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His perspective is primarily from his undergraduate greek system, which dates to the 19th century. His graduate work was at schools without greek systems, so he had no direct frame of reference at those two schools. Also, I'm sure that he talks with his peers about these issues. As far as the cost of preventives making GLOs less affordable, the current trend is of increasing membership size, as liability insurance is at an all-time high. I don't believe that the numbers show any correlation between the cost of liability insurance and the ability to maintain, and even increase chapter sizes. Quote:
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So are you agreeing with me that if things keep on the way they have, eventually there won't be such a thing as a chapter with less than 100 members, solely because it won't be cost effective? If so, that sucks. (Not the fact that you agree, but the fact that would happen - not everyone wants to be in a huge chapter.) |
Most schools got rid of in loco parentis in the late sixties-early seventies. It came directly out of the whole sixties student movement and student demands for greater freedom from the university administration. For example, my mother graduated from college in 1957. She lived in a women's dorm with a 10PM curfew on the weekend and bedchecks. Curfew was midnight on the weekend. If you were not in your room at bedcheck, you got in trouble. Women ate in a separate dining hall at assigned tables and could not leave the table until everyone at the table finished eating. If you went out on a date on the weekend, you had to sign out and tell where you were going. In those days colleges had at least as many rules as there were living in your parent's home, and my mother even went to a state school!
Imagine her reaction when in 1987, she found out we could have female visitors in our rooms until 2AM on weekends! In her day, men weren't allowed out of the lobby! Now I'm surprised when I started working at a university where all the dorm floors are co-ed, and there's no visitation hours.(the bathrooms are single sex though) |
I remember the 18 drinking age (for 3.2 only) when I first rushed - and this was the very end of wet-rushes. Wow.
Things certainly have changed, I can definitely say, for the better by raising the drinking age - I was "fortunate" I guess that I wasn't affected by the change to 21 (I was grandfathered, and one of my AM class members missed the cutoff by ONE DAY - was he ever pissed) - but those days were definitely wild. Too wild, really. The risks people took - driving, social issues, while intoxicated...unreal. Also, it really allowed the focus to be on alcohol more than what we should have focused on as fraternity and sorority members - we were too interested in abusing the pleasures of membership, versus focusing on the responsibilities of membership. Things have changed for the better in that department, in my opinion, for the most part. I'm somewhat glad the age was raised - though I don't see the problem it was intended to fix as having been solved at all - it still happens all to often (I still don't get how 18-20 year old students feel this "entitlement" to be able to drink as well - it is illegal, and that is just the way it is - don't like it? Work to change it!) What really bugged me about the change - was how the federal government put so much pressure on states to make the change by threatening to withhold money for highway/road projects in-state. I always found that tactic to be somehow unconstitutional, but no one ever challenged it, they just caved in to the demands. |
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In Loco Parentis was an issue of whether a university should act as a students parent away from home. Most of the things mentioned by BSUPhiSig were still in place for women when I started college in 1965. They slowly began to relax at about that time. I would credit things like the Women's Movement, the Vietnam War and just the general cultural change that led to things like allowing 18 year olds to vote (1968). So, it doesn't track to me that as young people were given more responsibility and taking the option to drink away would go hand in hand. Seems to me that they were in direct contradiction. The opposite dyanmic. For whatever it's worth, one of our long time chapter advisors is the City Attorney in a college town, and it is his opinion that the drinking age for beer should be lowered to eighteen in order to take the "thrill" of "breaking the law" away. It would make things a lot easier on the police and the courts -- at least in that situation. |
This isn't really on topic, but I went to hs (in Florida) with a guy who wanted to go to Tulane specifically because he thought it was the best school in Louisiana at the time. He was set on a Louisiana school for college because at that time they were the only state to have an 18-year-old drinking age. Well, he got in, went, and they raised the drinking age to 21 his first semester! He was so pissed! So he left and went to FSU.
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I entered college in Kansas in 1954. The legal age for beer was
18, we had no liquor sales then. We drank legally, but NEVER, NEVER in the house and we rarely had "keggers." We never approached sponsors or school officials with booze on our breath. We were, I guess, discrete, or we may have been called "hypocrites." We policed ourselves, and were a bit tough on drunks, criticized them openly in chapter meetings. We did NOT drink in the house...we did not vomit on the SAE lawn or pee on the Sig Ep porch. We had rather strict manners, and as I see it now, held our booze and manners considerably better as compared to today's 21 age. I am sorry, folks, but if we can draft you to be killed at 18, you sure as hell can have a drink. But, with it comes responsibility. Some of you will disagree, that's ok, too. I worked off a lot of the booze jitterbugging. We had fun and I do not know of any drunk drivers, or bad behavior. We did not have confrontations, either, with the many non-Greek administrators that you have to put up with, so I am sorry for you all. I had a wonderful experience and wish it for you-all, too. EPC, TKE |
The 70's...
I can't even remember when it changed. It (alcohol) was all over the place. No real control as anyone could attend TGs that the fraternities held at their houses. This was about every other weekend. Bars never looked too closely at an ID and some didn't even have photos. What's was worse (IMO) were the drugs. Kids mixing them with drinking made for real heavy safety issues in every vein. No concept of a designated driver existed-not in anyone's vocabulary. People driving on the Houston freeways loaded out of their MINDS! Philosophically, I agree with the war/drink stance. Yet, I don't think there is the same level of maturity (meaning emotional and responsible) across the board that there was in the past. I don't mean to paint everyone with the same brush, just that a lot of young people are kind of "soft" and immature because many parents (myself included) have pampered them. Then again, I feel sending an 18 year old to war is the equivalent of sending a "teenager" as opposed to a "man". Alcohol appears to be so benign when you are in college. The truth is, many who start down that road cannot see the damage ahead-especially at 18. One thing though-there didn't seem to be as many deaths. Could be they just didn't make news out of it. |
This doesn't really have anything to do with much.. haha... just thought I'd say that over here in England the legal drinking age is 18, so I've been drinking for two years and I intend to carry on when I get to college haha. To tell you the truth I do think that the 21 legal age in the States is much better than our 18.... kids our out of hand over here... because as you all know, realistically, 21 means 18, and 18 therefore means 16... so young teenagers are getting completely out of hand. Also... in the States you can drive at 16... that gives you five years of alcohol free driving. Here you drive at 17 and drink at 18... not good.
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The legal drinking age is 19 in most of Canada (18 in Alberta and Quebec). I entered university when I was 19 (as were most Ontario students because of OAC). My residence allowed all alcohol (except for beer in bottles...cans were fine), so everyone who was of legal age (and I am sure some who were not) had alcohol in their room. I'll admit, that in my first year I was at the bar at least twice a week. When I returned for my second year, I hardly ever went out. Maybe I went to the bar once or twice every 2 weekends. I had other things to, and drinking till I puke wasn't one of them. I still drink, but I don't purposefully drink to get drunk anymore, which I think is the real issue here. So maybe instead of dealing with the drinking age (which I do believe is part of the problem) why we should start asking why is binge drinking "so cool"? |
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Lady Pi Phi-So maybe instead of dealing with the drinking age (which I do believe is part of the problem) why we should start asking why is binge drinking "so cool"?
I'm with you on this! Couldn't agree more! |
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