Update: Honestly I havent had time to even bring it up with the bride but we still have 2.5 months :). I really like the hankerchief idea, its a small discrete gesture and she can choose how or if to use it. The wedding that lyssard is in, is for my friend's little diamond sister, I was thinking it would be real cute if they had a family tradition but I think these two diamond sisters have lost touch. Let me know if you have any more ideas!

For one of our Alums about 2 years ago when she got married we all did something a little special for her. She had already arranged for us to sit in a special spot in the church during the ceremony, but the reception was a different story. After they did the bride and groom, and father-daughter dance we did a totally stupid, funny, creative "sister dance." All the ADPis got on the dance floor with her and made a ring and she danced in the middle. I guess you had to be there... But I assure you it definitely made things a little bit more relaxed from there on out. Then again we are all goofy girls :)

This would be absolutely perfect for the Alpha Delta Pi bride!!

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