that is why we are getting married. I thought they needed to mind there own business and just say congrats, but Jeff said they were not going to and that I needed to keep quite when I saw them. I did and that Im so happy its over now.

Updated today April 27th 2004


mshoole 04-30-2004 11:32 AM

I am guessing that is a completement? LOL...yeah I can put an messed up weekend into one quick and to the point paragraph. Wish I could do that with the rest of my life.


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 07:13 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.