XOMichelle |
04-12-2004 04:55 PM |
jubilance-
Yes, a lot of people do seem to think that integration and assimilation are the same thing. In fact, there were a few girls in my dorm who weren't really ever in the club becaue they weren't Mexican enough (which is funny becasue the kids from Mexico never actually went to to the cultural center... they were different from the Mexican Americans, becuase the cultural center kids were American, and they were "real Mexicans").
I don't think they are the same thing at all. Holding onto your cultural roots and becoming a responsible citizen are not mutually exclusive. My entire family is Polish, and I'm aware of that. I've looked up the history on Polish immigrants and am proud of their perseverence to give me a better life. I'm sure they would be happy with where I am (my great great grandaughter does what? In California! Wow!), even though I don't speak Polish, I can't cook their food, and I've decided not to be Catholic (ok, now they can roll in their graves). But I don't see how getting along and finding similarities between groups mean that you no longer have ancestors, or a cultural history. Every culture changes. As long as you think you are changing for the better, then why not? You aren't turning your back on your haritage if you are making changes so your kids can lead a better life. In fact, I would argue that anyone would be continuing their heritage if they acted to lessen racial tensions in their community, since everyone's heritage includes sacrifice for the next generation.
Also, why must everyone from a culture be the same? Just as I am not less a product of my heritage because I decide to triumph some cause that has nothing to do with Poles. You aren't less Indain or Black, or Chinese if you have white friends or if you are in an NPC sorority, you have simply chosen to be different.
I think the main idea is to get people in our generation and future generations to see that we have more in common with eachother than we have differences.
ETA- I guess I hsould say that I don't think there should be one culture, nor do I think cultural associations should be banned. No one's identity is in question, and I understand that a supportive, comfortable place is necessary to get by (thanks to a trying 4 months in Spain). My thought is that these self segregation groups are a symptom of an underlying problem. From personal experience I've been able to be friends with some people with a strong ethnic haritage, and unable with others.
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