To be honest, Valkyrie, neither have I; that's why I'm hesitant when I don't exactly feel that way right away.

Although once I did meet a guy who liked me, but I wasn't into him at first. Later on I did develop feelings for him out of the blue. So I guess you just never know.

Your signature makes no sense. In fact it bothers me. Get rid of it and put something funny in there right now. Thanks.

-Rudey

There have to be sparks right away. Otherwise it's like I'm so desperate for a man that I'll look for sparks. That's ridiculous. My parents had sparks right away and they've been married for over 25 years and together for 35, so I'd say sparks work. :D

I went out on my second date with No Sparks Boy last night and there just isn't any chemistry. In fact, I think he's kind of boring.

Now, the problem is--his sister. We work together and she was the one who set us up, and I hear that she can be a little psycho and could basically go completely nuts if I reject her brother.

I hope this is an exaggeration, because I don't want things to get ugly at work.

At least I'm booked solid the next few weekends, and this guy isn't around during the week, so maybe it will fade out naturally.

We told you that would happen, why did you ignore us? :p

I don't know :p